I’m out daygaming with Suave, using a Starbucks as a base, when a cute red-haired Spaniard walks past. I run out and open direct. She’s flightly at first but soon settles in and I bounce her back to the cafe for an instant date. Her english is weak having only been here a few weeks. After half an hour I take her number.

She’s really difficult to get out on a date and cancels the first two. I’m not even sure why I bother inviting her for a third but I do. Text game is:

Me 12:43pm – Mornin’. How’s my elusive Spaniard?
Her 1:36pm – Haha i’m a little bit sick i hate the weather in London!
Me 1:42pm – English weather is not suitable for weak Europeans 😛
Her 1:50pm – It’s possible… But otherwise the weather in spain is better!
Me 1:52pm – I like cold rain and mist over the hills when I’m hiking. It’s an English thing….
Her 1:54pm – Ok…. So english people are crazy… haha
Me 1:55pm – Just me. Are you free this afternoon? I’m in Covent Garden later.
Her 2:00pm – Not this afternoon, i’m not feeling good and i want to color my hair! Maybe tomorrow or in the weekend?
Me 2:04pm – I’m going to Poland soon, so tomorrow is better. 4pm?
Her 2:05pm – Ok! In covent garden station?
Me 2:18pm – Yeah, in front of M&S. Dress nice, so we match!

Chipmunk-like

The date seems to go well. We have drinks in two pubs and progress to handholding and light kino. She’s IOIing and generally doing the things a girl who is attracted should do but I sense a reticence. Sure enough when I go for the kiss she rebuffs and talks about a boyfriend back in Spain. Aha. I decide this girl is to be shuffled over into low-investment long game. I’ll keep the pot simmering and wait to see how her long distance relationship goes. We swap facebooks.

A couple of days later, on Friday night, I’m having a quiet one. I see her online and open it up:

21:10 Me – oh no, it’s her!
21:12 Her – haha yes! i am!
21:13 Me – what you doing?
21:14 Her – looking for a nightclub to go today
21:14 Me – oh yeah, it’s Saturday
21:14 Her – but we don’t know
21:15 Me – I’m not really a nightclub person. can’t really help
21:16 Her – oooh! you’re so useless!    hahaha
21:20 Me – completely 😦
21:20 Her – baaad baaad
21:22 Me – You gonna dress up nice tonight?
21:22 Her – of course    if we find a nightclub to go yes    haha
21:22 Me – heels    tiny skirt    red lipstick    bleeeeeeeeeeerrrrghhh!
21:23 Her – hhaha    i don’t know yet
21:24 Me – wear big yellow plastic wellies
21:25 Her – yellow? why=    ?
21:26 Me – so the drivers can see you at night when you come home drunk    walking down the middle of the street    like a drunken Spaniard
21:26 Her – haha    nooo
21:29 Her – i go for dinner    byee
21:30 Me – bye

Spanish bukkake

Then it’s Poland and all the naughtiness I get up to there. She completely slips my mind until I see her online when I’m juggling a few chats.

Me 01:40 – the party girl is partying
Her 01:40 – haha    noo    i’m just in the sofa
Me 01:40 – I’m getting ready for bed    shall I tell you a secret?
Her 01:41 – ok…tell me…
Me 01:41 – I’m naked :O    except for my boxer shorts    and dressing gown
Her 01:42 – haha
Me 01:42 – and slippers
Her 01:42 – and is not cold there?
Me 01:43 – very warm    What are you wearing?
Her 01:44 – i’m wearing an orange t-shirt and some jeans
Me 01:45 – not sexy at all
Her 01:46 – no… ‘im not sexy today    haha
Me 01:46 – booooooo    I’m going to bed
Her 01:46 – haha    ok
Me 01:46 – 😉
Her 01:47 – good night naked man

I’d put this girl at 50/50 to fuck her within the next six months. She likes me but considers herself unavailable. I’ll just maintain my value, build occasional comfort, and see what gives.

Krakow again. Suave, Shammers and I are sitting in a street cafe on the main square having lunch. I’ve just ordered a pizza when this girl walks past. Camera on, give chase….

