Recently [text game]

Me 10:43pm – Guess who is out with friends, talking about random stuff, and then suddenly thought about fucking you  [burst back into her attention sexually. She’s on the other side of the world so needs a strong maintenance pattern]
Her 11:06pm – Oh I hope it’s this sexy English guy… i like him a lot 😛 I might have dreamed of you fucking me under the shower, I’m not sure. I should go back to sleep for a few minutes and finish that dream….  [perhaps an IOI?]
Me 11:09pm – That might really happen.  [Short, almost threatening]
Her 11:13pm – Yeah 🙂 but I should warn you: I’m gonna think about it a lot until it happens for real…  [Something Ace taught me about douchebag game – give girls strong infrequent emotional spikes and then they”ll do all the hard work of falling in love with you during your absences]
Me 11:18pm – I’ll survive 😛
Her 11:24pm – I hope so… Don’t die before decembre (nor after) or I’ll be really sad 😉
Me 11:25pm – That’s so romantic. I think I have a tear in my eye.

Very sweet

Last week

Her 2:09pm – I’ve sent the photo to you on your phone… But it could be a while before you receive it. Let me know! [naked photo] Good weekend too, cinema with the australian guy on Friday night, shopping with two friends from class on saturday, and today I studied in a park. It was very sunny 🙂  [this is how betas romance girls. He’s not really a threat but I want to amog him nice and early to set the frame]
Me 2:31pm – Has he had the courage to kiss you yet?  [amog]
Her 2:33pm – Yes he did. But very quickly when I was about to get on the bus. I didn’t have time to react.  [there’s a lesson in k-closing there]
Me 2:40pm – Did you do it with tongues?
Her 2:43pm – No. He kissed me very very quickly, like a kiss on the cheek but on my mouth. I did not see it coming….
Me 2:47pm – Did he feel your tits?  [obviously he didn’t. I’m framing him as a pussy, trying to draw the alpha/beta contrast as sharp as possible]
Her 2:51pm – Ahaha no. He’s not like you 😛 he did nothing else but take my hand while I was about to get on the bus home, and give me this quick kiss…  [which hits]
Me 2:53pm – Were you disappointed?  [lead her state around him]
Her 2:55pm – No, I was surprised… Would it be possible that you’d be a bit jealous?  [reaction-seeking because she wants comfort]
Me 2:56pm – I told you before – only if he cums on your face.  [rebuff her first ask]
Her 3:22pm – … you should be. Seriously, you don’t care at all? Not cool. (have you received the photo by the way?)
Me 3:26pm – Didn’t get the photo – it needs to go to my hotmail. And yes, I do care. I don’t want you dating other men. You’re my girl. But also, I don’t want to control your life.  [snowflaking her, but this is honest stuff]
Her 3:36pm – And I don’t want to date other men. I want to date you. It makes me a bit sad that you’re fucking other girls, but I don’t want (anyway I can’t) to controle your life as well….  [accepts her role]

A few days ago

Me 11:15pm – Got your picture. I like it. Cute.  [reward]
Her 11:18pm – Ah cool 🙂 I think it woud look better if my hair was longer… But thank you!
Me 11:26pm – Yeah, longer is better. But I’d still fuck you the way it is.
Her 11:28pm – I was just thinking about you fucking me by the way…. 😉
Me 11:30pm – What a surprise :O you have a one-track mind…… krauserscockkrauserscockkrauserscock all day every day…
Her 11:35pm – That’s not true! I can control myself now 😛 last time I thought about that was a long time ago… and you can’t judge me! You’re always thinking about fucking.
Me 11:37pm – Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
Her 11:49pm – He…! Go to bed 😛 ! Where are you?
Me 11:51pm – I’m at home. Just getting ready for bed.
Her 11:55pm – Cool. I’m just about to get up… Sleep well. And dream of me… but without the 4 or 5 other girls please 🙂
Me 11:57pm – I’ll try. Would be easier if I had the right photos….
Her 12:00am – You’ve had a photo just a few days ago! I’m not gonna send you everything in one time… Wait a bit 🙂

This morning [facebook chat]

