Long Game

November 18, 2010
krauserpua

Normal pick-up doesn’t have a Plan B. The idea is to open the girl, build attraction, and then close in rapid fashion whether it be the same night lay or a phone then day two. If the girl drops off during any transitional phase then there’s no back up plan. Girl won’t give you the number? Move on. Girls isn’t attracted enough to kiss you? Move on. Girl has a boyfriend or is otherwise unavailable? Move on. Logistical issues such as she’s on holiday and going home soon? Move on.

Game doesn’t need to run on the same worn-out rails as every other cheesy unimaginative blazer-wearing PUA. Plan B is Long Game. I’m not claiming to have invented it but here’s a brief comment on how I concieve it.

Long Game = When a girl or situation is unfavourable to closing in the usual fashion, put her into a patient holding pattern from which you gradually suck her into chasing you, and then close her when favourable conditions emerge.

Examples:

Muslim Virgin – I met her while she was on a three-day holiday in London with a chaperone. I gamed her slowly over facebook for two months until she had another holiday and had already decided to fuck.

Finland – I met her while I was on a one-week holiday in Lithuania and she was very resistant to escalation. I couldn’t even kiss her. Two months of facebook and I fucked her next time i visited.

Facebook is crucial to long game. It’s free, convenient, you can run multiple targets at once, and done correctly your profile can build attraction and comfort passively. Basic stages (assuming weak attraction / significant logistical issues):

1. Facebook close – low investment from her. Most girls like having more friends to build their own status and they know it’s easy to unadd if they don’t like you. So take the add. Then wait a few days.

2. Light reopen – it’s best if you can catch her on chat. Open with assumed familiarity and no sexuality – “oh no! it’s her…..” and tease for a little while. Continue the vibe that the initial approach had – if she’s a model and you studiously refused to validate her for it, then continue to refuse in the chats. The purpose is simply to become “the guy she responds to on chat”. This can continue for a handful of chats over a few weeks.

3. Amp it up – start to build rapport and get her opening up to you. Become the interesting escape from her normal life. The safe guy at a distance that she can talk to. Don’t go as far as being an emotional tampon – just let her talk and don’t try to take it anywhere. Her imagination is going to do the heavy lifting inbetween chats as she projects positive characteristics onto you to fill the gaps in knowledge. Around this time she’ll be trawling your facebook for favourite pictures of you and generally investing herself. Remain slightly aloof.

4. Give it a direction – Now you can run classic Mystery Method A3. Let her know she’s won you over and she’s actually a really interesting girl. Snowflake her a little. Let her know you’ll be in her city sometime soon (or start future projecting her visiting yours). Run teasing romantic scenarios. Let her know this is a man talking to a woman. Calibrate carefully and be ready to back off and cool down if she bristles.

5. Commit her – Once she’s responding well to sexualising start pushing for a physical meet. Once that’s accepted set a strongly sexual frame before you meet. You want her to have decided to fuck you before you put your coat on and leave the house to meet her. All the LMR should’ve happened in the virtual world. The date itself should play out like an extremely time-compressed M3 model.

There’s alot more to it than that. Check out my various facebook chats in the archives. Some basic principles:

  • Keep the early chats short and don’t keep pestering her with questions. If she doesn’t answer something, just wait. If that’s the end of the chat then let it die. Just strike up a new one a few days later.
  • Don’t be afraid of waiting. You have no idea what she’s doing at the other end of her internet connection. You won’t always have her full attention.
  • Try to end the chats on your terms, after a buying temperature spike.

I bang my first six-foot drunken Croatian blonde

November 17, 2010
krauserpua

The trip to Croatia enters its fifth day and while I’ve collected a bunch of numbers, facebooks and instant dates I haven’t actually put my you-know-what into a girl’s you-know-where since I arrived. The streets are far busier on a Friday night and it’s rammed with top quality girls. We find ourselves sitting in a bar / cafe with Jambone’s prior night’s f-close. Just chatting and the vibe is great. I mercilessly DLV Jambone for half an hour in front of his girl much to his and my merriment so we are laughing and joking. It’s easy to open a pair of girls at the next table and bring them over. Both have stunning figures and reasonable faces, tits hanging out. That set is going great and my brunette target is IOIing and loving the vibe. They suggest we go to the next bar with them and then suddenly get a bit testy, wandering off. Jambone brings them back and we try again. This time as we reach a crossroads, Jambone’s girl (we’ll call her HB Harlot) impusively drags him the other way and both he and our host Spider follow.

