UPDATE: Video added

Here’s some more facebook chat. This girl was a street pickup on my third day in Croatia who then went off to collect her two friends and returned for an instant date. It went ok but she’s mostly unavailable for the boyfriend and we never had a day 2. So this is Long Game. The first chat was two days after the instant date, while I was still in Croatia:

Me – oh no! it’s her!!!!!
Her – hahahaha…    and what are you going to do now? xd
Me – I thought first I’ll say some simple things    to relax you  [I’m in a funny mood so I go into a weird meta-game]
Her – oke..I’m listening..xd tell me…
Me – Then when you are relaxed, I’ll make a couple of jokes
Her – haha..oke..
Me – Then I’ll gradually include some sexual innuendo
Her – haha
Me – Then, when you are quite excited, I’ll arrange our date
Her – hahah..I told you that I have a boyfriend..  [this is where I decided it’s gonna have to go to Long Game]
Me – You’re not gonna be my girlfriend. I’m only here one week  [but I try to go the Short route anyway]
Her – I know that..hahah..but he’s gonna be mad if he find out that I’m meeting somebody else…
Me – That’s his problem. Anyway, by the time he finds his gun I’ll be on the flight home [frame him as jealous of me]
Her – hahahahahaahhahahahaha…you’re right..hahaha…
Me – What you doing now?
Her – I’m talking with my stupid friends..and I’m angry now on them..
Me – The ones I met?
Her – no…  [girl 1] and [girl 2] are nice.. XD
Me – It was nice to get some sun today  [don’t let her vent about her friends, snip the thread]
Her – yes..It wasn’t raining today for a change…I hate rain…
Me – I went to Hemmingway cafe by the town hall. Was nice
Her – woow…super….I’m glad for you..
Me – Is that sarcasm, woman?
Her – hahahahha..no…why?? xd
Me – it sounded like it
Her – i’m not sarcastic…don’t worry…
Me – ok, +10 points for you
Her – hahahahahaha…I’m so happy now….aaaaah…
Me – THAT was sarcasm
Her – hahahahahhaha…yes…hahahahahah…:D:D
Me – So tell me a secret
Her – which secret? I don’t have secrets…
Me – Sure you don’t……
Her – so why did you ask me that? xd
Me – C’mon – a secret….
Her – tell me yours and I tell you mine..
Me – You promise?
Her – yes..I promise..
Me – ok, ask me ONE personal question
Her – hmmm…tell me what is the most important for you  on the woman, how she looks or her character??
Me – That has a complicated answer  [make her wait]
Her – hahaha..never mind..tell me…
Me – wait a moment    …
Her – ok..haha
Me – ok…    I’m a man, so obviously I am only interested in pretty women    It’s the first filter    But because of my job, I meet lots of beautiful women    So I have learned not to be too impressed with beauty    The main thing I look for is confident femininity  [screening frame, pre-selection]
Her – hmmm..that’s interesting…    In what way?    because you only  mentioned  appearance…xd
Me – Femininity is a way of moving through the world. It’s an attitude    not appearance
Her – whatever you say…You’re right..xd I must listen to you…haha
Me – My turn…
Her – ok..xd
Me – What is the most embarassing thing you ever did?
Her – hmmm…let me think..    I lied to my mother once that I was with my friends and actually I was with my boyfriend…I was watching her in the eyes and lied…but I didn’t know that she already knew where I’ve have been all day…
Me – ooooooh, I’ll bet you were very timid around her for a few days after that  [showing social calibration]
Her – I didn’t speak with her for a mounth…she was so made at me…
Me – Was this a long time ago?
Her – a year ago…
Me – women!  [framing women – and thus her – as childish and thus me as more mature]
Her – hahahaha….
Me – I’m watching kickboxing on TV. I love it
Her – hmm..I don’t like such a dangerous sport…xd
Me – My favourite fighter is on next    Anyway, let’s do the coffee tomorrow. I might be in Budapest on Saturday
Her – hmm..I’m not sure….because I’m working tomorow….
Me – boo
Her – XD
Me – When you finish work?
Her – at 8 pm..
Me – It might be possible.
Her – hmm..I don’t know..my parents are very strict..If I don’t come home on time..hmm…that wont’be good..xd and I’m scared..hahah….at 8 pm is dark outside…xd
Me – yeah yeah yeah…..    we’ll meet for about 2 hours    I need to sleep too!
Her – haha..I know…
Me – so are you gonna buy some phone credit?
Her – yes..some day…hahaha…XD
Me – hang on….     hey
Her – ey..xd
Me – had to help my friend….  [mild DHV]
Her – ok..     that’s nice..xd
Me – I’m going to bed soon. Find a way to contact me and we’ll sort something out
Her – ok.. xd    goodnight
Me – sleep well
Her – you too