Me 13:29 – brrrrrrrrrrrr
Her 13:29 – 😛     how are youuuu?
Me 13:30 – I’m good. Having coffee in starbucks. [with Thai] But have to go soon [to meet Finland]
Her 13:30 – oh ok, could I get a “goodbye” this time? 😉     eh I was in the opera house tonight again!
Me 13:32 – why opera house?
Her 13:32 – the australian guy had free tickets to see the symphony orchestra of Sydney     it was cool, but not as cool as the marriage of figaro
Me 13:35 – how is Beta Guy?  [amog]
Her 13:36 – ahaha     he’s fine     and now I really see what you mean by Beta/ Alpha guys     you’re much cooler… 🙂  [this is good for her. I explained it all very early in the relationship because she is clearly a badboy chaser in the making and it’ll ruin her]
Me 13:39 – haha     be nice to him     He’s probably a really kind guy  [amog]
Her 13:40 – yes he is     but I’m not like you… I don’t have number 1, number 2 etc.
I prefer having only one.     😛
Me 13:42 – good girl     +20 points  [reward acceptance of harem and amog frame]
Her 13:43 – I know… you should feel lucky to have me!     ^^
Me 13:47 – 😛
Her 13:47 – how is it going in Castle RSG by the way?
Me 13:47 – Brilliant
Her 13:47 – I suppose you’re having fun     !
Me 13:47 – My room is finished     We have a machine gun
Her 13:48 – cool!
Me 13:48 – But I have to go now
Her 13:48 – ok     have a good day then     🙂
Me 13:48 – goodbye
Her 13:48 – thank you!     😛     xxx

I’d forgotten all about this one. I read somewhere (I think Skeletor on the LSS) that there are four basic types of girl:

1. Low Value / Low Esteem – an ugly girl who knows her place. They are of no interest to players.

2. Low Value / High Esteem – the fattie cockblockers who mouth off and can’t stand it when their prettier friends get all the intention in nightclubs. Loaded with 100% denial, these disgusting creatures are frequently seen on Jeremy Kyle, Trisha and other soap boxes telling the world how great they are. Match.com seems to have plenty too. Best avoided but sometimes they need to be neutralised. Think Rosanne Barr.

3. High Value / Low Esteem – the classic slut. She looks hot but doesn’t believe in herself so she dresses up with warpaint and squeezes into a mini-skirt. Will be seen in nightclubs doing the validation dance so a long line of betas boost her low esteem with their interest. When she finds anyone alpha she’ll jump into bed immediately. Responds well to direct ballsy game and all the classic manipulation gambits (pre-selection, negs, social proof etc)

4. High Value / High Esteem – the holy grail of pick-up. A beautiful girl who knows it but is so comfortable and balanced that she’s great fun to be around. Respond extremely well to honest direct game. Best to avoid negging.

Now bear in mind all girls have fundamentally low esteem compared to normal men, so these are relative scales. I’ve found the latter girls respond best to my style but as you can imagine they aren’t easy to catch. Anyhoo, here’s a video which shows types (3) and (4) sitting right next to each other responding to the same stimuli. Call it a controlled experiment.