What a fucking balls up. The girls see this and keep walking, turning their heads to give up the “follow us, little puppies” look and refusing to change direction to come with us. Jambone completely fails to spot the solution (drag his own girl after these two and then “convince” me to come along) and the set is dead. Can’t bring them with us and our value would be really low if we followed. A totally unnecessary compliance test that can’t be passed. Dead set. Thanks Jambone.

Tall

I grudgingly laugh it off – It’s only the second time Jambone has stopped me banging a hot girl this week – and we get drunk at the next bar. I go back to DLVing him with Harlot and we all enjoy it. There’s a group of three girls celebrating a birthday behind us and they are drawn to the energy until the tall blonde prod Jambone to open him. Relentless teasing ensues. Blonde calls me an asshole several times and punches me hard in the stomach – definitely an IOI. For about an hour we have Harlot buying me shots while I regal her with sex stories as flagrant verbal escalation and show her videos on my mobile phone of me fucking. Jambone is just laughing. Harlot gets horny and jumps him again which makes Blonde give him daggers. I turn to her and say “Aw! She’s all jealous now she’s lost” and her look is priceless. This is real full-on drunken douchebag game and she’s eating it up and giving lots of banter back. I’m starting to like her so I do a takeaway.

I leave her with Spider to practice on. He does a reasonable job for a guy with no particular Game but she’s just esconded in her seat and playing the Validate Me game. I give it half an hour or so to see if he can turn it around but it doesn’t go anywhere. So I catch her eye and resume business, immediately pulling her out her seat towards me to begin kino. She’s giving it plenty of verbals (“you’re such an asshole. I’ll never let you fuck me” etc) while the hindbrain is clearly signalling “Woo hoo, it’s on!”. So I just lead her along the path towards F-Town and I’m quite surprised her friends are leaving her to it.

The key moment comes when she suddenly needs the toilet. I let her go and when she comes back she just jumps into my lap (I’m on a high stool) and leans in to kiss. I neg her and she bites my fucking ear. Really hurts, the bitch. Soon enough I take her back to my hostel and the LMR is perfunctory. I have to bang her in the common room because there’s a girl on reception I’m gaming and the house rules don’t allow guests in the rooms. I keep admonishing my girl to be quiet but I’m expecting us to get busted any moment. Very good lay. She goes out for a smoke, I do her again in ways she claims are new to her, then send her home. Key learning points:

  • When it’s on, pull the trigger. Better the pushy douchbag than the timid nice guy. Lead the girl outside.
  • Douchbag game works best with takeaways and you having fun with your friends that often excludes her.
  • Take your cues from her hind-brain. The stuff coming out of her mouth is just fluff
  • When a girl is talking about sex and hitting you, she’s into you. You just have to hold the frame against her tests.
  • Sometimes, on very rare occasions, Jambone is a help rather than a hinderance.

Croatia Update

November 11, 2010
krauserpua

I’ve been in Croatia with Jambone the past two days. Our host was telling us the girls are different here – too conservative, too smart – so they don’t respond to Game. So for the past 48 hours we’ve been ripping the piss out of him as we tear the town apart. We’re still calibrating the place. Lithuania took me a week, Poland took four days. We’re getting closer to the first F-close of the week. Highlights so far from two day’s work:

    • I number close a cute little brunette on my very first open
    • Some pretty daring verbal escalation in a direct open of a stunningly beautiful shop girl that has her tripping out with IOIs before Jambone blows the set
    • Instant date a tourist from some southern Croatian island
    • Instant date an 18 yr old student who then brings two of her friends to join us
    • Pull a girl back to my place last night [LMR so I don’t get the close even though she stays the night] while Jambone collects the soul of her friend over five hours.
    • Jambone number closes three models in one day, which I video. If he ever gets his shit together he might even blog about them and load the footage.
    • Spend the first evening sat at Facebook running twelve different targets while Jambone does the same and our host watches his limiting beliefs vaporise.
    • Open only four sets today, all perfect tens, and number close three of them [all on video]