I leave it at that – though she’s attracted she’s basically telling me it’s not enough to overcome her boyfriend. Fair enough. Two weeks later I reopen her, when back in London. Again this is the full text, so these two conversations are 99% of our contact since the date (the remaining 1% is light text chat)

Me 23:11 – Have you been stealing motorbikes again?  [she’d just tagged herself in a photo straddling a superbike]
Her 23:12 – hahahah…no…that’s mine..xd
Me 23:12 – Really???? I don’t believe you  [she responded in playful mood, so I run with that]
Her 23:13 – hahah.it’s true.. 😀
Me 23:13 – No. This is you on your bike  [tease to build attraction – always worth doing early in each chat]

Her 23:14 – hahahahahahahahahahaha    oh no..you catch me…that’s not nice..xd    😛
Me 23:14 – 😛    My motorbike is awesome  [being a proud boy, playfully childish and confident]
Her 23:15 – hahahaha..xd
Me 23:15 – But if I let you ride it, you have to wear the matching costume  [mild future projection, where I set the rules]

Her 23:16 – hahahha..you are crazy..  [IOI]
Me 23:17 – If we had a race, would you cheat?  [set her up as naughty, which is consistent with the original approach and helps a little in unlocking the inner slut]
Her 23:17 – no..I always respect the rules of a game..    😛
Me 23:18 – Cool. What you doing now?  [enough attraction, move into comfort before it fizzles out]
Her 23:19 – nothing…I watched tv but it was boring..so I’m now doing nothing..just    sitting and relaxing..  [telling me she has time to talk and is easily hooked through lack of better things to do]
Me 23:19 – on a friday night?  [make her qualify on popularity and excitement]
Her 23:20 – yes..well it’s freezing outside..XD it’s snowing..xd  [bingo]
Me 23:21 – haha. Okay, I believe you    you’re NOT the lonely girl with no friends 😉    Hasn’t started snowing here yet
Her – 23:21 – hahahahaha..ok..it’s better without snow…xd
Me 23:23 – What are you wearing?  [fuck it, I’m bored. Let’s just throw in the sexualisation]
Her 23:24 – :O why are you asking me that? xd  [shit test, but clearly not offended]
Me 23:24 – you answer first, then I’ll tell you  [dominance]
Her 23:27 – well I’m wearing shirt,pullover,and trousers..and socks..hahaha
Me 23:27 – boo! not sexy at all 😦  [release]
Her 23:28 – hahahaha..it’s cold..xd    i’m sorry    hahah
Me 23:28 – hmmmmmmmmmmmm    what colour are your panties?  [call it and raise it, based on how well she took the last question]
Her 23:28 – omg..hahahaha…  [IOI]
Me 23:28 – ( if it’s not a personal question )  [joking about the pretended lack of calibration]
Her 23:29 – well it’s very personal..xd
Me 23:29 – tell me anyway 😉  [dominant]
Her 23:30 – hahahaha…imagine something..I wan’t tell you ..:D  [nice answer, she’s ok with me thinking of her sexually but is playing coy]
Me 23:32 – big, white…. like my grandmother wears  [release the tension entirely, returning to a tease]
Her 23:33 – noooooooooooo :S    hahahaha  [it hits well]
Me 23:33 – I just tried to find a funny picture    I google image searched “furry underwear”    and the results….. :O    I’m shocked….    maybe I should turn “safe search” back on  [transition away from her into general stuff, to keep tension down for a while]
Her 23:34 – hahahahahhaha..maybe you should..xd    what did you find?  [I’d hoped to lure her into asking this]
Me 23:35

Her 23:36 – hahahahahahahahahhahahhahaha    omg    that’s ugly..hahah
Me 23:37 – that was one of the least shocking photos
Her 23:38 – hahahahhaha    i believe you..    hahah

I let it die with this. The only purpose of the second chat was to establish myself in her life as the guy she responds to on facebook. I was surprised how far she let me push the playful sexualisation.