Background: Part 1 Part 2 Part 3 Part 4

Video Analysis

0:08 – Very tight disapproving body language. Watch how this softens by the middle of the video. She’s not happy with the idea of competing with three girls, and Jambone’s rock star pretensions.
0:37 – Big difference in what their laughs say about themselves
0:58 – I’m being authentic with High Esteem (HE) because she’s the sort of girl who responds to it.
1:29 – Low Esteem (LE) wishes she was HE. Watch for how she qualifies to her.
1:48 – Let her talk. Don’t try to override her words.
1:51 – Jambone just made his two girls giggle and squeal. Look at how LE is impressed and HE is disgusted.
2:14 – LE qualifies to HE. The latter is giving only enough attention as is dictated by social propriety and is not encouraging her. Note the body language – LE is turned and leaning in, HE is side-on and turns her attention to me whenever LE is not blatantly grabbing it.
3:04 – I haven’t lost LE yet, it’s just Jambone is gradually giving off more magnetism.
3:08 – Is there a word for that look of revulsion and fascination that HE is giving LE?
3:35 – Considering what’s going on across the table, and that this is the first date with HE, I’m quite pleased at how I keep their attention and draw them into the frame that this kind of date is normal.
3:59 – Another disgusted look towards Jambone.
4:11 – It seems HE considers me the oasis of purity within this den of iniquity. She never makes any attempt to engage anyone else in the group.
4:30 – Basic teasing to build attraction.
4:34 – The other three girls are outside smoking now so HE’s body language suddenly opens right up. Like night and day.
5:16 – You can see why I rate this girl so highly, right? She’s just so comfortable with who she is and has such a nice unpretentious vibe.
5:27 – Investment.
5:43 – She’s having considerably more fun than in the beginning. Having the other girls disappear for a while was like flicking a switch, and I get a great chance to build rapport without social pressure.
6:00 – Let her invest. She’s showing me the real HE.
6:29 – I’m labouring the point but can you believe this is the same girl from the beginning of the video?
6:40 – She’s very attracted now. Buying temperature is rising.
7:22 – Changing tempo, back to teasing.
7:34 – I’ve decided HE is getting all my attention now and blanking the others. Not that they care, the Jambone show is entering it’s third act. I don’t find out till later but blanking Squirrel really repaired my value with her after that week prior date. She’s seeing me engaging a girl who is far and away the highest value in the room.
7:56 – Watch the fingers. Buying temperature.
9:09 – I love this eye contact game. It’s an easy way to get an eye-fucking opportunity while giving endless ammo to neg and tease. Great to raise buying temperature. My body language is absolutely still – totally unreactive – and she just bounces around on that. Think of the squirrel and the oak tree.
9:28 – Note all the instructions I give. Leading frame, pushing her into submission.

So we are all sitting in Paparazzi Bar in Vilnius and all four girls are together. I completely ignore Squirrel as punishment for dicking around on our Day 2. I’m gradually losing Low Esteem as Jambone runs the pre-selection show across the table. Fortunately High Esteem is thoroughly unimpressed with him and responds well to my normal comfort. Low Esteem keeps trying to get in on our conversation and eventually gives up.

After two hours High Esteem wants to go home so I walk her to her flat. Comfort is good and as you can see from the video she’s been IOIing – if anything the fact I more or less ignored Jambone and the two 17yr olds has served me well – the vibe is like I don’t really approve of him but he’s a friend so I help him out. On the way back I feel like I have to sexualise a little but can’t push to far so I tell her to walk in front so I can check out her arse (she does, giggling) and then:

Me: Look, I’m walking you home to make sure you’re ok, not because I’m gonna try and fuck you. I mean, I do want to fuck you but tonight’s not really the right time.

On the way back to the bar Jambone is texting to say hurry up cos Low Esteem is trying to drag him to the toilets for a blowjob and he can’t hold her off much longer. Right as I approach High Esteem texts:

Her: I forgot to pay for my drink!!!!!! Could we have a deal if I promised u a drink in London? 🙂

Me: Ok, but I want a quadruple vodka red bull 😉 sleep well

Her: Done! Have an epic last night in Vlinius 🙂

Me: Count on it.

So she goes onto Facebook for long game and I go back to Paparazzi. We end up in our apartment. Jambone tries to DHV me with Low Esteem but its totally fucked now so he takes Leggy into the bedroom while Low Esteem and I sit uneasily in the kitchen till she finally fucks off to McDonalds never to return. I go to bed pissed off.

Epilogue:

• Leggy has left her boyfriend because she doesn’t love him anymore. She can’t imagine being with anyone normal after Jambone.
• Squirrel is chatting to me on Skype and Facebook and shows all the signs of being a hot set again.
• Low Esteem is exchanging occasional messages with me on Facebook and is a lukewarm set. She seems to have realised her overreach and ended up with nothing.
• High Esteem is also on occasional messaged but haven’t been able to catch her online yet. Apparently she’s coming to London in a few months.

My daygame model is not meant for wusses. I’m trying to formulate something that captures the essence of alphaness and projects it onto the interaction. We don’t do daygame to be the friendly timid nice guy who would ever so much like the girls number if it’s not terribly troublesome to ask. We’re in it to pick up hot young chicks and fuck them. Then collect their souls and slot them into a harem.

