I must’ve walked under some ladders and kicked some black cats because my luck has been shitty of late. I’ve had flu twice in three months and two minor colds. Waking up this morning to teach bootcamp the glands around my throat were so swollen it hurt to swallow and tossed and turned in bed getting a sum total of three hours sleep. Very much breaking my daygame rule of “get a good nights sleep and feel refreshed”.

Nonetheless I stumble out and do a few demo sets for the students. This is the best of them. It’s really nothing to get excited about because at best its a 50/50 she’ll contact me, probably less. But she had a bizarre vibe to her and there was some fun challenging interplay between us.

0:29 – She’s pulling a “what’s going on” face
0:36 – Don’t be scared to comment on racial factors. Girls really don’t care.
0:38 – The first indicator that this is a confident girl with some creativity on her side. She’s not going to lock up.
0:44 – So I go straight into a tease to show I can play this game too. I’ll keep coming back to it.
1:00 – Personalise it all to her.
1:07 – She’s very comfortable now she knows I’m not a mugger. I’m pegging her as having high self esteem and good social skills. Nice.
1:14 – More teasing but also screening to see if she’s a perpetual student (which I don’t like)
1:22 – The mutually agreed frame is banter and challenge. It doesn’t happen often but when it does it’s alot of fun to have a girl stand up for herself and throw things back at you.
1:32 – Time constraint. So everything now has to be hurried. I manage to string it out eight minutes in the end which is a sign she enjoys the interaction.
1:40 – I was not expecting her to extend this with questions. Might as well run with it and throw in some cheesy obvious DHVs.
2:20 – Very basic mild defiance gets a laugh. Don’t be agreeing to everything a girl says.
2:31 – Callback humour to her posh voice and then a tease about Manchester culture.
2:54 – I’m just free associating because I know she might head off any time this gets boring or has a long pause. She’s enjoying it, but has a real time constraint which I’m gradually weakening.
3:12 – She enjoyed that cold read about “incongrous”. It’s contrast game from me. Act like a retard and throw in some hints I’m actually smart and well read.
3:30 – She’s sharp, relaxed and fun. I’m really enjoying talking to her.
3:44 – Notice how her body never stops pointing vaguely in the direction she was walking. This is because I never fully kill momentum. The time constraint is constantly there.
4:26 – I’m introducing a theme that I drop unexpectedly educated words into an otherwise normal conversation, to see if she notices and plays ball.
4:41 – I really don’t know what she was thinking here.
4:55 – Normally this means a dead end but it does no harm and in this case it sounds like she’s genuinely considering the date. God knows what’s holding her back.
5:30 – More dumbass teasing
6:08 – She likes arrogance so I throw some in and she IOIs twice with a smile and a question.
6:25 – She picks up the ball on the clever word game.
7:13 – Callback humour to her posh voice. My tone makes it a qualifier because I clearly like her accent.
7:48 – She does the clever word game again.

Generally speaking I have a low opinion of online game. It is designed to fail. The only girls who would use it are those who are too old/ugly or too busy (=career woman= masculine= unattractive) to pick up guys face to face. The only men online are those too scared to overcome approach anxiety. Thus online game is just low value men spamming the inboxes of low value women, making out their entitlement complexes. Not for me.

Then look at how sites like Match and eHarmony are marketed. They are flagrantly positioned as “find a sucker” for over-30s women to get married off. Thus my conclusion that online game is a waste of time, like trawling through a sea of sewage in search of an occasional zircon. Why bother when I can just see a girl on the street and get her.

Over the past six months I’ve watched Burto and Tony T mercilessly invade dating sites and string together an unending ho train of ready, willing, and most importantly fuckable girls. They’ve cracked the code. So my ears perked up. Then Jimmy jumped in and found an entertaining way to get these girls – troll the fuck out of them and then turn the anger response into attraction. That’s fun.

So I’m giving online game another chance, as of today. I’m gonna pick the brains of T-bone, B-bone and J-bone to figure out a style that works for me. My profile is up and it’s heavy on the playful douchbag, qualifying girls from the first sentence. Here’s the mails I sent out today. Results (or lack of them) should come through in the next two days.

Pinky

Girl One – Pinky has a short playful profile presenting herself as a cute fun girl who wants a fun guy with kind eyes she can swim in.
Subject: Your hair scares my dog
Message: Nice colour, but really. When Bodger walked past my laptop he yelped and hit in his basket.

