Trialing a new Facebook escalation method

June 4, 2011
krauserpua

This came out of nowhere. Totally opportunistic. I’m dicking around on facebook and set up a Spanish girl to be a fuck buddy on Monday. A girl I instant-dated last summer and haven’t seen since. Couldn’t even kiss close her. But three days of FB chat and she’s up for it.

Opportunity knocks

So this girl comes online. Haven’t seen her since winter – a five minute street close that went precisely nowhere. She accepted the facebook add, chatted a few times, then nothing. Couldn’t get a date or phone number. She comes online for the first time in months and I go right into it – same routine as the Spaniard but with far less comfort built up. At first she’s just playing along like its a game but you can gradually sense she realises I’m serious and she’s getting warm to the idea.

Amazing how a flagrant booty call can be taken so well if you package it right. I haven’t fucked her but I’d say the probability went from 1% to 35%.

Me: the little pervert is back
Her: lol     how you??
Me: it’ summer weather, I’m great!     pervert
Her: why am i a pervert?     😦
Me: you look like one     big raccoon eyes    shaking your sexy little ass when you walk
Her: your the pervert
Me: you’re the bigger pervert     (not literally, you’re only little)
Her: no im not     i am little but best things come in small packages
Me: You think about sex all the time     I don’t. I’m pure like fresh snow
Her: shut up you silly bum
Me: see, all you can think about is my bum     pervert
Her: arghhhhhhh
Me: now you are having sex chat!     :O
Her: 😦     shut upppp
Me: I’m shocked. I’m gonna tell my mum
Her: ok fine im the pervert and im thinking about your bum
Me: I have a tattoo of a rat on my bum     it looks like you     you can come and lick it sometime    I mean, LOOK at it sometime
Her: yuck     you idiot     where’s your panda tattoo?     (i hope you have one)
Me: No. That would be silly
Her: 😦
Me: Where are you from? remind me
Her: im from london i live in a house and i am a human
Me: you liar
Her: enough information?
Me: you are a little rat and you live in the sewers under Aldgate tube station     I’m the rat catcher
Her: you muppet
Me: I have a net with your name on it    fraggle
Her: shut uppppp    your so mean
Me: I heard little fraggles like you are the worst at sex
Her: well if you say so     your always right…and i’m always wrong
Me: heh    I think you’re really cute, though
Her: thanks…but you shouldn’t judge until youve tried…..
Me: oh, I didn’t say I think you’d be a good lay    I just think you have cute mannerisms and an itty-bitty-wascally cute face    if I was gonna get married     …. you could be my mistress
Her: your such a dork
Me: of course, we’d have to work on your attitude    you’re kinda disobedient
Her: but thats the best part    trying to tame me    😛
Me: I’d throw you over my knee and spank your little bum    then send you to make me a cup of tea
Her: awww would that tire you out so much that you’d need a break     owell
Me: if the tea is nice, I’d have your knickers on the floor within a minute     throw you on my bed     bite your neck    slap your arse again     then drink my tea
Her: ha ha     o how lovely for me
Me: I’m a bit selfish that way
Her: i can tell
Me: I’d probably make you cum a few times     but it would be a side-effect     not the main show
Her: hmmmmmmm    that’s not being selfish now is it
Me: Ok, I’ll admit it     sometimes I’m the romantic sort     sometimes     inbetween slamming a girl into the mattress    I can sometimes kiss her, nibble her ear, and softly bite her neck
Her: aww how sweet…
Me: I think you would break    which is unfortunate
Her: i wouldn’t break     but you’d have to see that for yourself
Me: hmmm, are you offering to make the tea?
Her: i’ll think about that…maybe    ok…fine you’ve twisted my arm     😛
Me: Ok, agreed     Get in a taxi     I’ll pay half
Her: ok fine im doing that right now
Me: [my postcode]
Her: ok     expect me over in a bit     i hope your ready
Me: Text me when you’re on the way  [my number]
Her: alright will do
Me: cool, put a skirt on if possible     I’ve have the kettle boiling
Her: why a skirt?
Me: 😉     I like skirts    It’s not crucial    but I like them
Her: ok well i was thinking of just a black mac and my underwear     but whatever floats your boat
Me: sounds cool    do what excites you     and I’ll keep up my side of the bargain and make you cum all night     see you soon
Her: ok see you in a bit
Me: 😉
[she goes offline]