So I’m testing out various sexual projections including right from the opener. Here’s an example. I eventually blew the set by pushing too hard for a street kiss close, but what the hell, it was fun.

The main thing to get is the importance of vibe and intent. I opened full on sexually – and fairly crass – but because my vibe is playful, honest, and spoken like the most natural thing in the world she just laughs and hooks. Within a couple of minutes she’s opening her jacket to show me her tits and then letting me grope her waist. Can’t ever go back to beta daygame…..

I’m out daygaming with Suave, using a Starbucks as a base, when a cute red-haired Spaniard walks past. I run out and open direct. She’s flightly at first but soon settles in and I bounce her back to the cafe for an instant date. Her english is weak having only been here a few weeks. After half an hour I take her number.

She’s really difficult to get out on a date and cancels the first two. I’m not even sure why I bother inviting her for a third but I do. Text game is:

Me 12:43pm – Mornin’. How’s my elusive Spaniard?
Her 1:36pm – Haha i’m a little bit sick i hate the weather in London!
Me 1:42pm – English weather is not suitable for weak Europeans 😛
Her 1:50pm – It’s possible… But otherwise the weather in spain is better!
Me 1:52pm – I like cold rain and mist over the hills when I’m hiking. It’s an English thing….
Her 1:54pm – Ok…. So english people are crazy… haha
Me 1:55pm – Just me. Are you free this afternoon? I’m in Covent Garden later.
Her 2:00pm – Not this afternoon, i’m not feeling good and i want to color my hair! Maybe tomorrow or in the weekend?
Me 2:04pm – I’m going to Poland soon, so tomorrow is better. 4pm?
Her 2:05pm – Ok! In covent garden station?
Me 2:18pm – Yeah, in front of M&S. Dress nice, so we match!

Chipmunk-like

The date seems to go well. We have drinks in two pubs and progress to handholding and light kino. She’s IOIing and generally doing the things a girl who is attracted should do but I sense a reticence. Sure enough when I go for the kiss she rebuffs and talks about a boyfriend back in Spain. Aha. I decide this girl is to be shuffled over into low-investment long game. I’ll keep the pot simmering and wait to see how her long distance relationship goes. We swap facebooks.

A couple of days later, on Friday night, I’m having a quiet one. I see her online and open it up:

21:10 Me – oh no, it’s her!
21:12 Her – haha yes! i am!
21:13 Me – what you doing?
21:14 Her – looking for a nightclub to go today
21:14 Me – oh yeah, it’s Saturday
21:14 Her – but we don’t know
21:15 Me – I’m not really a nightclub person. can’t really help
21:16 Her – oooh! you’re so useless!    hahaha
21:20 Me – completely 😦
21:20 Her – baaad baaad
21:22 Me – You gonna dress up nice tonight?
21:22 Her – of course    if we find a nightclub to go yes    haha
21:22 Me – heels    tiny skirt    red lipstick    bleeeeeeeeeeerrrrghhh!
21:23 Her – hhaha    i don’t know yet
21:24 Me – wear big yellow plastic wellies
21:25 Her – yellow? why=    ?
21:26 Me – so the drivers can see you at night when you come home drunk    walking down the middle of the street    like a drunken Spaniard
21:26 Her – haha    nooo
21:29 Her – i go for dinner    byee
21:30 Me – bye

Spanish bukkake

Then it’s Poland and all the naughtiness I get up to there. She completely slips my mind until I see her online when I’m juggling a few chats.

Me 01:40 – the party girl is partying
Her 01:40 – haha    noo    i’m just in the sofa
Me 01:40 – I’m getting ready for bed    shall I tell you a secret?
Her 01:41 – ok…tell me…
Me 01:41 – I’m naked :O    except for my boxer shorts    and dressing gown
Her 01:42 – haha
Me 01:42 – and slippers
Her 01:42 – and is not cold there?
Me 01:43 – very warm    What are you wearing?
Her 01:44 – i’m wearing an orange t-shirt and some jeans
Me 01:45 – not sexy at all
Her 01:46 – no… ‘im not sexy today    haha
Me 01:46 – booooooo    I’m going to bed
Her 01:46 – haha    ok
Me 01:46 – 😉
Her 01:47 – good night naked man

I’d put this girl at 50/50 to fuck her within the next six months. She likes me but considers herself unavailable. I’ll just maintain my value, build occasional comfort, and see what gives.