Learning points are:

0:12 – Never move your feet in the first minute if the girl’s momentum is still continuing, or else you’ll give off a creepy vibe and she’ll leave. Just plant the feet, turn your body if necessary, and keep talking.
0:40 – Note how far away she is. I didn’t follow so that calmed her fight-or-flight instinct. Now she’s laughing.
0:50 – I still haven’t killed her momentum so I keep plowing. She was about to accept the complement then walk off. I see this and ask another question to keep her there. You can feel her hindbrain is enjoying this even if the forebrain has somewhere else to go.
1:00 – She’s still wandering off but turned to face me and smiling. Classic forebrain-hindbrain conflict so I just have to keep ploughing and keep it playful.
1:07 – I reel her in by holding out a handshake and asking her name. It would seem socially retarded for her to not shake my hand now, so she comes back.
1:44 – Her English isn’t very good so it’s tougher to get her investing. I have to talk more than I’d like but whenever she talks I shut up and give her plenty of time to respond. It’s often tough to resist the urge to keep jabbering on.
2:01 – The first classic IOI but it’s already obvious from her smile that she’s enjoying this. Her nerves are due to the situation and her English, not the idea of talking to me.
2:46 – Very simple sentence structure and basic vocabulary. The vibe is doing the attraction work so I don’t need to overcomplicate it with fancy talk.
3:04 – She’s investing through body language. Would she do this if she wanted to leave?
3:35 – If you don’t find this girl adorable by now, you are clearly homosexual. She’s a perfect example of how a feminine vibe can boost an otherwise unremarkable girl into “I’d love to facefuck her” territory.
3:41 – Personalise the interaction to her. Avoid generalisations about places and interests.
3:52 – I’m having to guide her through the language and suggest vocabulary.
4:15 – I eye-fucking the shit out of her by now.
4:30 – Note how well she holds eye contact while her gestures are open. That’s the eye-fucking at play.
5:08 – She’s in a mild sexual state now. Check out the hand movement.
5:26 – Consider the difference between her at the beginning and now. Killing momentum is crucial.
5:45 – Slower and deeper vocal tone.
6:15 – I think the language barrier is giving her doubts.
6:43 – After getting her email I try again for the number. Rebuffed but no harm in trying. My value with the hindbrain is still good even though her forebrain appears to have a rule about giving her number to men she doesn’t know.
7:20 – Oops!
7:41 – I’ve completely lost the vibe with this new girl and I’ve also realised she’s not hot. Starting to regret opening her.

This girl was from club game in Krakow. She was quite bitchy and full of herself but I went very direct, walked her off to a quiet spot near the dance floor and told her I want to fuck her. Lots of sexual stuff. She was interested but not that interested. About five minutes of shit-testing ensued and I took her facebook before she walked off after three failed kiss attempts.

The type of set you never expect to see again. Totally dead. I didn’t even bother adding her to facebook but then I happen to be trawling through my numbers yesterday morning and I see her name, so I add. She accepts. This morning I’m having breakfast and check out her profile – she seems like a normal nice girl – totally different to the nightclub persona. She appears online and this is our first chat, in full:

Me 10:43 – hmmmm, it’s her……….  [still need to build attraction]
Her 10:45 – 🙂    yes, it’s me 😛
Me 10:47 – You look very very different to how I remember  [a challenge, teasing her vanity to hook her. Imply I’m disappointed by her photos]
Her 10:47 – ohh
Me 10:48 – uh-huh  [begin to flip script to get her investing]
Her 10:48 – I don’t look good in photographs  [is this an early sign of qualification]
Me 10:49 – Let’s see………  [tease]
Her 10:49 – 🙂  [good response, she’s biting]
Me 10:49 – In the nightclub you looked lively, sexy and    to be honest    I wanted to fuck you    in your photos….    you look like my french teacher [I was direct in the club, so stay that way and show some balls, give sexual IOI, then tease]
Her 10:50 – you look I will be a teacher 😛    no    *I will be a teacher  [unexpected cold reading hit – play with it]
Me 10:51 – I didn’t like my french teacher    she was strict  [push her away, but playfully]
Her 10:52 – I won’t bea strict 🙂   [qualifying herself]
Me 10:52 – hmmmmmmmm   [extremely vague response to let her pour her own meaning into it]
Her 10:52 – sorry…my english isn’t good 😛  [settling into a defensive crouch]
Me 10:53 – I understand you    Can I ask a question?  [reward and stack]
Her 10:53 – yes
Me 10:54 – do you have any sexier pictures?    in a bikini, or short skirt….  [more sexual, she’s warming to it. Frame myself as a demanding guy because I’m high enough value to be able to]
Her 10:54 – no I don’t like these photos..  [shit test to see if I backtrack or soften it]
Me 10:54 – I do   [I’m a man, you’re a woman. This is completely natural]
Her 10:55 – your a man 😉  [clearly, she knows this. She’s accepting sexual interest as non-creepy therefore she is pegging me as an alpha]
Me 10:55 – haha  [reward but vague]
Her 10:55 – *you’re
Me 10:55 – What are you doing now?  [defuse sexual tension a little and build comfort]
Her 10:56 – I’m talking about you 😉
Me 10:56 – oh, she’s a comedien!…
Her 10:56 – 🙂
Me 10:57 – grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr    that’s my bear noise  [just playful retarded shit]
Her 10:57 – sorry 🙂    and what are you doing now? 🙂    10 minutes ago I come back around my lessons…
Me 10:59 – I’m in Starbucks having breakfast    and trying to think of a way to get a Polish girl to send me a sexy photo  [bring her on board with my plan, be open about my intentions]
Her 10:59 – tasty:)    oh, you have to try 😉  [playing along]
Me 11:00 – thinking…….
Her 11:00 – maybe some girl will send 🙂
Me 11:01 – So, let’s imagine we are married  [future projection about to start. Pull her out of her normal world and take her on a journey]
Her 11:01 – I can’t imagine these 😛
Me 11:02 – we are on our honeymoon. Where would you like to go?
Her 11:02 – hmm    I would like to see Barcelona    I don’t know now 😛    or having tournee around Italy 😛
Me 11:05 – I had sex in a car in Barcelona.    Let’s got to the south of Italy    to the little fishing towns    like the movie The Talented Mr Ripley  [drive-by sexualisation]
Her 11:06 – I understand 🙂
Me 11:06 – Ok, so it’ll be summer. What clothes do you bring?
Her 11:07 – most important there would be a husband by me    another tops… my favourite jeans or shorts…
Me 11:08 – how about a light summer dress? I like those
Her 11:08 – ohhhh, I love it!  🙂 🙂 [excellent, she’s investing. there’s none of the bitchiness she showed in the club]
Me 11:10 – [link to photo of a nice dress]
Her 11:10 – not really like these 😉
Me 11:11 – So we’ve arrived in Italy. I drive an open-top car to our little beach apartment… like this

