Do looks matter? – Mr Potato Head edition

May 2, 2011
krauserpua

As men we are primarily attracted to women for their beauty, that being a proxy for health and fertility. The twin-attack of beta social conditioning (trying to get girly men to obsess about their looks) and psychological projection (assuming other people believe what you believe) means many men assume good looks are necessary to bang the hottest girls.

Well, I believe there’s a simple acid test to whether a guy has game:

Is he fucking girls who are physically better looking than he is?

I see many guys leaving clubs with girls where he is clearly a couple of points above her on the looks scale. He’s got no game, is my immediate unassailable conclusion. It takes no game at all for a male 9 to pull a female 7. All it requires is some intent and avoiding the most outrageous fuck-ups.

But if I see a fat guy with skinny legs and a pasty face walking around with a hot girl, or a short fat criminal who looks like Hitler’s nerdier brother with a hot girl……. then I think the man has game. Below I’ve appended a video I shot this morning with my latest girl. She has just informed me she is a stripper. She has good looking guys hit on her constantly. I ask her to comment on my good looks.

14 Comments

  1. Fucking brilliant… if ugly cunts like you can get laid, it gives hope to the normal looking guys like me and Jambone.

    Last night we saw a male 5 lay a female 8.5 and a Male 9 pull a female low7.

  2. Lovely spot old boy…where is that? Nowhere in south london im sure (born and bred south londoner here!)

    On a seperate note K, do you ever approach girls over 30 or do you make a concious effort to avoid them. I ask because the amount of 30-35 broads who make passes at me is ludicrous, but I am simply not interested going by the Roissian boner divining rod principle… shame under 25s remain something of a rubicon for me still…

  3. I think you should change your PUA name to “KingEdward”.

  4. Very nice post man, I really mean it. It shows that a true alpha doesn’t care about her wishy washy complaints and is confident enough to disregard this blabbing and still fuck her. Respect.

    But…; doesn’t her disrespect piss you off? Just hearing her list those negative aspects of your looks without joking or even the slightest hint of irony…. Just annoys the shit out of me just hearing it, such a bitch.

    [She was playing into a frame I’d set. In context, it wasn’t rude from her. I’d already been telling her she had a fat arse like a hippo. It was all playful. K.]

  5. I’d actually object to the assertion that all a male 9 has to do is turn up and approach to pull a female 7. You need confidence.

    I don’t want to appear to be bragging or bigging myself up, but apparently I am a ‘good looking’ or ‘hot’ guy according to loads of girls and gay men. Does it help me get laid? It doesn’t overcome my low self esteem unfortunately. I tried approaching loads but had the weird phenomenon of girls being really into me but then very rapidly cooling off, usually by the end of the first or second date. Whether or not I screwed the girl at the end of the first date didn’t make any difference.

    Nothing kills attraction faster than a lack of confidence in the guy unfortunately.

    [You’re arguing at cross purposes imho. Being so lacking in confidence that you blow it with a girl who starts out by fancying you comes under the “fucking up” heading, or if you didn’t have the confidence to escalate, under the “lacking intent” heading. The hardest part of game is attraction, and a male 9 has it with female 7s until he shoots himself in the foot. K.]

  6. @ Snoeperd – Gee… pickup blogs attract some strange types who need to leave the blogs and their layguides alone for a while and just interact with women on a social basis to get a feel for whats going on, the nuances, the subtle eddies and flows of flirtatious behaviour… [For anyone who doesn’t see what he means, watch the video without sound and just feel her vibe K.]

    Reading your post sounded like me back in my AFC days when I didn’t have a clue about the more subtle aspects of female communication and body language and thought half of what they said was an attack on my masculinity.

    Do you not hear K’s voice of amused mastery egging her on, her playful banter responding.. she is not in any way insulting K, actually they are flirting and progressing the relationship… spend any length of time around women and you would see this…

    @K any input regarding the over 30 year olds and what part of london that is?

    [It’s Hampstead Heath. If you have your shit together financially then of course >30yr women are gonna come onto you and try to secure access to your wallet. Repell them. They have nothing to offer. Stick to the young girls. I never ever – under any circumstances – approach a girl I think is >30. I have occasionally found out she’s older after the fact and a little part of me died in knowing that. K.]

    • @Alex

      Lol, since when does being strange mean not accepting a girl’s shit. Try dating a mellow girl who won’t pull this kind of nonsense on you and will still hump you silly. I’m sure you would accept a girl spitting in your face as long as she does it with the right vibe but it aint for me

  7. I’d actually object to the assertion that all a male 9 has to do is turn up and approach to pull a female 7. You need confidence.

    I don’t want to appear to be bragging or bigging myself up, but apparently I am a ‘good looking’ or ‘hot’ guy according to loads of girls and gay men. Does it help me get laid? It doesn’t overcome my low self esteem unfortunately. I tried approaching loads but had the weird phenomenon of girls being really into me but then very rapidly cooling off, usually by the end of the first or second date. Whether or not I screwed the girl at the end of the first date didn’t make any difference.

    Nothing kills attraction faster than a lack of confidence in the guy unfortunately.

    [You’re arguing at cross purposes imho. Being so lacking in confidence that you blow it with a girl who starts out by fancying you comes under the “fucking up” heading, or if you didn’t have the confidence to escalate, under the “lacking intent” heading. The hardest part of game is attraction, and a male 9 has it with female 7s until he shoots himself in the foot. K.]

    Yeah but… using the term “fucking up” implies that the good looking guy is making a simple and easily rectifiable mistake. One that can be simply avoided next time by remembering how he went wrong.

    Usually a lack of confidence is due to some deeper more intractable problem (sickness, struggles at work etc).

    I guess the point I am trying to make is that good looks alone combined with approaching are not enough to get the girls.

    Anyway, I’m not trying to get into an LSS style slanging match here. The point I am nitpicking at is pretty narrow. I agree with your main point that plenty of uglier dudes get hot girls… provided they have all the other pieces in place.

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  9. http://betcheslovethissite.com/2011/03/06/336/

    Betches love this site.

    19. ugly hot

    “It’s very apparent that an Ugly Hot guy is not classically good looking. In fact, many people on the street might look at you and wonder why you’re with that guy who’s clearly well below your attractiveness level. However, he still has that certain redeeming quality. Most often he’s hysterical, insanely cool, thinks he’s hot shit (and he actually is), and generally just oozes bro-yness. Suddenly it becomes easier to ignore his crooked nose, weak chin, chubby body, etc. because you’re mesmerized by his Ugly Hot vibe.”

    [this is hilarious. I’m gonna catch alot of flak from the RSG guys for this. K.]

  10. i think you’re understating the role of game here.

    the question “Is he fucking girls who are physically better looking than he is?” suggests that in the absence of game male looks determine success and that there will be assortative matching based on looks. game would then be to men what cosmetics are to women: improving the appearance and distorting perception.

    but if looks really mattered to women as they do to men, then we’d expect cosmetics for men, not game, to have an impact on their attractiveness. not the case.

    in fact, women are attracted to power. looks give men little power in general.
    but game is essentially about exerting social power.

    as a consequence, a male 8 with no game does not get a female 8, but a female 5 or 6.

    rather than distorting perception of your “actual” (looks-based) attractiveness (like cosmetics), game provides the essence of what women crave in a man: power.

  11. Thanks for the delightful video. It’s a delight because that sweet girl might have been saying those things of me. One thing Nick has, though, other than intelligence, that I am yet to manifest in the daygame context, is an unusual force of will to pursue his program of the two years prior to this post. Control of my emotional state and motivation is going to be my biggest challenge once I start (as soon as my camera arrives from Hong Kong).

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