Most of the sets have seemed solid while I was in them but it’s proving difficult to get dates. Its a calibration thing. Every town is subtly different. But the Iron Law of Game still holds true – Girls tingle to the same things the whole world over. Here’s two of the tens I number closed today. All the infield footage has to wait till I’m back in London with a better laptop. Here’s hoping the hairy Euro-weirdos in my youth hostel don’t succeed in stealing my netbook and all it’s accumulated video.

 

"Is it rude to say you have a nice ass?"

 

 

"I love your style. It's very French"

 

Jambone has just texted to say he’s on the train back to the house of a skanky painted harlot of a journalist jezebel he picked up last night using my pre-selection and opener. I hope he gets syphillis.

Long distance soul collection – Painter

November 10, 2010
krauserpua

Facebook game is magical. Done properly it allows you to take a weak hook on an unavailable set and gradually work her till she’s eating out of your palm. I met Painter for literally five minutes and a quicky facebook close. She refused the number and gave a boyfriend defense. That was September. Two months later using nothing but Facebook and she’s like this…. [BTW, usually she opens me now]

Me – So you’re alive! [she had no internet or phone during her week in Germany, so we joked she’d been kidnapped]

Her – unfortunately, yeah? ;D

Me – unfortunate….

Her – would you worry, if everythink hapen to me? ;D [she wants to be important to me] english mistakes.. hrrr.. i’m angry with myself

Me – haha, of course I worry! [comfort]

Her – ok then ;] how are you in Croatia?

Me – We are having a quiet night. It’s been raining alot since we arrived

Her – hmm

Me – It’s still fun How was Berlin?

Her – good, but first day was raining too next day was better i liked that city, people they all are polite and friendly

Me – nice

Her – did you saw Berlin? was you there?

Me – No. I’ve been to Dusseldorf I like Germany

Her – you visited a lot of places in the world it’s cool i think, that you are busy today.. and i disturb you [IOIing my high value lifestyle and concerned she’s imposing onto my time. These are strong signs she looks up to me]

Me – No, just got a few chats open, with my family and friends I always have time for you [comfort, snowflaking]

Her – honor for me :) [likes it]

Me – haha, you’re nice [reward, give her a reason why I like her despite her boring life]

Her – and you aren’t :P i’m joking so, how is your sporting room at home? Are you using it? ;]

Me – yeah, I’ve been fighting my friends great fun!

Her – i think should be fun

Me – yeah, I kicked Lee in the head really hard by accident nearly knocked him out but he laughed [DHV on toughness]

Her – everythink is ok, what finished ok, without aftermath (if you understand what i mean) ;]

Me – all is well that ends well

Her – ok, thanks exactly ;D i will start to go to sportclub :P

Me – Really? I like that You’re gonna get a really nice ass [sexualise]

Her – maybe ;D i think, that i need more movement [accepts it]

Me – I kinda like your ass already Still waiting for a good photo [keep going with it]

Her – ok, wait ;D i don’t like my ass, so you should wait till i beginn to like it ;D i’m serious [accepting the end result that I’m gonna see her ass]

Me – do you like your tits? [in for a penny, in for a pound…]

Her – you no need to know

Me – haha. Send me a photo, and I’ll tell you if I like them

Her – you want really to much >/ [that’s an IOI]

Me – hahaha. Not naked Just a nice bikini photo [set a limit on how sexual this is getting before she sets it]

Her – if other girls sends to you everythink, what you want, don’t mean that i will do this before you have to shave your beard ;D [she’s totally accepting my preselection and her need to compete]

Me – Oh, she’s defiant!

Her – should i be defiant? ;D

Me – Yes. It will be more fun to break you

Her – ok, i made a mistake again, but nevermind. my question in my mind was not like i wrote. nevermind ;D so, have you some friends in croatia?