Krakow again. Suave, Shammers and I are sitting in a street cafe on the main square having lunch. I’ve just ordered a pizza when this girl walks past. Camera on, give chase….

Learning points are:

0:12 – Never move your feet in the first minute if the girl’s momentum is still continuing, or else you’ll give off a creepy vibe and she’ll leave. Just plant the feet, turn your body if necessary, and keep talking.
0:40 – Note how far away she is. I didn’t follow so that calmed her fight-or-flight instinct. Now she’s laughing.
0:50 – I still haven’t killed her momentum so I keep plowing. She was about to accept the complement then walk off. I see this and ask another question to keep her there. You can feel her hindbrain is enjoying this even if the forebrain has somewhere else to go.
1:00 – She’s still wandering off but turned to face me and smiling. Classic forebrain-hindbrain conflict so I just have to keep ploughing and keep it playful.
1:07 – I reel her in by holding out a handshake and asking her name. It would seem socially retarded for her to not shake my hand now, so she comes back.
1:44 – Her English isn’t very good so it’s tougher to get her investing. I have to talk more than I’d like but whenever she talks I shut up and give her plenty of time to respond. It’s often tough to resist the urge to keep jabbering on.
2:01 – The first classic IOI but it’s already obvious from her smile that she’s enjoying this. Her nerves are due to the situation and her English, not the idea of talking to me.
2:46 – Very simple sentence structure and basic vocabulary. The vibe is doing the attraction work so I don’t need to overcomplicate it with fancy talk.
3:04 – She’s investing through body language. Would she do this if she wanted to leave?
3:35 – If you don’t find this girl adorable by now, you are clearly homosexual. She’s a perfect example of how a feminine vibe can boost an otherwise unremarkable girl into “I’d love to facefuck her” territory.
3:41 – Personalise the interaction to her. Avoid generalisations about places and interests.
3:52 – I’m having to guide her through the language and suggest vocabulary.
4:15 – I eye-fucking the shit out of her by now.
4:30 – Note how well she holds eye contact while her gestures are open. That’s the eye-fucking at play.
5:08 – She’s in a mild sexual state now. Check out the hand movement.
5:26 – Consider the difference between her at the beginning and now. Killing momentum is crucial.
5:45 – Slower and deeper vocal tone.
6:15 – I think the language barrier is giving her doubts.
6:43 – After getting her email I try again for the number. Rebuffed but no harm in trying. My value with the hindbrain is still good even though her forebrain appears to have a rule about giving her number to men she doesn’t know.
7:20 – Oops!
7:41 – I’ve completely lost the vibe with this new girl and I’ve also realised she’s not hot. Starting to regret opening her.

This girl was from club game in Krakow. She was quite bitchy and full of herself but I went very direct, walked her off to a quiet spot near the dance floor and told her I want to fuck her. Lots of sexual stuff. She was interested but not that interested. About five minutes of shit-testing ensued and I took her facebook before she walked off after three failed kiss attempts.

The type of set you never expect to see again. Totally dead. I didn’t even bother adding her to facebook but then I happen to be trawling through my numbers yesterday morning and I see her name, so I add. She accepts. This morning I’m having breakfast and check out her profile – she seems like a normal nice girl – totally different to the nightclub persona. She appears online and this is our first chat, in full:

Me 10:43 – hmmmm, it’s her……….  [still need to build attraction]
Her 10:45 – 🙂    yes, it’s me 😛
Me 10:47 – You look very very different to how I remember  [a challenge, teasing her vanity to hook her. Imply I’m disappointed by her photos]
Her 10:47 – ohh
Me 10:48 – uh-huh  [begin to flip script to get her investing]
Her 10:48 – I don’t look good in photographs  [is this an early sign of qualification]
Me 10:49 – Let’s see………  [tease]
Her 10:49 – 🙂  [good response, she’s biting]
Me 10:49 – In the nightclub you looked lively, sexy and    to be honest    I wanted to fuck you    in your photos….    you look like my french teacher [I was direct in the club, so stay that way and show some balls, give sexual IOI, then tease]
Her 10:50 – you look I will be a teacher 😛    no    *I will be a teacher  [unexpected cold reading hit – play with it]
Me 10:51 – I didn’t like my french teacher    she was strict  [push her away, but playfully]
Her 10:52 – I won’t bea strict 🙂   [qualifying herself]
Me 10:52 – hmmmmmmmm   [extremely vague response to let her pour her own meaning into it]
Her 10:52 – sorry…my english isn’t good 😛  [settling into a defensive crouch]
Me 10:53 – I understand you    Can I ask a question?  [reward and stack]
Her 10:53 – yes
Me 10:54 – do you have any sexier pictures?    in a bikini, or short skirt….  [more sexual, she’s warming to it. Frame myself as a demanding guy because I’m high enough value to be able to]
Her 10:54 – no I don’t like these photos..  [shit test to see if I backtrack or soften it]
Me 10:54 – I do   [I’m a man, you’re a woman. This is completely natural]
Her 10:55 – your a man 😉  [clearly, she knows this. She’s accepting sexual interest as non-creepy therefore she is pegging me as an alpha]
Me 10:55 – haha  [reward but vague]
Her 10:55 – *you’re
Me 10:55 – What are you doing now?  [defuse sexual tension a little and build comfort]
Her 10:56 – I’m talking about you 😉
Me 10:56 – oh, she’s a comedien!…
Her 10:56 – 🙂
Me 10:57 – grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr    that’s my bear noise  [just playful retarded shit]
Her 10:57 – sorry 🙂    and what are you doing now? 🙂    10 minutes ago I come back around my lessons…
Me 10:59 – I’m in Starbucks having breakfast    and trying to think of a way to get a Polish girl to send me a sexy photo  [bring her on board with my plan, be open about my intentions]
Her 10:59 – tasty:)    oh, you have to try 😉  [playing along]
Me 11:00 – thinking…….
Her 11:00 – maybe some girl will send 🙂
Me 11:01 – So, let’s imagine we are married  [future projection about to start. Pull her out of her normal world and take her on a journey]
Her 11:01 – I can’t imagine these 😛
Me 11:02 – we are on our honeymoon. Where would you like to go?
Her 11:02 – hmm    I would like to see Barcelona    I don’t know now 😛    or having tournee around Italy 😛
Me 11:05 – I had sex in a car in Barcelona.    Let’s got to the south of Italy    to the little fishing towns    like the movie The Talented Mr Ripley  [drive-by sexualisation]
Her 11:06 – I understand 🙂
Me 11:06 – Ok, so it’ll be summer. What clothes do you bring?
Her 11:07 – most important there would be a husband by me    another tops… my favourite jeans or shorts…
Me 11:08 – how about a light summer dress? I like those
Her 11:08 – ohhhh, I love it!  🙂 🙂 [excellent, she’s investing. there’s none of the bitchiness she showed in the club]
Me 11:10 – [link to photo of a nice dress]
Her 11:10 – not really like these 😉
Me 11:11 – So we’ve arrived in Italy. I drive an open-top car to our little beach apartment… like this