Here’s an example of sexually-charged non-verbal displays. Except for the relatively crass opener (which I soften in various ways so I can sexualise without being creepy) there’s not much going on at the verbal level. But this girl was really responding to the eye-fucking and giving it back. She was clearly in sexual state, as can be seen with her crazy neckchain rubbing, and I just wish her eyes were caught on the camera. Very sparkly for about three minutes.

I really though the same day lay was on, until she said she’s on her way to meet her boyfriend. I tried a street kiss close anyway just cos the vibe had been so charged but you see her shy away. Damn. What a hottie.

On intermediate bootcamp we teach about wing rules, particularly focused on night game. There are some basic principles such as:

• • Whoever opens the set runs the set
  • The player is always right. The wing never ever takes the women’s side.
  • The wing talks less than the player and always defers to the player.
  • The player can order the wing around

There’s lots more to it because winging well is a skills set all of its own. Daygame is a bit different because it’s basically a solo sport. In this case winging is mostly about keeping each other out of your heads and generating pre-approach value. So here is a video showing wing work in action. Bad wing work.

0:08 – My pre-frame tease while abroad. Way better than the supplicating “can you speak English?”
0:19 – I begin the all-new Krauser Direct Shop Staff Opener ™. If you use this, I want royalties.
0:34 – I’ve come in hard and fast. She’s IOIing already because my body language is confident, my vocal tone slow and even, and I’m eye-fucking the shit out of her. The words are almost incidental.
0:47 – Just normal stacking.
1:02 – Retarded shit as I move into vibing.
1:13 – Another stack because she had her nails painted in an interesting pattern.
1:25 – She’s laughing and going into a funny “in the presence of an alpha” state. Her eyes spazz out, she’s biting her lips, and laughing nervously.
1:40 – She’s kinoing me.
2:04 – A new routine when abroad – “you look like my image of….”
2:13 – See the physical involuntary IOIs such as chewing on her mouth.
2:47 – Lot’s of low vocal tone, slow pacing, eye-fucking.
3:38 – Blatant sexualisation, then a tension release. She takes it well, which is a green light. She’s not giving me any “I’m only talking to you because I have to” signals.

Anyway, you get the idea. Jimmy comes in at the end when the set is 50/50 and she’s about to give her facebook. She was ripe for a long gaming but no, Jimmy wants his scented candles and the set is blown.

Jimmy is blogging more seriously now so he’s got a post up trying to explain himself. And guess which RSG member it is who teaches wing rules? Oh, the irony…..

I’ve arrived in Croatia and we’ve just dropped our bags off at Spyder’s place. Time for coffee. Naturally I’m itching to cut loose on the local girls and get my first set out the way. A Krauser girl ambles past so I break my duck. This is how it goes. First thing you’ll notice is it’s not a particularly solid set. I don’t fuck up anything, I just don’t really get the vibe right or bounce of her into good stories. Workman-like. We’d figured it was going to take a couple of days to calibrate to the city so I didn’t have much staked on her.

Nice girl. One in the books.

0:08 – Put her on the defensive immediately, qualifying to a native English speaker. If she’s at all good at English she must value it and therefore aspire to be a natrual speaker. A mild way of framing me above her at something important to her.

0:31 – Physical IOI then skip right into positioning her as just one of many pretty girls.

0:39 – IOI specific to her behaviour (credit: Suave)

0:51 – Leaning in to hear her name wasn’t particularly smart.

0:55 – Finally I transition into a mild tease. Should’ve done this earlier.

1:05 – I’m not really fucking up but a couple of times she’s started to mutter something and I’ve talked over her.

1:10 – She’s started walking off so just a mild push on her hand keeps her with me.

1:27 – Retarded shit she wouldn’t expect. My energy is a bit low and the vibe isn’t really fun. I should’ve started better a minute ago.

1:56 – She starts talking and I talk over her. Not good.