The Daygame Blueprint

May 31, 2011
krauserpua

This weekend I had the privilege of working at the Woodstock of daygame. For three days most of the top London guys were herded together for one event to go end-to-end through the Yad/Yosha daygame model. A nice swanky hotel, fifty students, expensive camera kit – the full David D-esque superconference experience. Yad had called me up to help out on the infield and by the last day I ended up doing an impromptu half hour lecture on text game.

A drum solo between acts

A fantastic experience. Great material, great guys.

This isn’t a review because the DVDs aren’t out yet but unlike other “super conferences” that are mostly muppets upselling bullshit products, these were real guys delivering real material: Yad, Yosha, Torero, Alex Love, Sasha, Tomcat.

I made about six pages of notes. I was picking out little nuggets here and there. Sometimes one of the guys would have a turn of phrase that elegantly encapsulated an idea, or some tiny adjustment I hadn’t thought of. The general model was familiar ground to me (but would be gold dust to a newcomer). I’m not gonna rip off their material here, just point out a couple of cool insights:

  • Attraction is built on raw unfiltered expression
  • Not being yourself creates inhibitions and doubts from the beginning, by denying your expression
  • If you wake up one day and your energy is amazing, don’t waste it. Go find a girl
  • The masculine vibe must overpower the feminine for attraction to happen
  • When you exchange numbers, make sure she’s putting a character into her phone, not a random guy
  • The answers are not in your memory, they are right in front of you
  • No one cares when a stranger talks about themselves. You are that stranger.
  • A high value girl is happy to give you two minutes of nothing as a test. It’s great. Don’t be thrown off.

I might talk about a concept or two in more details later.

Daygame Nitro – Street Pick-Up For Alpha Males

May 22, 2011
krauserpua

It’s finally here. My own Leviathan. This is my pride and joy. For the past six months I’ve been hard at work formulating my model, fleshing it out, testing it, getting fellow daygamers to review it. Finally I’m able to put into words, into a step-by-step guide, the entirety of the Krauser Daygame Model.

I announce to the world Daygame Nitro: Street Pick-up For Alpha Males. The definitive textbook on daygame. This is a handsome 167-page hardback edition with 35,000 words explaining how I pick up girls. Let the revolution begin!

Buy it here.

Learn to pick up girls off the street. Stone cold sober.

In this book Nick Krauser lays out the full plan. From waking up in the morning to putting your cock inside the girl in a coffee-shop toilets, Nick guides you step-by-step through the mindsets, the values, the things to say, the ways to hold eye contact. Everything.

This is an end-to-end exposition of how cool guys pick up banging-hot girls, sweeping them off their feet and into the bedroom. It’s not what you’re thinking. You don’t need to be good-looking. You won’t be driving a sports car, and you certainly won’t be spending any money on the girls.

This is about personal charismatic value. What it is, how to build it, and most importantly how to project it to the girls.

This is the ultimate reframe. This is about hunting down the hottest girls in the world and making them feel lucky that you chose them. This is…

Street pick-up for alpha males.

There will be no ebook. I have no plans to discount the price. The entirety of the book’s publishing and distribution is outsourced to Lulu, so any ordering queries should be addressed to them. All I will see is my royalties when they show up in my bank account. From order to receipt varies but seems to take 1-2 weeks. Any queries about the book’s content, put it in the comments to this post and I’ll try to answer them.

Buy it here

Do looks matter? – Mr Potato Head edition

May 2, 2011
krauserpua

As men we are primarily attracted to women for their beauty, that being a proxy for health and fertility. The twin-attack of beta social conditioning (trying to get girly men to obsess about their looks) and psychological projection (assuming other people believe what you believe) means many men assume good looks are necessary to bang the hottest girls.

Well, I believe there’s a simple acid test to whether a guy has game:

Is he fucking girls who are physically better looking than he is?