Asian

Girl Two – Asian has “activity” photos and a few smiley ones. She’s a bit dull and talks about her favourite tv shows and travel destinations. She doesn’t say it, but looks like an office girl.
Subject: Your profile is masculine
Message: Skydiving, travelling and stuff. Maybe if you’d put up a few photos of you baking a nice cake, and maybe wearing a cute summer dress, somebody would look and think “she’d make a good little wife”

Black

Girl Three – Black has put alot of effort into her profile to describe her hobbies. She comes off as a feisty charity worker who wants to be a bit quirky. Likeable but a bit full of it.
Subject: You lost me at “RSPCA”
Message: We have pretty much nothing in common. I dislike hip hop, amateur dramatic, and prodnose charities. That said, being a man, I liked your photos so I thought I’d force myself to read past the first paragraph. Just in case there was some gold to be found in your character traits.  Not sure. You’re a marmite girl – you’ll inspire love or hate and not much inbetween.

Girl Four – Brown has one sentence describing the type of guy she wants and one photo that doesn’t even show her full face. Entitlement is written all over her.
Subject: Honestly, that’s all you have?
Message: You’re asking alot for a girl who has one badly-cropped photo and a half-arsed About Me section. I spent two hours writing my profile, filling it with subtle wit and screening questions. Then I carefully went through my photos to present a well-balanced introduction to who I am.  Your sheer audacity intrigues me. But my attraction-o-meter is barely registering.

Bitchy

Girl Five – Bitchy has an annoying photo but her profile is actually nice and sweet.
Subject: You look bitchy
Message: Your photo intrigued me for all the wrong reasons (for you). Such a “look at me, I’m the princess” pout I thought: this profile is gonna be funny, let’s see how much self-delusion can be squeezed into a single About Me section. But no, you seem like a normal, down to earth girl. Except Dan Brown – ugh!

I’ve left the messages exactly as written, so if the girls are smart enough to google the text they’ll find this page and see what I’m up to. I messaged another four girls. I might do a second post.

A couple of months ago I opened a sweet English girl near Trafalgar Square in day game. It was an unremarkable set. Nice ten minutes of banter and she responded well but it never quite seemed to reach a point where I could commit her. Nonetheless I follow up. I post this long text exchange to show one way of warming up a cold lead. It takes lots of texts so it’s important to enjoy the process for self-amusement, rather than as a means to an end.

Me: So is this [button nose]? The kinda cute but kinda feisty girl who owes Nick a coffee (white americano, no sugar)
Her: do i look like a girl who buys men drinks?  [shit test, hard and fast]
Me: No. Just mine.  [stand my ground, cocky arrogance]
Her: you are so insane.  [IOI]
Me: Uh-huh. I’m on my way out now. Talk soon. I’m thinking Saturday afternoon, about 5pm. Be a good girl and say “yay!”
Her: im not a good girl and maybe ill discuss with my boyfriend then see. ur outrageous.
Me: Cool

So nothing happens. It’s a cute girl who likes me but she’s got a boyfriend and she doesn’t like me enough to ignore the fact. There’s lots of sets like this so I move on. Three weeks later I’m browsing my contacts with a new warm-up text in mind. A few cold leads get the same text and Button Nose responds.