2:04 – I should’ve run with what she’s saying instead of jumping straight to the close.

2:13 – A spontanteous close line. I’ll use this again, it could be good especially on holiday.

2:40 – Compliance test. Order her around a bit.

I’ve been in Croatia with Jambone the past two days. Our host was telling us the girls are different here – too conservative, too smart – so they don’t respond to Game. So for the past 48 hours we’ve been ripping the piss out of him as we tear the town apart. We’re still calibrating the place. Lithuania took me a week, Poland took four days. We’re getting closer to the first F-close of the week. Highlights so far from two day’s work:

• • I number close a cute little brunette on my very first open
  • Some pretty daring verbal escalation in a direct open of a stunningly beautiful shop girl that has her tripping out with IOIs before Jambone blows the set
  • Instant date a tourist from some southern Croatian island
  • Instant date an 18 yr old student who then brings two of her friends to join us
  • Pull a girl back to my place last night [LMR so I don’t get the close even though she stays the night] while Jambone collects the soul of her friend over five hours.
  • Jambone number closes three models in one day, which I video. If he ever gets his shit together he might even blog about them and load the footage.
  • Spend the first evening sat at Facebook running twelve different targets while Jambone does the same and our host watches his limiting beliefs vaporise.
  • Open only four sets today, all perfect tens, and number close three of them [all on video]

Most of the sets have seemed solid while I was in them but it’s proving difficult to get dates. Its a calibration thing. Every town is subtly different. But the Iron Law of Game still holds true – Girls tingle to the same things the whole world over. Here’s two of the tens I number closed today. All the infield footage has to wait till I’m back in London with a better laptop. Here’s hoping the hairy Euro-weirdos in my youth hostel don’t succeed in stealing my netbook and all it’s accumulated video.

 

 

 

 

Jambone has just texted to say he’s on the train back to the house of a skanky painted harlot of a journalist jezebel he picked up last night using my pre-selection and opener. I hope he gets syphillis.

Facebook game is magical. Done properly it allows you to take a weak hook on an unavailable set and gradually work her till she’s eating out of your palm. I met Painter for literally five minutes and a quicky facebook close. She refused the number and gave a boyfriend defense. That was September. Two months later using nothing but Facebook and she’s like this…. [BTW, usually she opens me now]

Me – So you’re alive! [she had no internet or phone during her week in Germany, so we joked she’d been kidnapped]

Her – unfortunately, yeah? ;D

Me – unfortunate….

Her – would you worry, if everythink hapen to me? ;D [she wants to be important to me] english mistakes.. hrrr.. i’m angry with myself

Me – haha, of course I worry! [comfort]

Her – ok then ;] how are you in Croatia?

Me – We are having a quiet night. It’s been raining alot since we arrived

Her – hmm

Me – It’s still fun How was Berlin?

Her – good, but first day was raining too next day was better i liked that city, people they all are polite and friendly

Me – nice

Her – did you saw Berlin? was you there?

Me – No. I’ve been to Dusseldorf I like Germany

Her – you visited a lot of places in the world it’s cool i think, that you are busy today.. and i disturb you [IOIing my high value lifestyle and concerned she’s imposing onto my time. These are strong signs she looks up to me]

Me – No, just got a few chats open, with my family and friends I always have time for you [comfort, snowflaking]

Her – honor for me 🙂 [likes it]

Me – haha, you’re nice [reward, give her a reason why I like her despite her boring life]

Her – and you aren’t 😛 i’m joking so, how is your sporting room at home? Are you using it? ;]

Me – yeah, I’ve been fighting my friends great fun!

Her – i think should be fun

Me – yeah, I kicked Lee in the head really hard by accident nearly knocked him out but he laughed [DHV on toughness]

Her – everythink is ok, what finished ok, without aftermath (if you understand what i mean) ;]

Me – all is well that ends well

Her – ok, thanks exactly ;D i will start to go to sportclub 😛

Me – Really? I like that You’re gonna get a really nice ass [sexualise]

Her – maybe ;D i think, that i need more movement [accepts it]

Me – I kinda like your ass already Still waiting for a good photo [keep going with it]

Her – ok, wait ;D i don’t like my ass, so you should wait till i beginn to like it ;D i’m serious [accepting the end result that I’m gonna see her ass]

Me – do you like your tits? [in for a penny, in for a pound…]

Her – you no need to know

Me – haha. Send me a photo, and I’ll tell you if I like them

Her – you want really to much >/ [that’s an IOI]

Me – hahaha. Not naked Just a nice bikini photo [set a limit on how sexual this is getting before she sets it]

Her – if other girls sends to you everythink, what you want, don’t mean that i will do this before you have to shave your beard ;D [she’s totally accepting my preselection and her need to compete]

Me – Oh, she’s defiant!