I see many guys leaving clubs with girls where he is clearly a couple of points above her on the looks scale. He’s got no game, is my immediate unassailable conclusion. It takes no game at all for a male 9 to pull a female 7. All it requires is some intent and avoiding the most outrageous fuck-ups.

But if I see a fat guy with skinny legs and a pasty face walking around with a hot girl, or a short fat criminal who looks like Hitler’s nerdier brother with a hot girl……. then I think the man has game. Below I’ve appended a video I shot this morning with my latest girl. She has just informed me she is a stripper. She has good looking guys hit on her constantly. I ask her to comment on my good looks.

The fundamental basis of attraction

April 13, 2011
krauserpua

I’ve finally figured it out. What is the underlying principle from which all attraction springs? When you do something in a set and a girl responds well, what was your behaviour an expression of? What is the single most basic ingredient from which the entire superstructure of successful game rests?

It’s not value

It’s not character

It’s not survival and replication

The fundamental basis of all attraction is the ability to create order out of chaos.

That’s gonna need unpacking.

Nature has a plan. We have evolved into fixed gender roles so that mutually dependent men and women can specialise in skill sets and attributes that combine to create a strong family unit. At a high level of aggregation this is the exchange between a man’s means to provide (caring) and a woman’s gratitude for provision (caring). From this base an entire superstructure was built and we called it civilisation. Feminism and communism have since been wrecking it – the former by undermining the male role and the latter by undermining the family as the basic unit of society. This has created extreme disorder and disfunction.

Humans are designed with an innate desire for pleasure and will move towards it. However pleasure is hedonistic and does not bring satisfaction. Witness your typical witless drug-taker or sex addict. Satisfaction, the grounded feeling in your gut and the tranqility in your mind, comes from removing disorder in your life. This is beyond sexual attraction. Consider the following actions and the satisfaction they create:

  • Cleaning your room
  • Sorting your dvd collection into alphabetical order
  • Finalising your holiday itinerary
  • A well cut suit with shirt tucked and tie straight
  • Crossing the last item off your shopping list

The world is a disorderly place with multiple competing plants, animals and germs. It is the human capacity to impose it’s own order (i.e. own reality) and make the world bend to his will that gives us the platform to survive and replicate. When a woman attaches herself to a man with a strong reality it is increasing her chances for survival and replication. Dissatisfaction is signalled through disorder. Have you ever walked through a council estate and seen gardens with unkempt hedges and shopping trolleys and mattresses piled up? Have you noticed how people who flit from job to job, town to town, and lack stability are also usually disatisfied? Have you noticed how fat unkempt slobs are also full of neurosis?

Disorder is unattractive. The symptoms of disorder kill attraction.

So how does this relate to pick-up?

Nature evolved women to chase their tails until given direction from men. The natural state of affairs is that men lead and women follow. There is no evolution or development on the female side of our species – they simply reproduce mediocrity every generation because that is sufficient to be fertile. No risks are taken either in their biology or in their behaviour. Human advancement falls to men, whether we like it or not. It is up to men to create order.

Everything you project during your interactions with men and women must convey the ability to create order out of disorder. Examples:

  • Unreactivity to shit tests shows a solid reality grounded in order, not a fumbling fleeting weak-kneed character
  • Leading a girl shows you have a plan and will order her life
  • Strong open body language conveys power and relaxation, signs that a man is comfortable in having imposed himself on the situation
  • Intellectual mastery shows the mental tools to understand the world around you, identify the important areas, and organise them the way you want them to be
  • Escalation is taking the girl along the human courtship ritual, an ordered sequence of events
  • Having your shit together in life through your appearance, grooming, job and schedule are surface markers of an orderly existence she can slot into
  • Repelling AMOGs shows your reality is stronger than theirs and thus you are the king in this social order

We currently live in a world of weak men and disorderly women. Men have ruined their ability to create order and thus women screen for societally-bestowed surface markers of order-creation, such as wealth and social status. Women have ruined their submissive nature and allowed free regin to their hedonistic bullshit and thus men screen for the last-gasp surface marker of order – balanced physical appearance. Modern dating advice is based on operating within these disfunctions rather than smashing through them.

* hat-tip to the Principles of Social Competence for putting the last piece in place to boil this down to one element. It’s a great book.