Me 3:18am – You just invaded my dream. I can’t even remember what you look like. That’s totally not fair.  [draw her in on her vanity because girls need to know how people perceive them, but make it clear it wasn’t a pervy dream]
Her 8:32am – Sorry who is this? i dont have this number saved…  [proves how little investment she has right now]
Her 10:36am – ?? Come on i am so curious now i don’t have this number in my phone..   [I’d not replied for two hours. She’s started work and it’s nawing at her mind]
Me 10:38am – Don’t worry about it, you barely know me 😉   [more defiance – a normal guy would been saying “It’s Nick! We met at Trafalgar Sq three weeks ago. Remember?”]
Her 10:39am – it doesn’t matter if i barely know you then how do you have my number?
Me 10:40am – You liked me so you gave it to me. I don’t think you do that often to strangers. [framing her as liking me and me being different]
Her 10:42am – I don’t… So where did i meet u? If u have forgotten my face it had to have been long ago right?
Me 10:45am – Just a few weeks ago. We were both stone cold sober. I might not remember your face, but I do remember meeting. Dunno your excuse…  [slightly challenging]
Her 10:55am – It would be helpful if u gave me your name or where we met and then i will remember… come on if u waited 2 weeks to text or something what do you expect?  [this one unanswered question has been spun out so long that it allows me to DHV and invest her]
Her 11:00am – I am fairly sure i remember you but i changed phones so my sim lost you.. are you the sandwich compliment man who chased me down outside costa?  [I don’t want to be framed as “sandwich compliment guy”]
Me 11:02am – Not sure about a sandwich. I think I complimented your arse or your walk.  [remind her how sexual the opener was]
Her 11:03am – Sandwich complimenting! U complimented them in an offensive way!  [mild shit test / banter]
Me 11:05am – Offensive? Yeah right… Little Miss Innocent now, are you?  [introduce an image]
Her 11:08am – Of course! I was raised catholic 😉 i think using the word slutty was a bit much…  [playing along]
Me 11:16am – So should I apologise and do some Hail Marys?
Her 11:18am – i could def use some form of grovelling right now… bad dayyy  [she’s opening up a little about herself, a move into rapport]
Her 11:18am – Maybe explain what i was doing in ur dream  [she’d almost forgotten the original text because of how I distracted her]
Me 11:24am – It wasn’t sexual. Well, not very… You were sort of a cameo character in the background. I don’t remember the details – you know how dreams are – but somehow it was definitely you.  [this is basically a neg]
Her 11:29am – How…. flattering?
Me 11:31am – Oh, I like you Button Nose. But I don’t control my subconscious. Why’s your day so bad?  [SOI and stack forwards. You can’t tease forever, I’ve done enough attraction for now]
Her 11:50am – Oh god its an old cliche to be honest… ‘my boyfriend and i broke up’ blah blah blah. But you know… new day, new start  [sometimes you get lucky with timing and logistics. Have to be careful not to jump on it with lame “hey baby, forget him, you’ve got me” lame-assery]
Me 11:55am – Boo, that sucks   Does your breakup recovery plan involve chocolate and wine?
Her 11:56am – No because that will lead to weight gain and me feeling even worse!! My break up plan involves fruit and cocktails. Lol i don’t know i don’t have a break up plan i am not organized enough.
Me 11:58am – If I was proper shifty, I’d be looking to pounce during your window of emotional vulnerability right now….  [verbalising the obvious subtext]
Her 12:00pm – ‘if’??!! Anyway sadly for anyone thinking that, break ups make me toughen up.
Me 12:11pm – Ok, I’m shifty…. Unburden yourself on your girl friends for a few days (I’m a bad listener), then we’ll do something together  [ordering her to do what she’d do anyway while showing intent and a lack of outcome dependence]
Her 12:11pm – Hahahahahahahahahahaah ok

My game only works on young girls who are in a foreign country and thus it’s just the English accent and the economic disparities that get the girl attracted. Oh, and that they are speaking in a second language. That’s why anyone can score beautiful models in places like Lithuania and Croatia. You don’t even need game.

I know this because PUAhate and the Reddit manginas* know this.

So this afternoon I specifically went looking for an English girl. Call it reaction-seeking if you will. I was gonna conquer my total dislike of English girls and get one just to prove it’s actually easier than getting a pretty foreigner.

It was tougher than I thought – I couldn’t find any I liked. It was a pretty dry day altogether. Jimmy only did one set. Bhodisatta only did a few. Just too dreary a day to find any girls on the streets worth opening. I ended up doing four sets:

First was a stunning tall thai girl. A full-on ten. She chatted a few minutes but gave a convincing boyfriend defense. Nice interaction but going nowhere. Next was this girl in the video. a British-born girl of Bengali ancestry. Closest I could get of what was available. Third girl was a nice dusky beauty from Mauritus Islands. Went ok but no sexual vibe and no close. Then lastly while I was waiting for the bus home I number closed and touched up [with her giggling permission] a cute Italian tourist. No video, unfortunately. It was the best set of the day.

Anyhoo, here’s the Brit/Bengali and then the full facebook chat we had later this evening. It’s on. I didn’t turn my mic on but you can hear her giggling when I’m asking her to show me her arse and other daft stuff. Good playful vibe. Anyone using this video to learn should focus on the body language and in particular how little my feet move, the strong stance, and the wide sweeping gestures. Most of her laughs coming when I’ve done some verbal escalation.