Her – should i be defiant? ;D

Me – Yes. It will be more fun to break you

Her – ok, i made a mistake again, but nevermind. my question in my mind was not like i wrote. nevermind ;D so, have you some friends in croatia?

Me – yeah [notice the word count is mostly her writing]

Her – you have friend probably even in the Antarctica friends* ;D [again she is letting me see how much she thinks I’m The Man]

Me – yes, the penguins and polar bears

Her – that was i thought ;D ok, i’ll tell you i like my tits ;D 😛 [women like to be sexualised by alpha males]

Me – both of them? [being retarded cos it’s important not to be overwhelmed when she sexualises, like a horny beta would]

Her – hmm.. yes strange question

Me – Haha, I’m just being silly

Her – i see your haha sounds ironic

Me – No, I’m having fun How is your homework? [her taking photos of herself for me]

Her – whichone?

Me – Tell me both [direct order]

Her – nothink, i’m waiting for inspiration ;D or inducement ;D [she wants to do it but needs pushing over the edge, for me to take responsibility away from her so she doesn’t feel like a slut]

Me – inducement? hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm Are you talking about the beard?

Her – hmm.. i don’t think so.. our homeworks are not adequante your task is too easy i think >/

Me – interesting……

Her – what? first homework with laughing girl is ok, sometime i’ll do it. because i like it

Me – cool

Her – but other [her dressed in underwear doing housework in a sexy pose] it’s not the same that to shave beard ;D i can shave my legs and send photo ;DDD ;DDD understand what i mean? ;D

Me – Yes. I think you should do the second one without your face in the photo

Her – i can fake it ;D anyway, it’s not the same like your homework

Me – Are you re-negotiating the deal?

Her – we can try ;P but don’t give a promise yet I don’t* [= it’s gonna happen eventually]

Me – ok

Her – so.. your homework..

Me – I don’t give a promise yet… I need inducement…

Her – me too are your body muscular? you are boxer [she’s thinking about me physically, allowing herself to lust]

Me – I look like this

Her – so your photos in fb is fake ;D when i saw you alive, you were slimmer, your weight growing up very fast ;D

Me – haha

Her – so answer is…? is it a secret? you can ask me about my tits and dont want to answer to simple question [minor shit test]

Me – wait ok, what is the question? [playfully defiant but not actually evasive]

Her – dont try to be silly ;D it’s about your body

Me – ok, ask again…

Her – look above in chat         is your body muscular?

Me – Quite muscular, but a little bit of fat from eating and drinking too much recently I used to look like this…

Her – this one is better ;D

Me – So you like muscles?

Her – not to much too* health and natural somethink like this wait

Me – waiting

Her – [link to Markie Mark with his shirt off]

Me – Markie Mark?

Her – a little bit too much muscles on stomach yes i don’t say that your body should be like him ;D i think, that a lot of boys or mens with big muscles are with empty heads are not very interessting and they just proud of yoursels yourselfs* [she’s telling me what she hopes I am like and how she wants to like me]

Me – Very true

Her – but i’m not saying that all

Me – My opinion is: I want my body to be useful, not just a display I don’t want to LOOK tough. I want to BE tough [reframe]

Her – good opinion, i like that and it’s somethink similary with girls and beauty

Me – how do you mean? [get her to invest]

Her – beauty isn’t everythink if she don’t understand enythink, haven’t her opinion, she is only a doll [from a beautiful girl this is not sour grapes]

Me – Yeah. That’s why I stopped dating models [DHV]

Her – are they stupid? i understand, that not all

Me – Not stupid, just different…. [not slagging them, positioning myself as the man with knowledge of the world]

Her – but you stopped dating

Me – When a girl is beautiful, life is easy for her. Men do everything for her So she doesn’t NEED to develop interesting character Some of them do, most of them don’t

Her – i think, that such a girls are polluting good name of womans i hate them they are marionette in the rich man hand (mostly)

Me – These girls match the guys. Girls = beauty and no brain. Guys = money and no charisma. They match. [reframe away the competition]

Her – in Lithuania it sounds: match like hatchet and handle i cant to translate exactly

Me – I understand

Her – ok

Me – BUT

Her – ?