Tricks and Ho’s

March 28, 2011
krauserpua

Judged from his book collection (or indeed anything he actually says) Bhodisatta is a weird guy. We were out doing some daygame recently when he loaned me Tariq Nasheed’s “The Mack Within”. I’ve been interested in mack and pimp culture for a while now as these guys basically do game, just with different words and frames for the same activity. One of my favourite concepts – flipping the script – is from pimping.

I haven’t finished the book yet so don’t consider this a review. However one concept leaps right off the page as a much more elegant conceptualisation than it’s equivalents in the PUA community

Hopefully one of his lower ranking girls

Trick: A man who pays for sexual gratification
Ho: A woman who sells sexual gratification

Note this is a much wider definition than simply punters and prostitutes. There is a trick mentality and a matching ho mentality. When a man goes to a strip club, sits in pervert alley, and thrusts banknotes into a stripper’s knickers he is a trick. When a man drives his ferrari to a date and whisks the girl to a VIP table and bottle service he is a trick. When a PUA runs entourage game by bribing girls with nightclub entry and tables he is a trick.

Any time a man exchanges money or it’s equivalent for the sexual attention of a woman he is a trick. It is low value behaviour, even when performed by billionaires. It communicates “sex with you is a prize” and “I don’t have enough personal value for you so I must build it up with bribes”.

So long as a man thinks sex with girls is a prize, that the girl’s sexuality is an asset, then he will struggle to avoid the trick mentality.

On the flip side, any time a woman reciprocates a trick’s overtures by delivering some gratification she is a ho. When a woman insists on the man buying drinks and food she is a ho. When she dolls up and takes her friends to a club for free entry and drinks she is a ho. When she holds out on blowjobs until the man buys her a handbag she is a ho.

Trick-Ho interactions take place on the economic and ego planes. They are shallow and self-defeating over time. Deep rewarding male-female interactions take place on the character and charisma planes. Men and women are truly happy when their energies match and sexual polarity pulls them together. This is why women in love can say “Even if we were poor and hungry I’d still be happy if I’m by your side” and why most men are repelled by shallow bimbos.

This is why a girl who lets you fuck her in a pub bathroom on the second date is less of a ho then a girl who holds you off for two years till she gets a rock on her finger. [clarification: a girl who fucks just anyone she tingles for in the toilets is a slut. A girl who sets a high threshold of personal value that you then meet and quickly guide through the milestones of the human courtship ritual and only then fucks you in the toilets is not a slut. So says Krauser]

How do you shake yourself loose of being a trick? That’s what inner game is all about. It’s why I drill students with sociology to flush all the rubbish out of their intellectual forebrains. If you need a few catch aphorisms to remind yourself you are not a trick, try these:

  • Alpha seed is more valuable than female eggs
  • Girls like sex more than men do
  • Women get old quick. Men mature like fine wine
  • The best men have higher value than the best women
  • She’s beautiful, yeah. But what has she ever acheived in life?
  • The world is awash in beautiful women. The vagina is not gold-plated
  • That girl has to be fucked by somebody. It might as well be me.
  • Beautiful women want the same things as average women.
  • Every girl tingles to the same things.

 

Intellectual Mastery 2

March 24, 2011
krauserpua

The primary purpose of IM is to redefine a girl’s reality. You make her see the world in a way she has never seen before so she feels like she is peeling back the curtain on a new vista. This is how you do it.

1. Find a topic you really care about and really know about
I like economics, and in particular the Austrian school exemplified by Ludwig von Mises. I believe it articulates eternal truths about human nature and social action in an elegant condensed form that is effective for predicting the future. It also carries within it a political program based on the moral character of value-for-value transactions without the compulsion of threatened violence. Austrian economics is embedded in my core values of who I am and the man I wish to be. Therefore it is a great topic for intellectual mastery. I can use it to show:

– My identity
– My values
– My thirst for knowledge
– The organisation of my thought
– My clarity of perception
– My passion for life
– My mission to impact the world positively
– My certainty in an uncertain world

Every single on of those is a DHV and every single one is based on my own personal charisma. There is no trick mentality in them. Don’t worry if the topic isn’t generally considered girl-friendly. Just make sure it’s a topic that can be framed in a girl-friendly manner. For example economics deals with the fundamental principles of human psychology – which girls obsess about. Art history deals with aesthetics, passion and beauty = girl friendly. Boxing deals with masculinity, competition, courage and skill = girl friendly. I’d avoid nerdy stuff like computers and spectator sports.