Me 23:28 – she’s checking me out……  [assumed familiarity, frame her as chasing and a definite man-woman vibe]
Her 23:28 – looool    hey
Me 23:29 – 😉
Her 23:29 – so wat you upto?  [god I hate textspeak. Gonna tell her off for this later when there’s more rapport. Set a boundary]
Me 23:29 – just finished training, had a shower  [DHV, draw the question]
Her 23:30 – training for what?  [investment]
Me 23:30 – kickboxing    I love it!  [joy for life, in a manly activity]
Her 23:30 – awwww cool
Me 23:30 – I built a gym in our house    Punchbag, pads, mirror etc    we often train together, sparring etc  [expand on the DHV]
Her 23:31 – im jealous  [IOI]
Me 23:31 – haha, don’t tell me you like fighting  [challenge]
Her 23:31 – one thing i really wana do is kick boxing  [rapport seeking, and also just really nice she’s got a shared interest]
Me 23:31 – I’ll never believe it  [defiance. Women love a defiant man]
Her 23:31 – loool    i love fighting    i like rugby i like boxing    i like anything with violence    😛  [she is genuinely interesting me here. I like this alot]
Me 23:32 – +15 points for you    you’re full of surprises  [reward]
Her 23:32 – loool    can i ask…how old are you?  [IOI]
Me 23:32 – yes, you can  [defiance…]
Her 23:33 – …………
Me 23:33 – I’ll tell you if you go first  […but not evasion]
Her 23:33 – loool    im 21    turning 22 soon
Me 23:34 – oh dear    too young for me   [say it before she does]
Her 23:34 – loool    how old are you?
Me 23:34 – 35  [no apologies, no rationalising]
Her 23:34 – lol    how old did you think i was?
Me 23:35 – dunno    didn’t think about it    what’s your mental age?  [shrug it off and stack into a more positive thread]
Her 23:35 – hmmmmm well 12 some of the time    28 most of the time
Me 23:36 – ….full of surprises…..    I think my mother warned me about girls like you  [tease]
Her 23:36 – how?    y????    im a good girl  [enjoys tease]
Me 23:36 – all cute on the outside, and big trouble on the inside  [IOI and tease combined, keeping romantic frame]
Her 23:36 – hmmm i agree with that    i can’t believe you like pandas  [remembering our conversation and responding to contrast game]
Me 23:37 – I like lots of things I’m not supposed to    I guess I’m a rebel  [retarded – I’m framing liking pandas as if it’s a counter-cultural statement]
Her 23:38 – hmmm    its coz not many ppl like pandas
Me 23:38 – they are so cute
Her 23:38 – coz they think their fat and lazy    😦    yhhhh i love themmmmm    🙂   [shared interests – simple rapport]
Me 23:39 – if you go on youtube and search “pandas fighting”    so cute    what are you doing now?  [move the conversation on, leading. No need to get stuck in attraction – I have enough value to ask simple rapport questions]
Her 23:39 – lol ok ill try that now  [I didn’t intend this as a hoop, but she’s jumping through anyway]
Me 23:39 – what are you doing now?    BTW my internet is very slow    I’m getting some of your messages twice
Her 23:41 – lol its kl    ok
Me 23:42 – txt spk = -2 points  [tell her off. I’m serious. I hate text speak]
Her 23:42 – welm just on my laptop in bed     checking my mail before i go to sleep    im sorry  [allows me to tell her off. She doesn’t get so bad again]
Me 23:42 – heh     Has it been a good day?  [rapport, and try to frame her to anchor the whole day positively]
Her 23:43 – yh its been a really good day    went out with a friend and had dinner and shisha    so that was fun and entertaining
Me 23:43 – is that your normal way of relaxing?    you don’t seem like a party girl  [simple cold read]
Her 23:44 – yh thats my normal way of relaxing    and your right im not a party girl