Me – some of the models are actually nice people just not very interesting to have a conversation with [don’t project bitterness or hate, but give her a window of opportunity so she knows she can catch a guy like me]

Her – i don’t know models, and trust, that not all are without brains:] you know.. i like, that you are experienced you saw a lot of countrys, you know a lot of people, your job is interesting i think that you life is almost perfect [could I ask for a bigger IOI?]

Me – Thanks. You’re sweet. [reward, qualify]

Her – and sometimes i fell like.. hmm.. very borring person, which haven’t nothink to tell about yourself and life i’m too outspoken now [she’s worried she’s not good enough for me so she’s bashful. I absolutely love this – she instinctively knows how to make a guy like her]

Me – You’re still young It takes time to build an interesting life, and to have interesting stories [setting myself as her teacher]

Her – you say – you know sometimes i don’t know enythik about my wishes.. i dont know, what i want to do.. and especialy the last month.. [= she’s seen a window of excitement and now she’s thinking of ditching her boyfriend]

Me – That’s normal for your age [comfort, normalise these thoughts]

Her – i need to talk with somebody from other surrounding ok, nevermind, you don don’t need to listen to me it’s my problem [she wants adventure. Remember she’s young, not got money, and lives in a boring country with a normal boring boyfriend. Her horizons are opening and I’m the shiny exciting thing on the other side of the river]

Me – That’s ok. I’m sympathetic to you. What did you do today? [snip the thread before she talks herself into shit state]

Her – i had classwork, then i and my friend(girl) went out for lunch, then went to itycentre citycentre* i went through that bench ;F ;D where we met then, we bought icecream from macdonalds [she’s building a legend around our romantic meet]

Me – Nice

Her – and went to cathedral and then home that was really nice day, especialy evening and you/ ?

Me – We’ve been looking around Zagreb went to a big fruit market

Her – did you like?

Me – Yeah, I love to see how other people live I’m starting to like Eastern Europe

Her – you never stay in the one place for long time everytime you do something new and interesting you and your life is charming i don’t know other people like you [another strong IOI]

Me – thanks [reward]

Her – :D# i’m saying too much ;D [she’s way out of her comfort zone but feels compelled to compliment me – the hindbrain is taking her on a ride]

Me – Maybe, but it’s nice [normalise her saying these things]

Her – i never do this ;D and i dont chating with unknown people (you was unknown in the begining) [again she can’t quite understand why her feelings are compelling her into this]

Me – Yeah, but we know each other now, and we like each other [give her a rationalisation]

Her – a little bit and i have a question.. you know my “family status”, but i don’t so do you have a woman or no? i don’t understand [she’s really letting the mask slip now and openly considering where she stands with me and whether she can fit into my life]

Me – Girls like me, but there’s no-one special [preselect but dangle a carrot]

Her – so answer is no ?

Me – Yes, it’s no [but not evasive]

Her – i understand, that you have a lot of girls, whitch likes you and you like them am i right? 🙂 [accepts preselection]

Me – yes

Her – ok what is the time in croatia now?

Me – Almost midnight

Her – here is almost 2 at night.. my eyes can close ;D how much time you have? [the restraint is gone, she is happy for me to know she wants to spend time in my company]

Me – I’ll be awake some time longer

Her – ?

Me – I have some time

Her – so, if you say something interesting, i’ll stay a little bit longer in here if you don’t want i stay, say it [strange wording, is she trying to make me chase?]

Me – I bought a remote control car today.        I tell you what…. Go to bed. Sleep well. We’ll talk some other time. [to be on the safe side I snip the thread and then order her about]

Her – have a good night. bye

Me – bye

Just a quick note on the Estonian model I picked up on a bootcamp on Saturday. It was right at the end of the daygame infield and we were hanging around outside M&S waiting for a student to come out of set so we could all finish. A very tall girl in a stylish black ensemble ambles past. I turn around and open:

Me: Hi, can I say something. I love that you are so tall!