Her 11:12 – I like these, on the night [link to some dresses]    haha 🙂    nice dog
Me 11:13 – I like those dresses, but they are eveningwear    you need something for the beach, because that’s where I’m driving  [keep moving it along in my frame, don’t let her sidetrack me]
Her 11:13 – 🙂
Me 11:15 – Ok, so we get to the apartment    put our suitcases down    I have a shower
Her 11:15 – yes…    I think..me too 😛
Me 11:16 – Not together!    We’re just married  [tease, show this isn’t all abotu getting her naked]
Her 11:16 – not together!
Me 11:16 – So I go first, because I’m more important  [chick crack]
Her 11:16 – nno!
Me 11:16 – maybe you cook a quick meal for me
Her 11:16 – it’s not true!  [she’s enjoying being teased]
Me 11:16 – Shhhhhhh!
Her 11:17 – i’m not housemaid    😛
Me 11:17 – Shhhhhhhhh. The man is talking!
Her 11:17 – I want to be most important for my husband!
Me 11:17 – Have you ever worn a housemaid uniform for sex?  [more overt sexualisation]
Her 11:17 – no
Me 11:18 – You should. It’s cool    Anyway…    I finish my shower and relax lying on the bed for a while  [don’t back down, but move it on]
Her 11:18 – I believe to the word
Me 11:18 – Now it’s time to go to the beach    What do you wear?
Her 11:19 – it’s warm?    I think…bikini and..
Me 11:19 – ?
Her 11:19 – lihgt tunic    *light
Me 11:20 – what colour?
Her 11:20 – blue or red    because I have a brown bikini 😛  [this is going well, she’s fully playing along and giving tacit permission to think of her sexually]
Me 11:21 – I like blue    Ok, so we walk to the beach    I’m wearing red speedos
Her 11:22 – why are you so hard with your wife?
Me 11:22 – like the movie    [still from 300 movie]    Haha, if you think this is hard….. wait until we get to the fucking part 😛
Her 11:23 – you have to be a nice…
Me 11:24 – ok, but only because we are married and in love    So    walking to the beach    You walk a few metres in front of me    so I can watch your ass    and legs  [does this need commentary?]
Her 11:24 – omg..    you think only about sex..     woman it’s not onlu sex machine!    remember that
Me 11:25 – I know, women can cook too [cheerful misogyny]
Her 11:25 – pff
Me 11:25 – haha    So we get to the beach, and spread our big towel on the sand    We open the picnic basket    I eat a toasted panini. Mozzarella cheese, sun-dried tomato, sliced egg
with mustard    wholegrain mustard. Not the smooth stuff    what are you eating?  [I’m a demanding guy and I know what I want. I’m also slightly retarded]
Her 11:27 – like French    I’m eating fatty meat, whole-milk cheese and I am sipping with beer    <lol>    joke    light salad…, tomatos and I’m drinking water of lemon
Me 11:30 – nice
Her 11:30 – with lemon
Me 11:30 – I like that [reward]
Her 11:30 – 🙂  [likes reward, she’s accepting the submissive position]
Me 11:31 – Now we go for a swim in the sea    It’s a bit cold, but not uncomfortable
Her 11:31 – ohh my hair! 😛
Me 11:31 – do you pin it up, or let it down?
Her 11:32 – my hair?
Me 11:32 – yes
Her 11:32 – in summer…i like let it down.. I think – it’s sexy  [she’s definitely happy to feel sexy around me now. Notice she’s not trying to take validation from me, she’s simply enjoying the roleplay]
Me 11:32 – nice    So we’re in the sea. I’m splashing you    you are giggling    I carry you on my back, walking through the water    Then throw you under, and laugh  [future projections should involve you somehow getting one over on her]
Her 11:33 – oohh it’s romantic:)  [IOI]
Me 11:34 – You squeak and squeal    So I pick you up over my shoulder
Her 11:35 – 🙂  [all girls like it rough]
Me 11:36 – I slap your ass    then carry you to the sand, and throw you down
like this…

but more gentle    because we’re in love
Her 11:38 – ohh it’s nice 😛
Me 11:38 – And then, as you lay there on the sand, giggling, breathing hard    looking sexy    I look at your tits, and your ass    Then    I get out my nintendo, and play video games    😛   [defuse tension]
My laptop is almost out of battery. I have to go….  [true]
Her 11:40 – ok    we can talk to later  [she’s hooked]
Me 11:40 – have a good day 🙂  [comfort]
Her 11:41 – thanx    you too

Here’s a bit of fun in Poland about an hour before I met the girl I SDL’d. My state was shit and I was trying to find a way to get back into the groove so I thought I’d pull a fairly ballsy opener and then just vibe with some inane free association nonsense.

I guess the only learning point from this video is that you can open a girl by insulting her but if you hold your ground and act like it wasn’t such a big deal, she’ll fall into frame. In this case, not enough to actually build enough attraction.

Krauser gets blown out. For the fifth time that day………

I’m in Ludz on a Saturday afternoon having endured a four-hour rickety train ride aboard the Communist Express. We’re all deadly tired after a long long night out in Krakow and an early rush to the station. Suave has no motivation whatsoever, resting on the laurels of his previous night’s f-close that culminated in taking £10 off the girl to pay for our taxi to the train station and leaving her bewildered on the pavement calling after him “give me the money!”

Shammers and I decide we have to at least try some daygame. It’s 6pm, cold, and few people on the streets. I do a few sets. They all stop but there’s no life in my game and none of the girls inspire me. I notice a tall blonde in a purple coat walk past but by the time I realise I like her the easy moment is gone and I’m too low energy to chase her. She gets lucky – she’s just wandering around while she waits for a bus and I walk past her again on the other side of the street fifteen minutes later. I open immediately as she pulls level.

How she remembers the kiss

Me: Hi! I want to say something…. I just love your coat!