Me 23:44 – +10  [reward]
Her 23:45 – ive actually never been out to a club coz i dont like that atmosphere
Me 23:45 – um…. then how do you know you don’t like it?  [tease]
Her 23:46 – because ive been to parties and after half an hour i just feel like i cant be round people who are drunk    i don’t drink myself    so thats not the atmosphere i wana be round really    want to***   [giving up some of her real self, and correcting herself from text speak]
Me 23:48 – I see    -1 then +1
Her 23:48 y – then +    ?
Me 23:48 – are you a reader?
Her 23:48 – what read books?
Me 23:48 – books and stuff    with long words, and no pictures  [playful way of asking normal rapport material. I’m screening. I like readers]
Her 23:49 – lol    yh i love reading books    but havent havent really had the time or found the right beek to entice me recently    book**
Me 23:49 – I try to read one a week  [DHV, contrast game] What’s the last book you read? Truth, please. Don’t try and pretend something really deep and clever if it wasn’t 😉 [frame her as wanting to impress me]
Her 23:50 – thats really good    well its a book which i havent even finished yet    its called lies of locke lamore    but i think last book i properly finished was was achebe’s things fall apart
Me 23:52 – who is achebe? not the warrior from Troy….    sounds like a little dog
Her 23:52 – loool no
Me 23:53 – “hey, I like your dog”….. “thanks, she’s a chebe”
Her 23:53 – loool    noooo    chinua achebe    african writer
Me 23:54 – that’s a furry little dog  [she’s responded well, keep needling her]
Her 23:54 – looool no thats a chow chow
Me 23:54 – o…….kay  [I’m not quite sold on her]
Her 23:54 – they are sooooo cute    like little bears  [so she qualifies harder]
Me 23:54 – I’m ambivalent about bears  [a thoroughly retarded statement]
Her 23:55 – y?
Me 23:56 – panda, polar and grizzly are good
Her 23:56 – well a chow chows cute
Me 23:56 – kaola bad    koala    and I’m suspicious of animals that root around in bins at night, which I heard brown bears do  [I am a man who has clear preferences]
Her 23:56 – i think kaolas look evil
Me 23:56 – polar bears probably would too, if there were bins in the artic
Her 23:59 – so you no longer work in investment banking    wat do you do now???    except for kickboxing    ???  [IOI]
Me 00:00 – I’ve sort of had a few careers. Investment banking is the main one. Might go back to it in a year or two    I’ve also been a fight journalist in Japan    taught in junior high school    wrote a few books.    how about you?
Her 00:05 – wow  [I’ll call that an IOI]
Me 00:06 – do you have a favourite fighter?
Her 00:07 – no favourite fighter just like watching people fight  [I like this girl!]
Me 00:08 – all your messages are five minutes behind and a bit random. I can’t tell if FB chat is broken, or you are a little slow  [tease]
Her 00:08 – loool    im not slow    its facebook
Me 00:11 – apologies for my slow internet. having problems with it today    I live in an old people’s care home
Her 00:11 – hmmmm    ok cool    do you have any children?  [IOI]
Me 00:12 – no    the kids on my facebook are my nephews    little bastards    😀
Her 00:13 – i see you love them alot
Me 00:17 – very much    I’m teaching [youngest] to do judo, and [oldest] to do kickboxing    my internet is annoying me    I think I’ll go downstairs and join my gang  [show some softness, then takeaway]
Her 00:19 – ok    well im going to go to bed now    but speak to you soon  [wants more]
Me 00:20 – sleep well    sweet dreams 😉   [not promising more]
Her 00:20 – night night sweet dreams    🙂