Her: *stops, smiles, then shit tests me with silence and a stare*

Me: blah blah bullshit…..

She’s on her way to meet people but I get about ten minutes with her as she gradually softens. She’s high value / high esteem so she’s not playing games, just listening and watching to see what I’ve got. I hold a steady non-reactive frame and gradually draw her out of the shell until she’s IOIing me. About four times she lets slip *ahem* that she’s a model and four times I completely fail to get excited about it and just talk about something else. The vibe is still in it’s early stages so I go for facebook instead of a number as she’s clearly in a hurry and has given me as long as she reasonably can. She accepts the add and shows up on chat tonight. I reopen:

Me 21:33 – oh no! It’s her…….. [playful]

Her 21:33 – im sure its her [same vibe as before – interested, uncommited, waiting to see what I have]

Me 21:34 – The tall one…. [remind her of the pickup, avoid framing her as “the model” or anything else she wanted to be framed as that might supplicate me]

Her 21:34 – well on that street she was… 🙂 [as before – watching and waiting]

Me 21:35 – There’s a picture of you I really like. [one of her photos has her wearing a Chewbacca mask at a party] I think it was taken by Hans Solo  [setting up that I’m going to compliment her on one of her many modelling photos but instead pick the one photo of her having fun looking like a retard. Signalling that I like her because she’s fun not simply because she’s beautiful. Unexpected]

* nothing, she goes offline *[I read this as a shit test. I’ve teased her and she’s silent so do I backtrack spinelessly or go chasing raport?]

Me 21:52 – You look like this….    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2CkDFVFdH8M&feature=player_embedded  [I do neither, I tease her even more]

Her 22:13 – haha    nice one  [another long wait to see if I fold, I don’t so she likes it]

That’s enough for the initial chat. She remains online for another half-hour but I’m juggling chats with another ten targets who are further along than her, and I think it’s important not to chase Estonia. Having her know I know she’s online yet I’m not chasing rapport is a powerful way of maintaining aloofness without being rude. I don’t need this girl and I’m not convinved, but she’s definitely on my radar – that’s the frame. All I want is to bring her into my orbit as the girl who chats a little on Facebook. From there I can build out on the Long Game like French Fan and Artist.

 

Not all game is bells and whistles. Sometimes you’re busy, she’s busy and you just want to maintain a connection. Here’s an example from half an hour ago. My goal was to keep the wordcount low. This is the girl I street kiss-closed in Poland last month. Now it’s over to long game until she finally comes to London.

 

Me 18:14 – work or play?
Her 18:14 – party ;p
Me 18:14 – Facebook party? So exciting….. not
Her 18:17 – stop being so ironic
Me 18:18 – boo
Her 18:18 – you’re jealous    because you’re staying at home tonight ;p
Me 18:19 – It’s true. I’m staying home tonight.    Croatia on Monday though 🙂
Her 18:19 – now I’m jealous ;p
Me 18:21 – what’s the party?
Her 18:22 – first, at my friends’ home    then at club
Me 18:22 – Nice. Your hometown?
Her 18:24 – yep    I’m late    I’ m always late    they will kill me this time, my friends
Me 18:27 – you should probably stop talking to me and get ready ;);)
Her 18:28 – ;p probably i should    but i can’t ;p
Me 18:28 – haha
Her 18:31 – ok I’m ready for party    finally
Me 18:31 – looking sexy?
Her 18:31 – very sexy !!
Me 18:32 – Cool. Take a photo and show me
Her 18:32 – tomorrow 😉 I’m latee!!
Me 18:34 – have fun. Talk later
Her 18:34 – thanx, have a nice evening ;p