Her: Thank you [big smile]

Me: Did you cut your own hair?  [she has a weird asymetric fringe]

Shammers wanders off to open a cute blonde and I stay in set for ten minutes. My girl is responding great and I just feel the sexual tension between us. Deep eye contact, smiling, crazy leg-crossing. All the signals are there. I test out her time constaint and it turns out she has to get a bus in a few minutes to a rock concert. She’s travelled a long way into Ludz to see this band. So I walk her to the bus stop. I’m still pretty half-arsed – I really need a good night sleep to be effective and I’ve only had two hours plus still got a hangover. My farts are stinking too so I make sure I stand downwind.

As we get to the corner to go our separate ways I’m not even gonna take a number.

Me: Ok, this is where we say goodbye. It was really nice meeting you [she looks at me very sweetly, smiling, and clearly disappointed we will never meet again. I decide to take a risk]

Me: [strong eye contact] Let’s do something crazy!

Her: Ummm, yeah? [smiling in anticipation]

Me: Give me your hands [she does]. Have you ever kissed a guy…. who you just met…. in the street? [serious eye fucking]

Her: No, ummm, er… [smiling, loving it]

Me: [puts her hands on my shoulders, leans in, she leans in – kiss]

Awesome kiss. As mechanical and diligent as I am for daygame I still feel the spark of certain romantic moments and this was one. She looks at me with crazy eyes like she can’t believe the torrent of alphaness that’s swept her up. I take her number and head back for a nap, a huge smile on my face. Text game ensues that evening:

The fringe. My god, the fringe!

Me 8:29pm – Hey, is this Purple? The slightly cute, slightly crazy [subject] teacher who cuts her own hair.

Her 8:40pm – Hey stranger 🙂 here’s a girl in a purple coat, how’s your party?

Me 8:50pm – Hmmmm, what should I do with a girl like that….

Her 8:57pm – I cant focus on the concert because i think about you, is that normal? 😉 maybe you should try to find some nice girl in the club? 🙂 [five minutes of alpha plays havok with a girl’s emotional circuitry. She needs comfort and is hence giving me a player test]

Me 9:00pm – I’m still thinking about you too. You’ve hijacked my mind [in Poland you can get away with 2002 Mystery lines! We were opening in clubs with “who lies more”] :O I think it’s your grey eyes…. entrancing.

We exchange more texts and I end up meeting her at the train station at 3am after my clubbing. An f-close isn’t on the cards so I just work comfort, cat kino, and build towards the harem. The f-close girl from two days earlier is also engaging me on Facebook so I’m thinking I might as well set up a Polish branch of the harem. After finger fucking Purple in the train station I run two hours comfort – very honest stuff:

Me: Ok, you’ve been really nice so I’m gonna let you do something. You can ask me two questions – about anything – and I promise to answer completely honestly. And I won’t be offended by the question.

Her: Really?

Me: Yeah. I’m gonna get a coffee from that machine. Ask me when I get back. Don’t waste them by asking about my favourite colour or food.

She takes it seriously and asks me why I got divorced, and do I come to Poland with my friends to pick up girls. I reframe both into DHVs but still give reponses that are true in both spirit and facts. She loves it – deep rapport. She gives me two questions so I ask how many guys she’s fucked (seven) and what her second favourite dinosaur is (brontosaurus). Then I get a taxi to the hostel and sleep. I’ve been running some comfort on Facebook since then. The plan is to bring her to London for a week of seriously degrading sex.

NB – Kiss close gambit shamelessly pilfered from Yad.

Ok, this post is the final set-up before the fully merged 3-way date. Introducing my favourite girl of the whole Lithuania holiday……. a round of applause for HB High Esteem!

Another one-itis risk in Lithuania

She was another daygame pickup and I really like her. She’s exactly what I think of when I say “high value girl”. She’d been difficult to hook and once I’d calibrated her I’d been even more direct and less gamey than usual. Within a few minutes she was softening and by the tenth minute when I took her number she was very much into me. Text game ensued and again it was without much gamey bullshit:

Me 8:43pm – Is this HB High Esteem? The slighty cute, slighty fun girl in the biker boots who owes Krauser a coffee (white americano, no sugar) [never let it be said I don’t test routines over and over]

Her 8:43pm – Mmm… Depends who’s asking…  [interested but testing]

Me 8:47pm – It’s Krauser’s secretary. He’s a very busy man, but he said he met a girl and he’s curious about her.  [surprise her and open a roleplay, project value and qualify]

Her 8:49pm – Well, it might be her…. But it’s not certain.