* Most of the Reddit posters are normal guys trying to learn. But there’s a few Haterade-drinking mangina virgins who will invent any old bullshit to try and hold their crumbling reality together.

This one isn’t bisexual. Sorry.

There’s not much to say about this video in terms of game. I wasn’t really on form and I struggled to create sexual tension. The girl shows great confidence and thoughtful attitude – a real prime example of why European girls are so much better quality than their unlikeable Anglosphere sistas. I get decent vibing and rapport, even fairly good investment but the sexual energy isn’t there.

She’s on irregular facebook chat now. I’ve closed girls from this before (Muslim Virgin had a very similar uncommitted stance in the initial interaction) but I’d put the odds at 1/4, and that’s assuming I go back to Zagreb in the next year. This blog isn’t all about my successes. Sometimes sets just don’t go where you want them to go.

It’s just occured to me that I haven’t put any infields up in a long time. There’s just been a string of theoretical or joke posts. The last thing I want anyone thinking is that I’m some sort of deep thinker. So here’s one from the Croatia archives – a cute bisexual 17yr old Zagreb girl who I instadated.

This isn’t an especially remarkable set but there’s a few things I do well in it so might as well draw them out.

0:10 – I’d just been videoing Jambone talking to some hot blonde when I see this girl go by. Sorry matey, if you want my to exercise the discipline of videoing you at long distance you have to be more disciplined in doing it for me. Off I go.
0:11 – A spontaneous opener that hits all the elements of the Krauser Daygame Model. Stage 3 – find the girl that gives you the blood bubble, jog right after her
0:15 – Stage 4 is as you catch her up, ask yourself why you noticed her (the “unconvincing bad girl” vibe), communicate with your masculine core and bring it back out as an interesting statement to her. I’m formulating this as I run.
0:19 – Stage 5a is the preframed tease “how good is your English?” to put her on a mild defensive and pique her interest as to why I’m asking and what it’s about to lead to. Note my energy level is extremely low and I’m almost business-like in asking it because I’m subcommunicating that I’m expecting a response. This is killing her momentum.
0:26 – Stage 5b and I’m pacing her reality and rooting the interaction with where I was when I saw her.
0:33 – Stage 6 is the gentle tease.
0:39 – She gives a great response that lets me tease a bit stronger, but with a smile on my face and a twinkle in my eye. Great, momentum thoroughly killed already. She likes me.
0:41 – Stage 7 is to build on the tease for as long as it’s fun
0:58 – Pause to let it sink in and make her respond. This is light qualification and training her that this is gonna be a two-way interaction.
1;16 – Stacking with a conversational question (stage 8)
1:28 – We are confortably entering vibing. I don’t need to plough at all so I don’t. I just let her talk.
1:34 – “what attracts you?” It’s all about her and her emotions. You can build emotional connection very early by phrasing the questions correctly and then being quiet while she talks. I’m already through her value filter so I don’t need to be running longwinded routines and social robot bullshit.

Take careful note of my energy and wordcount. I am very very laid back and already making her do the work. What you can’t see is rock solid body language and strong slightly sexualised eye contact. You can see it’s effect in her hair twirling and how she dances around with the nervous energy bourne of sexual tension.

2:17 – Mild DHVs to show I’m a man of the world.
2:32 – anytime she talks, I shut up. If she wants to invest herself I’m gonna let her.
2:39 – you’re noticing all that hair twirling right? You don’t have to verbally SOI a girl if you are non-verbally SOIing her. The sexual energy is all in the subcommunication. It would be so retarded to start high fiving her and salsa spinning, or even kino, when the subcommunication is humming along so nicely.
2:51 – early stages of intellectual mastery, phrased as a short story in to build anticipation. I’m teaching her stuff, pushing her into the admiring student role.
3:00 – but I’m still a retard. Contrast game.
3:16 – showing leadership and concern for her comfort.
3:36 – say it before she says it so I can keep the frame. 35 yr old guy fucking 17 yr old girl is not a common occurence.
3:49 – this reframe doesn’t get her pushing back like I hoped so I just use it to lead her into qualifying in a win-win manner by agreeing on her being good at something
3:58 – finally I verbally IOI her. I was coming across too high value for her, too powerful, so I had to give her a reason I like her.
4:12 – talk matter of fact about her beauty while also giving a nicely unexpected visual image
4:38 – nice!
5:02 – knowing when to shut up and let her talk is a big part of daygame. Most guys are too nervous and too scared of silences. We are in phase three of the model now – investment
5:35 – more investment, this time getting at a topic that is close to her heart so I let her run with it.
5;58 – listening noises to encourage her to keep talking
6:20 – framing everything to encourage rapport so we an move beyond the superficial gamey phase of meeting.
6:40 – she’s seeking rapport so I’m going to take it. Don’t shut girls down when they seek rapport.
7:00 – I’m sharing real things about myself here. It’s teasing the deep rapport stage we’ll get to once I’ve bounced her from the meeting location. I’m letting her know she can connect to the real me and this interaction will be deep enough to be worth her effort in pursuing it. As a DHV, I’m showing that I can form meaningful connections with people and lead her towards that in super-quick time.
7:16 – Can’t resist a cheesy community line.
7:43 – She’s trying to find commonality with me after I mention fighting, which is rapport-seeking and a good IOI.
7:50 – I sense that I need to lighten the atmosphere for a minute or two and refresh the attraction. With the benefit of hindsight I think this was unnecessary.
8:09 – She’s half passing and half failing the compliance test so I move the thread onto her legs to remind her this is a man talking to a woman.
8:36 – I shouldn’t have come back to this fighting thread. An error.
9:12 – back into normal getting to know you conversation
9:30 – I’m quiet
9:47 – She’s sharing the real her and showing some sexual openess. Without getting too excited about it I need to draw her out on this topic. It’s a gift.
10:23 – She’s jumping into my hoop on kiss qualification
10:35 – If you don’t bring ass, you don’t get ass. I try for the street kiss close.
11:00 – She’s on the fence and finally declines. Fortunately it doesn’t blow the set. Better the pushy arsehole than the timid beta. She is now full convinced I’m not a wuss.
11:26 – Damage control, beginning with a light “beauty is common” neg.
11:48 – She introduces a logistical problem with the boy she likes. Obviously if she really cared she’d have mentioned this within the first ten minutes.
12:13 – Moving her off a bad thread seamlessly.
12:48 – future project
13:43 – despite her blocking the kiss she still likes me and I’ve held the frame without starting to chase her, or qualify to her, or show any disappointment at not getting the kiss. So having adequately recovered after the blocked kiss I think she’s ready to be commited
14:08 – soft dominance by leading her through a concern for her wellbeing