The Road to Playerdom

2. Create a narrative in the topic that shines light upon the world
I don’t talk about general concepts in economics because that’s going nowhere. Instead, I craft a narrative and tell a story. One I’ve used recently is how economics is at core a study of human action and it shares the same basic principles as many disparate fields of actvity, then I tie that to political history and how Karl Marx was able to pull the worlds greatest (and most tragic) reframe by denying human nature and the wisdom of economics and this is why socialism can never work. What light is shone? I have just proven that free-market capitalism is the greatest of all social systems and the only one in perfect alignment with human nature and potential, while socialism is the enemy of humanity. That’s the stuff most people never have the confidence or intelligence to learn and remain confused their whole life. And I can lead them there in twenty minutes of storytelling.

Does it matter if I’m right? Not really. A girl’s reality sits inside her man’s reality. By defining that reality I give her a comfortable seat within. And in this case I am right. The girl feels like the world became clearer.

The storytelling element matters. I don’t just jump into Austrian economics. I tell her I’m reading a book that I find fascinating and the writer is one of my heroes. He is the most intelligent, well-read man I’ve found and truly inspiring. In 1920 he wrote a book about Socialism and accurately predicted the next seventy years of the Soviet Union, despite writing only two years after the Bolshevik Revolution and before Stalin and the Great Patriotic War. This sucks the girl in because I’ve given my economic theory a hook – it’s all grounded in a real man and I’m teasing that he offers great knowledge. I then say how in the 20 page introduction to the book he massively impressed me by clarifying and condensing ideas I’d had for twenty years, putting labels onto ideas and making simple what was complex to me. The whole narrative is based on outlining three thinks Marx did to make Socialism an effective idea despite it’s absurdity – as defined by Mises. The narrative is grounded and has direction.

3. Weave disparate knowledge into the narrative
If you talk about economics by itself it shows a certain level of intelligence and knowledge but it also shows you think “on the rails” within the same tightly demarcated corridors that everyone else does. Big deal. But what happens if you start harmonising concepts from biology, maths, and sport? What if you draw examples from the girl’s life and experience? What if you hint at vast pools of knowledge that you have but don’t draw on just yet?

Think of your central narrative as the river you are sailing her down. All other forms of knowledge are the tributaries that feed more water into the river and flow the same direction. How does this work in my example:

The central narrative has three points:

  1. Marx redefined all knowledge as conditioned by the economic superstructure and thus you cannot, epistemelogically speaking, know what a future economic system looks like until you are there. Thus all analysis of how socialism would function is invalid. This neutered the scientists’ criticisms of socialism as unworkable.
  2. Marx placed socialism as the final goal of history in which every epoch is overturned by an antithesis until a Hegelian synthesis creates a new epoch with new rules. Socialism is thus inevitable. This gives confidence to it’s agitators and worries it’s opponents.
  3. Marx gave moral authority to the envy and revenge fantasies that motivate most socialists, thus allowing them to claim a moral high ground and characterise opponents as evil.

I can then weave into this narrative disparate ideas such as:

  • Meme theory (biology). What is it about the pattern of some ideas that makes then successful. For example the three major Abrahamic religions all share (i) evangelicism (ii) conquest (iii) denial and suppression of competing ideas (iv) integration of church and state (v) the carrot of heaven (vi) the stick of hell. These features mean that when in competition with a peaceful open-minded religion, the Abrahamic ones will crush them and wipe them from history
  • Immigration (politics). I then note how western democracies in the thrall of PC ideology render themselves vulnerable to such powerful outside memes like Islam because we are like hobbits that have dismissed the rangers that keep them safe
  • Universal Darwinism (sociobiology). Any time you have a variety of strategies competing for scarce resources, and then the winners can reproduce with some mutation, then the principles of natural selection and evolution apply. Economics is no different. The market is the world, profits are rewards, bankruptcy is death, and reinvestment is reproduction. Entrepreneurs provide the engine of mutation with their new ideas and refinements of the old.
  • Boxing and MMA. Both sports abide by universal darwinism in with the rule set created conditions for a harmonisation fo styles so that all boxers box in more or less the same way because the field of competition led to a single most effective style being developed. It is now refined with small mutations and no major paradigm shifts.
  • Capitalist morality (Ethics). By adhering to principles of human nature, freedom, and value-for-value exchanges, capitalism is the only morally good social system. By denying nature, ordering everyone through threat of violence, and taking value from producers to give to moochers, Socialism is inherently evil.
  • Sirens (Greek mythology). Socialism is a siren song by singing alluring words about freedom, harmony, cooperation and other soft ideas that will lure a naive soul to it. However the reality of socialism is grey crushing monotony and gulags. As Mises predicted through simple economic analysis.
  • Nightclub Doormen (self protection). One rule in self protection is don’t listen to what people say, watch what they do. People go through a predicatable attack ritual before unleashing violence so learn to recognise that rather than being distracted through words. People who want to hurt you will usually employ misdirection and get you to cooperate in your own destruction. So too with socialism. It sings the siren song while picking your pockets and robbing you of freedom.

I’m sure you get the point. Even if you’re a blank-slate left-wing nutjob who disagrees with the substance of everything I just said, you can spot the structure of the technique. There is a ton of knowledge being unloaded onto the girl but it’s constantly tied to the narrative and grounded in examples, so she’s never lost. She just feels a wide beautiful vista open in front of her. What personal characteristics can you demonstrate here?

– Certainty
– Passion
– Boundaries
– Masculinity
– Personal code of honour

 

Mixed 2-set

4. Keep engaging the girl
All of the prior steps can be done as homework. It’s far better to simply think your thoughts in the way I describe, but if that’s not really you then you might have to simply get a canned narrative to drop onto the girl when the opportunity arises. So far I’ve only commented on the words. When talking to the girl you must also get the delivery right. This means make sure you have:

– Strong intense eye contact. You’re basically eye-fucking her but showing a fire behind your eyes. You care about this.
– Animated gestures. Don’t flail your arms around like a retard but show true passion in your gestures when you emphasise points.
– Varied rhythm. Sometimes you’ll be leaning forward and gesticulating, other times you’ll be leaning back and shrugging your shoulders. Think of your delivery as a symphony with highs and lows of energy and emotion.
– Constantly bring the discussion back to her either by soliciting her input (“Have you ever had an experience like this..?” etc) or drawing examples from her life. She must be actively engaged, not the passive recipient of a lecture. She’ll let you talk, don’t worry about that.
– Allow her to drag it out of you. Occasionally lean back and dismiss your own knowledge such as “Ah, whatever, it’s just some stuff I personally believe in” or “This is probably too deep for when we’re just having a coffee”. Do this at peaks in her buying temperature and she’ll insist you continue thus framing her as trying to solve your mystery rather than you rambling on.

Keep calibrating to her feedback. Good signs are all the classic IOIs but in particular her eyes should open up wide and be intently focused on you, she’ll have a look of admiration and a surprised “I can’t believe it, I never expected him to be so smart” delighted expression, she’ll unconsciously fiddle with things (coffee cup, jacket zip, closed mobile phone etc), and she’ll be torn between trying to add her own perspective while being worried she’ll shut you down and lose her chance to get more knowledge.

That’s the good signs, and a smart feminine girl with a brain in her head will usually display them. However if you make a mess of it or she’s just a dumb airhead then expect to see her eyes glaze over, her eyes occasionally dart away from you, she tries to change topic, she sighs – bascially signs of boredom.

5. Let her anchor
Girls fall in love when you are not there. They anchor their own investment and positive emotions to you by daydreaming, masturbating, and trying to solve the mystery of you. Let her do that. So you will have just blitzed her with reality-redefining knowledge and it’s gonna take her ages to unpack it all, figure it out, and let it sink in. Give her some pauses during the date, such as toilet breaks for you or ordering drinks. Time it for a high point when you have teased a reveal and then go leave her to some time by herself to take deep breaths and absorb it. Same goes for between dates.