Me 8:54pm – Hmmm. What does she look like?  [reduce the wordcount and flip the script so I’m screening]

Her 8:54pm – Major fan of cow boots  [reference to my tease in the pick up. I like her economy of writing – it projects high value]

Me 8:59pm – Oh, it mustn’t be the same girl :O The one Krauser met was cool. I’m sorry for wasting your time….  [she was NOT expecting me to walk away, even as a tease]

Her 9:01pm – Haha though…..  [she’s still trying to lure me into investment and chasing]

Me 9:06pm – About to watch Inception  [snip thread so it doesn’t go stale]

Her 9:06pm – They still show that? A great movie btw

Me 9:10pm – I saw Inception Cat on youtube already  [non sequitor]

Her 9:10pm – I liked shutter island better 🙂  [some investment but still slightly challenging]

Me 9:14pm – WORST MOVIE EVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!   [neg]

Her 9:16pm – Oooooo u just poked the bear, my friend! All twisted movies that r not predictable rock!!! Like Slevin, anything with Kevin Spacey… And shutter!  [Now she’s invested. Note the length and her writing style has become informal. She’s enjoying this]

Me 9:17pm – Usual Suspects. I win 😀  [raise the stakes, reduce my word count]

Her 9:18pm – Hahaha I was typing that but then I said all the movies 😀   [I’ve won her over for a day 2 now]

Me 9:27pm – Anyway, the movie is about to start. What time you free tomorrow? 4pm is best for me  [get to the point before the energy fades]

Her 9:27pm – I can’t, I work. When r u leaving?  [wants to meet]

Me 9:32pm – Wednesday  [keep wordcount low. simple, direct]

Her 10:06am – I could meet u after 5:30  [next day]

Me 10:09am – That’s a very good idea. We’re on! Let’s figure out the details a bit later – I just woke up…. and going back to sleep 😛

While I’m sitting in Papparazzi bar with Jambone, Leggy, Squirrel and Low Esteem I get the call from High Esteem to say she’s nearly at the rendevous. I’ve got to make a decision here of do I isolate her for a normal date or merge her into the big set. Wrongly, I believe I’ve still got a 50/50 chance to bang Low Esteem and don’t want to bail because it’s the last night. I’ve also still got Finland expected around 10pm. Decisions, decisions. What to do?

Coming next: The final video and write up.

This set had started with a ton of promise before logistics intervened and it faded away to nothing. There was no set-ending blow out so really it has just gone cold and needed warming up. So this delightful girl is moved to the Long Game pile and facebook is revved up.

18:44 Me -oh, it’s you….  [tease opener]
18:47 Her – Oooh right, that’s me.;D    Hello.{;    Or tather, bonsoir.{;    rather*   [that’s a pretty invested response. Gonna be easy to be playfull]
18:48 Me – !!!!! :O    What you doing now?
18:48 Her – Chatting with my roommate.{; You?  [hmmm, might need to keep this short]
18:50 Me – finished a book  [draw the question. She’s an educated sort, so probably into books]
18:51 Her – Oooh what book?{;  
18:51 Me – A big one. Long words. No pictures    Not sure you’d understand  [tease – still need to do attraction]
18:51 Her – >;D Oh really? Do I like quite stupid, not to understand it?  [playing along, mild shit test to see if I backtrack and reassure her]
18:53 Me – The Fountainhead    by Ayn Rand  [ignore test]
18:54 Her – I’ll check this up.{;<    Why does it interested you much?  [nice IOI but perhaps she’s just trying to make me carry the conversation]
18:56 Her – interest* sorry my mistakes, in a hurry writing always makes me write stupid things.;D  [or perhaps not, she’s willing to work at this]
18:56 Me – It’s kinda funny    in a cute way   [deflect question and tease by putting her in a little girl position]
18:57 Her – Oh, then it’s oukey, I guess.{;    I’m really sorry for not being able to have a cup of coffee with you, my phone bill was dead, and as I am a student, you know, not a great thing, and parents, and gone to Palanga,no possibilities.;s     [she’s apologising, that’s good. I never brought up the flake so she must feel a bit guilty / disappointed, like she has to keep on the right side of me. Good IOI]
18:59 Me – no probs    I might be back in Vilnius again    I’ll let you know    [no big deal, hold out a carrot]
19:00 Her – Sure thing, anyway, someday we’ll meet again, that’s for sure, it always happens so in my life.;DD    Eventualities, that’s what I mean magic.{;<    [it’s playful but I read the subtext as she really does want to meet sometime. If she was just killing time she wouldn’t bother future projecting and writing it in an interesting manner]
19:01 Me – heh    When are you visiting London?    [plant the seed]
19:01 Her – Ooooh don’t know yet, someday.;D    [fertile soil, but will need time to reap what i sow]
19:08 Me – Gotta go    Talk later    [this isn’t going anywhere yet and I don’t want to overstay my welcome]
19:08 Her – Sure.{{;    See you, Krauser.    [nice she used my name]