0:10 – It’s a busy crossing and we’re waiting for the lights when I see her. Hence plenty of time to get the camera turned on. I tell Jambone I’m gonna walk over and open her.
0:15 – I have to solve a technical problem… do I wait till she’s across the road and thus appear creepy waiting for her, do I open halfway across and then have to rush a bounce to the pavement, or do I stride confidently across the traffic and open before she’s gotten moving. Easy. Looks fucking awesome.
0:23 – Spontaneous opener straight out of the Krauser Daygame Model.
0:25 – I’ve got an audience. It’s a DHV to open without a worry of who is watching. It shows that I believe what I’m doing is natural.
0:35 – I haven’t killed momentum because it’s still normal for her to cross the road now (and there’s no way I can follow her without being creepy) so I have to keep her engaged with verbals long enough for the lights to change back to red.
0:40 – She’s meeting a friend. I have to get this done quickly. Usually I’d begin flipping the script and pausing now but I’m concerned about her momentum….
0:43 – …so I ask another leading question, which has a nuance of challenging her, to try to kill it.
0:54 – Finally I get a chance to stack properly into something she can talk about and start vibing.
1:01 – Hair twirl IOI.
1:06 – Note the solid eye contact. That’s the main DHV at this moment, not my jibber jabber.
1:18 – I should’ve let her talk more on the thread of getting into trouble. A minor mistake.
1:27 – She’s about to say something and I cut over it. Another mistake. I’m not well calibrated today.
1:54 – Personalise it to her.
2:16 – Rapport and show I have some education. Body language is unreactive and my energy is lower now.
2:31 – I’ve interrupted her again. Stupid! Never break rapport in daygame.
2:41 – You’re not listening to me are you? Just thinking about her tits.
2:53 – Basic comfort building questions while I try to get her to open up and invest. I’ve set a slightly weak vibe with all my interruptions. The frame is too much that she gives short answers while I skip across topics quickly. I should’ve slowed down earlier.

 

3:00 – Easy generic neg, especially for a girl who knows she’s beautiful.
3:05 – Finally I do something right and lead her.
3:13 – This is how high value / high esteem girls IOI – simply giving you their undivided attention and listening intently. No dramatics.
3:22 – Note the dog that didn’t bark. She’s not looking over my shoulder, or at her watch, or shifting awkwardly. There are no signs that she’s in a hurry to meet that friend or to eject from this conversation.
3:44 – I’m qualifying her. I haven’t given her any physical IOIs yet so I’m running this more like classic mystery method of letting her show her likeable side so I can then show interest in her. You can bet most guys can’t help but acknowledge her beauty right from the beginning.
4:10 – She’s much more open now.
4:18 – Most guys would jump on the model thing. “ooooh I’m talking to a model!!!!” I finally give her an oblique physical IOI while remaining mostly unfazed.
4:37 – No chance of the instant date and limited in how long I can keep her so I just go for the number. It’s a 50/50 chance.
4:41 – Qualify her on the close. Notice my frame is that I’m choosing and she’s no big deal.
4:50 – Time will tell if this was smart or retarded. I’ve had very little time to build rapport and invest her, so taking a number might fizzle out when she knows so little about me. Adding her to Facebook is less pressure for her and also lets me passively DHV and build rapport just from having her check out my profile. So I decline the text game and try Facebook.
5:02 – That’s a locking in leg cross from her, not a pussy tingle. I know from her legs and vibe that I’m not extracting the contact details – she’s happily giving them up (see the hair twirl IOI).
5:27 – Subcommunicating that I won’t waste my time trawling through pages to find her, I have better stuff to do. Usually I transition to “give me you number and I’ll text if I can’t find you” but in this case it sounds like she’s easy to find.
5:37 – I’m still projecting that I’m not fully convinced by her on the goodbye – no hug or handshake, but not rude either. I’m setting myself up as high value.

 

Verdict: She’s a 9, my game was a 7, and she’s just accepted the Facebook add. More posts to follow if I get her onto a date. Update: I’ve kiss closed and am dating her. Took down the images

My most recent lay was a Japanese girl who barely spoke English. I learned alot about concentrating on eye contact and vocal tone to keep her attention, then just ploughing with simple sentences. At least the Jap could make simple sentences and I could fall back on my own Japanese language in a pinch. I found a girl today who was even worse. But damn she’s hot, so I kept going.

The video gets better from about the third minute when Suave finds the zoom control on my new camera. There’s no exciting conversation here, just look for how animated she gets and the great eye contact she gives me. Love is an international language…..