Here’s an excerpt from page 103 of my book, talking about eye contact games during the Investment stage.

Your eye contact is your biggest weapon for rooting the girl to the spot. Think back to your beta days (even if that means “yesterday”). It was hard holding eye contact with a girl you liked wasn’t it? You felt an overpowering urge to look away lest she “bust you” for the audacity of communicating that you like her. Best not do that on the African savannah or the alpha male will come and bust your head open.

Hang on, we aren’t in the state of nature anymore. We have a rule of law in this country. Great, we are allowed to stare at girls we like. So why does it feel like we are intruding? Because the whole act of picking up a girl and fucking her is extremely intrusive but allow me to let you in on a little secret – girls want an alpha male to intrude upon them. Don’t fear the eye contact. It’s actually very low risk – you can eye fuck 100 girls that walk past you and not receive a single critical remark because there is no social disgrace for the girl to respond to. She can simply notice the eye contact and move on with her life. The only risk is to your own ego, of being afraid to put your balls on the line and risk her rejecting you.

Use your eye contact to create the love bubble, that little air pocket of seductive romance in the street that only you two share. Look into her eyes with a steady gaze. Don’t come on strong yet. Don’t think “I’m gonna lift up her skirt and fuck her now”, instead think “This girl wants to fuck me. And I want to fuck her. Be patient little girl, you’ll get your chance soon enough.” We are still in the sexual-preview stage, not the actual escalator to sex.

So hold eye contact. Continue the conversation about whatever it’s about. Occasionally look away but not in gamey rapport-breaking gambits. Let her feel the eye contact. Let her look away if she can’t handle the tension. You will be gradually dominating her with your aura. Eye contact will typically go through these stages, characterised by the length of time she holds it until she breaks it.

1. The innocent: She just holds eye contact like she would
   with any other socially normal person in a socially normal environment. The game hasn’t begun.
2. The challenge: She realises you are coming on to her.
   She wants to test your balls. She holds long eye contact to see if you’ll break first.
3. The taming: She accepts you have more balls and adopts
   a submissive frame. She shortens her eye contact, looks down a lot, and seems bashful. She’s accepting your leadership.
4. The tease: She’s thinking horny thoughts now. She starts holding longer, flirtier eye contact. Batting her eyelids as she looks away then looks back
5. The pre-fuck: She is staring wide-eyed and longingly, never looking away.

In each stage your job is to outlast her eye contact so she breaks first. Once she’s broken it’s OK for you to look away too. Don’t get too bad-ass on her and give eye-contact challenges. Continue the conversation, note where you are in the stages, and give confidently strong eyes back without coming over as aggressive. During killing momentum you’ll get innocent eyes. That’ll slide into the challenge during vibing, and you know you’ve gotten to the end of investment when you see the taming. The tease and pre-fuck come much later. If they happen quickly, consider shortcutting the whole model and proceeding directly to verbal escalation.

Check out these two videos for examples of how eye contact creates sexual tension and you cow the girl into submission. Burto’s shows the stages better, but my girl is hotter (as usual)

The mighty Bhodisatta coined the phrase “avoidance weasel” to refer to that voice in your head that keeps psyching you out of approaching by throwing up half-baked rationalisations for why the approach won’t work. While out in Estonia Burto and I were having so much fun that we barely bailed on a single set. That let us have fun mocking each other on the rare occasions we did pussy out of a set.

And thus a new meme was born. Burto will be updating them on his sidebar. Here’s my first crack.

Good reader submissions using the template will earn a spot on my blog. Feel free to rip it off for your own but please give credit to Burto and I.

One of our students on the Estonia residential had never heard of the “Yad stop”, where you jump in front of the girl and stop her dead in her tracks. It’s the basic bread and butter of London daygame. So we taught him that and his results jump up immediately.