Ooh la la

I leave it another week. There’s no timeframe on this so no need to push too hard too fast. Then I catch her online again. She’s obviously a playful sort so I max out that angle;

14:59 Me – Frenchie    [bold, reference to her interests]
15:01 Her – Bonsoir.;D    [accepting the “our world” frame]
15:02 Me – Je ne parlez not the french    pas    [playful]
15:02 Her – ;D Same here, haha.
15:05 Me – still in Vilnius?
15:06 Her – Suuure, I’m studying here.;D
15:07 Me – BOOOOOOORING!!!!    [just being the dumbass]
15:11 Her – It’s not. B} I love talking, so here;s the possibility to do it for all day long. B}
15:12 Me – Oh, you’re a talker?    oh no! What have I gotten myself into……    [frame her as luring me into a trap, the subtext of which obviously means she is chasing me]
15:14 Her – >;D Mhaha no way out, a real maze.   [accepting frame and playing with it]
15:15 Me – !    [reduce my energy, see if she carries it]
15:16 Her – No turning back. {;<
15:17 Me – I’m no push-over    I know how to fight back!    [exactly what it says on the tin]
15:18 Her – >;D Oh really? How?    [nice, she wants me invested too]
15:18 Me – Pushes    Shoves    Grunts    Slaps    Grabbing    [very clear double meaning]
15:19 Her – Mhahahah, ouhouhou, whole armory.;D    [not rejecting it]
15:20 Me – If you continue to be naughty….    I’ll put you over my knee, and spank your naughty bum    then send you to the naughty corner    [slip into a sexual frame, with me as the boss]
15:21 Her – ;DDD Mhaha, no way, I’m not naughty at all.{;<    That’s only your imagination.    And noone will tell me what to do, never. >;}    [token resistance]
15:22 Me – shhhhhhhhh! little girl     [come right over the top with Dad Power]
15:23 Her – >;D I’m not that little, and believe me, I have more power, than average man in his 20-30s {;<    [qualifying herself, playfully]
15:24 Me – shhhhhhhh!    [showing I don’t back down, getting her back up a little]
15:25 Her – Stop it, or else I’ll punish you.;D    [I like where this is going, she’s emotionally invested]
15:25 Me – How? Stamp your little feet and shake your little fists?    [neg, show her I don’t take her seriously]
15:26 Her – It’s good that you think isthis way, this means you won’t be ready for any attack I will make.{;<    [a little exasperated, which is where I want her – in the submissive crouch]
15:27 Me – I’m gonna check your facebook photos now    See if I can find any silly ones    [snip thread]
15:27 Her – ;D What for?
15:28 Me – to laugh at    😛    [tease]
15:28 Her – >;DD Oh yes? Feel free, I don’t mind if someone laughs at me, but you won’t even imagine how i will laugh at your photos >;DDDD Just kidding.;D    [she enjoys the back and forth but is being careful not to offend me, thus she hopes this will continue – a good IOI]
15:29 Me – I’m putting up some new ones today
[dropped connection on my side]

It sucks that I couldn’t end the chat properly but there’s no loss of value in just binning the chat at the end of a thread. She wants more.