6. Be modest
Don’t congratulate yourself for your awesomeness in her presence or you’ll come across as try-hard and ego-driven. Instead let all these words flow because they are your passion and you want her to know who you are and how you think about the world. Don’t act like a pompous know-it-all university professor. Tell her they are just your ideas and maybe many people have similar ideas. When she compliments you on your awesomeness just take it like any other compliment. And once you’ve finished, don’t keep returning to the topic unless she specifically asks you more. Hold a little back. Don’t look like you are trying to get more out, or that you want to relive your past glory and flog the dead horse. Less is more now.

If this is too much work, tell her to think of a number between one and four, then guess three. Or ask her how many ‘9s’ there are between one and a hundred.

The high value lifestyle

February 21, 2011
krauserpua

When I first heard about Game I had preconceptions. I think everyone does. I looked at the cover for Neil Strauss’s book and it has an idealised cartoon image of the “player”. The Player is a cool, well-dressed lounge lizard who cocks his head and winks slyly at the camera while in repose at the VIP table in a top-end club, lots of club bunnies around him. There is the tinkle of girl’s laughter above the music. Perhaps on the weekend he’ll drive his Ferrari into the hills on a date.

Artist's Representation

The Player has an expensive flowing haircut, like an Argentinian footballer (or Johnny Wisdom). His shirt is loose, open and from the most expensive salon. You can smell Old Spice on his collar.

As I got more into game I had an epiphany. This is pure higher beta, modified for the bar environment. This is the GQ / Esquire / Mens Health version of the “guy who fucks hot girls”. This is the supplicating version. The guy who tries too hard.

As I got further into game and started seeing these guys around I saw how brittle their self esteem is. They do attract girls but I lost count of how many times I saw them fuck it up by going all beta. The charisma wasn’t there. They were like little boys and they hadn’t taken the red pill. Guys with those advantages ought to be killing it but they weren’t. Getting laid occasionally, sure, but never with girls equal to them in immediate value. Bizarre.

Sitting in my flat in Latvia I had another realisation. The guys who fuck loads of hot women are nothing like the urban player myth. What they actually do is sit around in their underwear trolling Plenty of Fish. They hustle in Covent Garden through wind and rain. They get shitfaced in Hoxton bars and tool big sets. They rapidly escalate in nightclubs and bundle girls into taxis. They get £30 Ryanair flights to foreign cities and then hole up in shithole apartments plotting their next move.

They are semi-employed. They had some personality flaws that drive them to master the skillset and fuck loads of girls. They sometimes fuck fatties just to get a good story. What they don’t do – ever – is spend £hundreds on clothes and grooming products, two hours getting ready, and then swan around a top end club looking like a player.

Online Game

Sho’nuff – The Shogun of Harlem

February 14, 2011
krauserpua

One of the hardest stumbling blocks for a guy learning game is to get his vibe right. In the beginning you can force yourself through strength of will to do approaches. It’s pretty easy to watch DVDs. You can start to relax a bit in set but sarging just feels like hard work. You are always thinking about the next line, the next tactic. You are “gamey”. For at least 90% of guys this is a stage that can’t be skipped. Unfortunately many guys stay there. They don’t do the deep dive into their identity. At best they become highly practised betas. And this will get them laid with 3-8 girls a year, none of high quality.

 

Allow me to use The Last Dragon to explain how an intermediate guy fixes his vibe.

 

Bruce Leeroy is a promising martial artist with a ton of potential. He’s doing all the hard work and he’s improving dramatically. He’s doing everything he should to build genuine value but he’s plateaued. His problem is fear of enlightenment. Sho’nuff has no such problem. His ego is out of control. He’s unable to accept himself and his value so he collects acolytes around him to suck state out of them to big himself up. Kinda like a pick-up guru. Everything he does is to demand unearned respect, he’s the grandstander bully. This is gonna end in a fight.

 

Let’s watch the fight.