It’s always tempting for guys to follow a girl. Even when you’ve done your big “stop” movement, the girl might keep walking and then your feet will start following her automatically. Resist it. Don’t chase the girl. Don’t pander to her whims. A man who holds his ground exercises a magnetic power over women.

Here’s an example.

This hot young thing turned out to be a mum on her way home to her small child. A fair excuse. For training purposes just notice how I never move my feet, I keep talking, and I order her around. She loves it.

This came out of nowhere. Totally opportunistic. I’m dicking around on facebook and set up a Spanish girl to be a fuck buddy on Monday. A girl I instant-dated last summer and haven’t seen since. Couldn’t even kiss close her. But three days of FB chat and she’s up for it.

Opportunity knocks

So this girl comes online. Haven’t seen her since winter – a five minute street close that went precisely nowhere. She accepted the facebook add, chatted a few times, then nothing. Couldn’t get a date or phone number. She comes online for the first time in months and I go right into it – same routine as the Spaniard but with far less comfort built up. At first she’s just playing along like its a game but you can gradually sense she realises I’m serious and she’s getting warm to the idea.

Amazing how a flagrant booty call can be taken so well if you package it right. I haven’t fucked her but I’d say the probability went from 1% to 35%.

Me: the little pervert is back
Her: lol     how you??
Me: it’ summer weather, I’m great!     pervert
Her: why am i a pervert?     😦
Me: you look like one     big raccoon eyes    shaking your sexy little ass when you walk
Her: your the pervert
Me: you’re the bigger pervert     (not literally, you’re only little)
Her: no im not     i am little but best things come in small packages
Me: You think about sex all the time     I don’t. I’m pure like fresh snow
Her: shut up you silly bum
Me: see, all you can think about is my bum     pervert
Her: arghhhhhhh
Me: now you are having sex chat!     :O
Her: 😦     shut upppp
Me: I’m shocked. I’m gonna tell my mum
Her: ok fine im the pervert and im thinking about your bum
Me: I have a tattoo of a rat on my bum     it looks like you     you can come and lick it sometime    I mean, LOOK at it sometime
Her: yuck     you idiot     where’s your panda tattoo?     (i hope you have one)
Me: No. That would be silly
Her: 😦
Me: Where are you from? remind me
Her: im from london i live in a house and i am a human
Me: you liar
Her: enough information?
Me: you are a little rat and you live in the sewers under Aldgate tube station     I’m the rat catcher
Her: you muppet
Me: I have a net with your name on it    fraggle
Her: shut uppppp    your so mean
Me: I heard little fraggles like you are the worst at sex
Her: well if you say so     your always right…and i’m always wrong
Me: heh    I think you’re really cute, though
Her: thanks…but you shouldn’t judge until youve tried…..
Me: oh, I didn’t say I think you’d be a good lay    I just think you have cute mannerisms and an itty-bitty-wascally cute face    if I was gonna get married     …. you could be my mistress
Her: your such a dork
Me: of course, we’d have to work on your attitude    you’re kinda disobedient
Her: but thats the best part    trying to tame me    😛
Me: I’d throw you over my knee and spank your little bum    then send you to make me a cup of tea
Her: awww would that tire you out so much that you’d need a break     owell
Me: if the tea is nice, I’d have your knickers on the floor within a minute     throw you on my bed     bite your neck    slap your arse again     then drink my tea
Her: ha ha     o how lovely for me
Me: I’m a bit selfish that way
Her: i can tell
Me: I’d probably make you cum a few times     but it would be a side-effect     not the main show
Her: hmmmmmmm    that’s not being selfish now is it
Me: Ok, I’ll admit it     sometimes I’m the romantic sort     sometimes     inbetween slamming a girl into the mattress    I can sometimes kiss her, nibble her ear, and softly bite her neck
Her: aww how sweet…
Me: I think you would break    which is unfortunate
Her: i wouldn’t break     but you’d have to see that for yourself
Me: hmmm, are you offering to make the tea?
Her: i’ll think about that…maybe    ok…fine you’ve twisted my arm     😛
Me: Ok, agreed     Get in a taxi     I’ll pay half
Her: ok fine im doing that right now
Me: [my postcode]
Her: ok     expect me over in a bit     i hope your ready
Me: Text me when you’re on the way  [my number]
Her: alright will do
Me: cool, put a skirt on if possible     I’ve have the kettle boiling
Her: why a skirt?
Me: 😉     I like skirts    It’s not crucial    but I like them
Her: ok well i was thinking of just a black mac and my underwear     but whatever floats your boat
Me: sounds cool    do what excites you     and I’ll keep up my side of the bargain and make you cum all night     see you soon
Her: ok see you in a bit
Me: 😉
[she goes offline]