This turned into a two hour instadate and I was so close to the SDL but she got cold feet at the moment of truth. Nice girl.

Here’s the last of my videos from Croatia where the girl was exactly what I look for. Got another few vids of shorter fatter girls I might post later. There’s not much to say that’s not in the video. She was the fourth leggy girl I opened that afternoon.

0:09 – I had an opener ready but when she nearly choked on her food in surprise, I just ran with that.
0:17 – My usual preframe tease was unnecessary when I heard her accent. Natural game should be flexible, going with what the girl gives you rather than sticking to a script.
0:22 – Jambone wandering around aimlessly rather than videoing from a distance. Again.
0:26 – The first of many playfully challenging statements because she seems amenable to banter and it shows value.
0:57 – Vibing, starting to move the conversation onto her.
1:31 – Finally I need to root the conversation. I’ve already shown value for over a minute so its easy to go direct.
1:36 – I don’t think you’ll care about getting to that class darlin’
2:11 – Retarded shit in vibing, I’m self amusing.
2:25 – I like to tell girls off for being naughty.
2:42 – Playful qualifying on her cultural engagement.
2:48 – Shit test on my age. This is a confident girl who isn’t scared to throw things back at me.
3:03 – Pretty face I say.
3:23 – Hands on hips to show mock outrage. A nice IOI. These are signs that the vibing has reached its goal and I can mix in some investment from her.
3:36 – This is screening from me. I like girls who are smart but don’t get all hoighty-toighty about it. The fact she plays down her education is a sign of high esteem.
3:50 – But just incase she doesn’t pick up on the subtlety, I drop in my education too. I want her to think I’m a smart guy playing the retard, not an actual retard.
4:22 – A variant of the Mystery “beauty is common” principle.
4:54 – Playful qualification and teasing draws another hands-on-hip IOI. She’s emotionally investing.
5:15 – Snip thread and compliment. Push-pull.
5:30 – She gives me an easy in to a DHV.
5:51 – She’s asking about me and forgetting about her lecture. Good stuff.
6:23 – Another challenge.
6:48 – Treating her like a racehorse or showdog.
6:55 – Lead the thread away from generalities and back to her childhood.
7:29 – Projecting the frame that I’m interested but I don’t care if she doesn’t like me.
7:56 – Comfort and rapport. It’s good to tell the girl something about yourself that she can connect with.
9:08 – I’m probably talking a bit too much now but I’m enjoying the conversation.

Here’s another from Croatia. I’ll try and get round to giving a commentary but I’m a bit backed up with material right now. This girl is fucking beautiful. Decent set but gonna take alot of work to move it forwards.

I guess this set is most noticeable for how I plough and kill momentum because it was tough to do so. I also do more challenging comments than usual.

Here’s a vid of a girl who ticks every box for me. I’m sitting in a cafe with Jambone and she glides past. We’ve been talking about what we like in women. I say “that there is my ten”. “Open her then” he says. This is how it goes. She’s on facebook for Long Game now and it’s looking promising.

I’ll add some commentary soon. Gotta rush out for a bootcamp now…. for now you guys can fill the comments with why she’s not a real ten. C’mon, give me some solid IMS (internet male syndrome).