0:05 – This is how you enter a club. Pure douchebag. Sho’nuff is imposing his vibe and state-crashing Leeroy

0:17 – We’ll call her the target. Pre-hogtied. How I like ’em

0:24 – Intense eye-fucking. Sixty would be proud

0:31 – Can you say “adrenalin dump”. Leeroy’s sliding into a submissive state here.

0:43 – Leeroy offers resistance. A shit test to see if Shonuff holds state

0:50 – Tight game doesn’t require much work. You just read the situation well and make small changes.

0:56 – Shit test past, bitch shield is blasted apart.

1:02 – Douchebag. It’s all in the eye contact and vocal tone. You are saying “I’m the boss of this interaction”

1:14 – Leeroy is trying to re-pump his state through workrate and physiology. Nice try.

1:21 – It’s ok to accept resistance if you frame it as part of the game before you win.

1:58 – Sometimes in set you aren’t sure where it’s going. Just focus on holding state and protecting your value

2:53 – Peak state. Most nightgame is focused towards building so much state and value with your friends that you are glowing with the unstoppable aura like the Shogun of Harlem

3:20 – You feel bulletproof and no rejection or shit test can phase you

5:00 – And now we get the question every intermediate gamer must ask himself. He’s been looking up to Sho’nuff / Mystery / the cool guys in the bar and acting like he’s not good enough for such exalted company. Is he gonna step up?

5:13 – That’s Dr Paul

5:32 – The leap of faith

5:38 – State / Aura / Lording

5:44 – I’ve seen chodes do this when I’m pulling girls to me under harsh pressure

6:10 – State crash. Nothing hits, it all seems so try-hard now.

Intellectual Mastery 1

February 10, 2011
krauserpua

Here’s a quick overview of a new form of game I’ve been creating. It’s was originally intended as a tangent in my Soul Collection presentation but now that’s indefinitely shelved it’s time to dust off the intellectual mastery and find a way to use it as Light rather than Dark Side. The basic goal of IM is:

Blow a girl’s mind and redefine her reality to fit her within yours.

Yes, that’s really vague so I’ll unpack the detail. There’s things I can’t do well in game because of who I am. I’m not young, I’m not good looking, and I can’t dance for shit. There are other things in life I am way above average at so if I can move the game to my battlefield I can win. Like the old adage – who wins a fight between a shark and a tiger? It all depends if they fight in the sea or the jungle.

 

or between a pirate and a ninja

This is what I’m good at. If you are too, intellectual mastery will work for you:

  • Considerably above average intelligence
  • Very widely read in culture, philosophy, science etc
  • Old enough to have settled into your place as a man
  • Seen alot of the world and the people in it, e.g. through travel or life experience

Regular readers are aware of the Jungian male archetypes of King, Warrior, Lover, Magician. It is the latter which is exemplified by this type of game. The Magician has access to forbidden knowledge that allows the world to be bent to your will. He’s the rainmaker, the witch doctor, the reader of entrails. Think for yourself when you first got into Game. Remember the lure of a secret dark art that allows you to manipulate women into your bed. It’s intoxicating. Why are we seduced by promises such as a gambling system that allows you to “beat” the fruit machines, or the secrets of streetfighting, or predictive technical analysis of stock market movements? We are lured by the use of an unfair advantage to exercise power over the world to get what we want.

Women are attracted to a man who bends the world to his will, rather than bends to fit the world. The man can be the King who provides organisation, the Warrior who enforces through will and violence, or even the Lover who inspires through joy. In this case, we are harnessing the Magician. We will show the woman that we see the world with penetrating clarity, we see the deep tidal undercurrents around which people bob powerlessly like boats in a violent sea. We see the matrix. What she sees as fuzzy, vague and impossibly complex we see as sharp, defined and clearly labelled.

Look at a classic optical illusion

Try un-seeing it

Once you’ve seen the Dalmatian, you can never unsee it. Your reality has been permanently shifted to observe a pattern from randomness. You will be doing this to the girl on a grand scale. Initially she will feel intrigue, then wonder, then total supplication to her educator, then hunger for more, and finally place herself completely within your control for emotional and intellectual direction. You will find the girl entrusts her life’s direction to you. You are not merely leading her pussy or her body. You are leading her soul.

Next post, I show how to do it here.