This weekend I had the privilege of working at the Woodstock of daygame. For three days most of the top London guys were herded together for one event to go end-to-end through the Yad/Yosha daygame model. A nice swanky hotel, fifty students, expensive camera kit – the full David D-esque superconference experience. Yad had called me up to help out on the infield and by the last day I ended up doing an impromptu half hour lecture on text game.

A drum solo between acts

A fantastic experience. Great material, great guys.

This isn’t a review because the DVDs aren’t out yet but unlike other “super conferences” that are mostly muppets upselling bullshit products, these were real guys delivering real material: Yad, Yosha, Torero, Alex Love, Sasha, Tomcat.

I made about six pages of notes. I was picking out little nuggets here and there. Sometimes one of the guys would have a turn of phrase that elegantly encapsulated an idea, or some tiny adjustment I hadn’t thought of. The general model was familiar ground to me (but would be gold dust to a newcomer). I’m not gonna rip off their material here, just point out a couple of cool insights:

• Attraction is built on raw unfiltered expression
• Not being yourself creates inhibitions and doubts from the beginning, by denying your expression
• If you wake up one day and your energy is amazing, don’t waste it. Go find a girl
• The masculine vibe must overpower the feminine for attraction to happen
• When you exchange numbers, make sure she’s putting a character into her phone, not a random guy
• The answers are not in your memory, they are right in front of you
• No one cares when a stranger talks about themselves. You are that stranger.
• A high value girl is happy to give you two minutes of nothing as a test. It’s great. Don’t be thrown off.

I might talk about a concept or two in more details later.

It’s finally here. My own Leviathan. This is my pride and joy. For the past six months I’ve been hard at work formulating my model, fleshing it out, testing it, getting fellow daygamers to review it. Finally I’m able to put into words, into a step-by-step guide, the entirety of the Krauser Daygame Model.

I announce to the world Daygame Nitro: Street Pick-up For Alpha Males. The definitive textbook on daygame. This is a handsome 167-page hardback edition with 35,000 words explaining how I pick up girls. Let the revolution begin!

Buy it here.

Learn to pick up girls off the street. Stone cold sober.

In this book Nick Krauser lays out the full plan. From waking up in the morning to putting your cock inside the girl in a coffee-shop toilets, Nick guides you step-by-step through the mindsets, the values, the things to say, the ways to hold eye contact. Everything.

This is an end-to-end exposition of how cool guys pick up banging-hot girls, sweeping them off their feet and into the bedroom. It’s not what you’re thinking. You don’t need to be good-looking. You won’t be driving a sports car, and you certainly won’t be spending any money on the girls.

This is about personal charismatic value. What it is, how to build it, and most importantly how to project it to the girls.

This is the ultimate reframe. This is about hunting down the hottest girls in the world and making them feel lucky that you chose them. This is…

Street pick-up for alpha males.

There will be no ebook. I have no plans to discount the price. The entirety of the book’s publishing and distribution is outsourced to Lulu, so any ordering queries should be addressed to them. All I will see is my royalties when they show up in my bank account. From order to receipt varies but seems to take 1-2 weeks. Any queries about the book’s content, put it in the comments to this post and I’ll try to answer them.

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