Her 11:12 – I like these, on the night [link to some dresses]    haha 🙂    nice dog
Me 11:13 – I like those dresses, but they are eveningwear    you need something for the beach, because that’s where I’m driving  [keep moving it along in my frame, don’t let her sidetrack me]
Her 11:13 – 🙂
Me 11:15 – Ok, so we get to the apartment    put our suitcases down    I have a shower
Her 11:15 – yes…    I think..me too 😛
Me 11:16 – Not together!    We’re just married  [tease, show this isn’t all abotu getting her naked]
Her 11:16 – not together!
Me 11:16 – So I go first, because I’m more important  [chick crack]
Her 11:16 – nno!
Me 11:16 – maybe you cook a quick meal for me
Her 11:16 – it’s not true!  [she’s enjoying being teased]
Me 11:16 – Shhhhhhh!
Her 11:17 – i’m not housemaid    😛
Me 11:17 – Shhhhhhhhh. The man is talking!
Her 11:17 – I want to be most important for my husband!
Me 11:17 – Have you ever worn a housemaid uniform for sex?  [more overt sexualisation]
Her 11:17 – no
Me 11:18 – You should. It’s cool    Anyway…    I finish my shower and relax lying on the bed for a while  [don’t back down, but move it on]
Her 11:18 – I believe to the word
Me 11:18 – Now it’s time to go to the beach    What do you wear?
Her 11:19 – it’s warm?    I think…bikini and..
Me 11:19 – ?
Her 11:19 – lihgt tunic    *light
Me 11:20 – what colour?
Her 11:20 – blue or red    because I have a brown bikini 😛  [this is going well, she’s fully playing along and giving tacit permission to think of her sexually]
Me 11:21 – I like blue    Ok, so we walk to the beach    I’m wearing red speedos
Her 11:22 – why are you so hard with your wife?
Me 11:22 – like the movie    [still from 300 movie]    Haha, if you think this is hard….. wait until we get to the fucking part 😛
Her 11:23 – you have to be a nice…
Me 11:24 – ok, but only because we are married and in love    So    walking to the beach    You walk a few metres in front of me    so I can watch your ass    and legs  [does this need commentary?]
Her 11:24 – omg..    you think only about sex..     woman it’s not onlu sex machine!    remember that
Me 11:25 – I know, women can cook too [cheerful misogyny]
Her 11:25 – pff
Me 11:25 – haha    So we get to the beach, and spread our big towel on the sand    We open the picnic basket    I eat a toasted panini. Mozzarella cheese, sun-dried tomato, sliced egg
with mustard    wholegrain mustard. Not the smooth stuff    what are you eating?  [I’m a demanding guy and I know what I want. I’m also slightly retarded]
Her 11:27 – like French    I’m eating fatty meat, whole-milk cheese and I am sipping with beer    <lol>    joke    light salad…, tomatos and I’m drinking water of lemon
Me 11:30 – nice
Her 11:30 – with lemon
Me 11:30 – I like that [reward]
Her 11:30 – 🙂  [likes reward, she’s accepting the submissive position]
Me 11:31 – Now we go for a swim in the sea    It’s a bit cold, but not uncomfortable
Her 11:31 – ohh my hair! 😛
Me 11:31 – do you pin it up, or let it down?
Her 11:32 – my hair?
Me 11:32 – yes
Her 11:32 – in summer…i like let it down.. I think – it’s sexy  [she’s definitely happy to feel sexy around me now. Notice she’s not trying to take validation from me, she’s simply enjoying the roleplay]
Me 11:32 – nice    So we’re in the sea. I’m splashing you    you are giggling    I carry you on my back, walking through the water    Then throw you under, and laugh  [future projections should involve you somehow getting one over on her]
Her 11:33 – oohh it’s romantic:)  [IOI]
Me 11:34 – You squeak and squeal    So I pick you up over my shoulder
Her 11:35 – 🙂  [all girls like it rough]
Me 11:36 – I slap your ass    then carry you to the sand, and throw you down
like this…

but more gentle    because we’re in love
Her 11:38 – ohh it’s nice 😛
Me 11:38 – And then, as you lay there on the sand, giggling, breathing hard    looking sexy    I look at your tits, and your ass    Then    I get out my nintendo, and play video games    😛   [defuse tension]
My laptop is almost out of battery. I have to go….  [true]
Her 11:40 – ok    we can talk to later  [she’s hooked]
Me 11:40 – have a good day 🙂  [comfort]
Her 11:41 – thanx    you too

Here’s a bit of fun in Poland about an hour before I met the girl I SDL’d. My state was shit and I was trying to find a way to get back into the groove so I thought I’d pull a fairly ballsy opener and then just vibe with some inane free association nonsense.

I guess the only learning point from this video is that you can open a girl by insulting her but if you hold your ground and act like it wasn’t such a big deal, she’ll fall into frame. In this case, not enough to actually build enough attraction.

Krauser gets blown out. For the fifth time that day………

I’m in Ludz on a Saturday afternoon having endured a four-hour rickety train ride aboard the Communist Express. We’re all deadly tired after a long long night out in Krakow and an early rush to the station. Suave has no motivation whatsoever, resting on the laurels of his previous night’s f-close that culminated in taking £10 off the girl to pay for our taxi to the train station and leaving her bewildered on the pavement calling after him “give me the money!”

Shammers and I decide we have to at least try some daygame. It’s 6pm, cold, and few people on the streets. I do a few sets. They all stop but there’s no life in my game and none of the girls inspire me. I notice a tall blonde in a purple coat walk past but by the time I realise I like her the easy moment is gone and I’m too low energy to chase her. She gets lucky – she’s just wandering around while she waits for a bus and I walk past her again on the other side of the street fifteen minutes later. I open immediately as she pulls level.

How she remembers the kiss

Me: Hi! I want to say something…. I just love your coat!

Her: Thank you [big smile]

Me: Did you cut your own hair?  [she has a weird asymetric fringe]

Shammers wanders off to open a cute blonde and I stay in set for ten minutes. My girl is responding great and I just feel the sexual tension between us. Deep eye contact, smiling, crazy leg-crossing. All the signals are there. I test out her time constaint and it turns out she has to get a bus in a few minutes to a rock concert. She’s travelled a long way into Ludz to see this band. So I walk her to the bus stop. I’m still pretty half-arsed – I really need a good night sleep to be effective and I’ve only had two hours plus still got a hangover. My farts are stinking too so I make sure I stand downwind.

As we get to the corner to go our separate ways I’m not even gonna take a number.

Me: Ok, this is where we say goodbye. It was really nice meeting you [she looks at me very sweetly, smiling, and clearly disappointed we will never meet again. I decide to take a risk]

Me: [strong eye contact] Let’s do something crazy!

Her: Ummm, yeah? [smiling in anticipation]

Me: Give me your hands [she does]. Have you ever kissed a guy…. who you just met…. in the street? [serious eye fucking]

Her: No, ummm, er… [smiling, loving it]

Me: [puts her hands on my shoulders, leans in, she leans in – kiss]

Awesome kiss. As mechanical and diligent as I am for daygame I still feel the spark of certain romantic moments and this was one. She looks at me with crazy eyes like she can’t believe the torrent of alphaness that’s swept her up. I take her number and head back for a nap, a huge smile on my face. Text game ensues that evening:

The fringe. My god, the fringe!

Me 8:29pm – Hey, is this Purple? The slightly cute, slightly crazy [subject] teacher who cuts her own hair.

Her 8:40pm – Hey stranger 🙂 here’s a girl in a purple coat, how’s your party?

Me 8:50pm – Hmmmm, what should I do with a girl like that….

Her 8:57pm – I cant focus on the concert because i think about you, is that normal? 😉 maybe you should try to find some nice girl in the club? 🙂 [five minutes of alpha plays havok with a girl’s emotional circuitry. She needs comfort and is hence giving me a player test]

Me 9:00pm – I’m still thinking about you too. You’ve hijacked my mind [in Poland you can get away with 2002 Mystery lines! We were opening in clubs with “who lies more”] :O I think it’s your grey eyes…. entrancing.

We exchange more texts and I end up meeting her at the train station at 3am after my clubbing. An f-close isn’t on the cards so I just work comfort, cat kino, and build towards the harem. The f-close girl from two days earlier is also engaging me on Facebook so I’m thinking I might as well set up a Polish branch of the harem. After finger fucking Purple in the train station I run two hours comfort – very honest stuff:

Me: Ok, you’ve been really nice so I’m gonna let you do something. You can ask me two questions – about anything – and I promise to answer completely honestly. And I won’t be offended by the question.

Her: Really?

Me: Yeah. I’m gonna get a coffee from that machine. Ask me when I get back. Don’t waste them by asking about my favourite colour or food.

She takes it seriously and asks me why I got divorced, and do I come to Poland with my friends to pick up girls. I reframe both into DHVs but still give reponses that are true in both spirit and facts. She loves it – deep rapport. She gives me two questions so I ask how many guys she’s fucked (seven) and what her second favourite dinosaur is (brontosaurus). Then I get a taxi to the hostel and sleep. I’ve been running some comfort on Facebook since then. The plan is to bring her to London for a week of seriously degrading sex.

NB – Kiss close gambit shamelessly pilfered from Yad.