Me – yeah [notice the word count is mostly her writing]

Her – you have friend probably even in the Antarctica friends* ;D [again she is letting me see how much she thinks I’m The Man]

Me – yes, the penguins and polar bears

Her – that was i thought ;D ok, i’ll tell you i like my tits ;D :P [women like to be sexualised by alpha males]

Me – both of them? [being retarded cos it’s important not to be overwhelmed when she sexualises, like a horny beta would]

Her – hmm.. yes strange question

Me – Haha, I’m just being silly

Her – i see your haha sounds ironic

Me – No, I’m having fun How is your homework? [her taking photos of herself for me]

Her – whichone?

Me – Tell me both [direct order]

Her – nothink, i’m waiting for inspiration ;D or inducement ;D [she wants to do it but needs pushing over the edge, for me to take responsibility away from her so she doesn’t feel like a slut]

Me – inducement? hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm Are you talking about the beard?

Her – hmm.. i don’t think so.. our homeworks are not adequante your task is too easy i think >/

Me – interesting……

Her – what? first homework with laughing girl is ok, sometime i’ll do it. because i like it

Me – cool

Her – but other [her dressed in underwear doing housework in a sexy pose] it’s not the same that to shave beard ;D i can shave my legs and send photo ;DDD ;DDD understand what i mean? ;D

Me – Yes. I think you should do the second one without your face in the photo

Her – i can fake it ;D anyway, it’s not the same like your homework

Me – Are you re-negotiating the deal?

Her – we can try ;P but don’t give a promise yet I don’t* [= it’s gonna happen eventually]

Me – ok

Her – so.. your homework..

Me – I don’t give a promise yet… I need inducement…

Her – me too are your body muscular? you are boxer [she’s thinking about me physically, allowing herself to lust]

Me – I look like this

Krauser, yesterday

Her – so your photos in fb is fake ;D when i saw you alive, you were slimmer, your weight growing up very fast ;D

Me – haha

Her – so answer is…? is it a secret? you can ask me about my tits and dont want to answer to simple question [minor shit test]

Me – wait ok, what is the question? [playfully defiant but not actually evasive]

Her – dont try to be silly ;D it’s about your body

Me – ok, ask again…

Her – look above in chat         is your body muscular?

Me – Quite muscular, but a little bit of fat from eating and drinking too much recently I used to look like this…

Krauser, last week

Her – this one is better ;D

Me – So you like muscles?

Her – not to much too* health and natural somethink like this wait

Me – waiting

Her [link to Markie Mark with his shirt off]

Me – Markie Mark?

Her – a little bit too much muscles on stomach yes i don’t say that your body should be like him ;D i think, that a lot of boys or mens with big muscles are with empty heads are not very interessting and they just proud of yoursels yourselfs* [she’s telling me what she hopes I am like and how she wants to like me]

Me – Very true

Her – but i’m not saying that all

Me – My opinion is: I want my body to be useful, not just a display I don’t want to LOOK tough. I want to BE tough [reframe]

Her – good opinion, i like that and it’s somethink similary with girls and beauty

Me – how do you mean? [get her to invest]

Her – beauty isn’t everythink if she don’t understand enythink, haven’t her opinion, she is only a doll [from a beautiful girl this is not sour grapes]

Me – Yeah. That’s why I stopped dating models [DHV]

Her – are they stupid? i understand, that not all

Me – Not stupid, just different…. [not slagging them, positioning myself as the man with knowledge of the world]

Her – but you stopped dating

Me – When a girl is beautiful, life is easy for her. Men do everything for her So she doesn’t NEED to develop interesting character Some of them do, most of them don’t

Her – i think, that such a girls are polluting good name of womans i hate them they are marionette in the rich man hand (mostly)

Me – These girls match the guys. Girls = beauty and no brain. Guys = money and no charisma. They match. [reframe away the competition]

Her – in Lithuania it sounds: match like hatchet and handle i cant to translate exactly

Me – I understand

Her – ok

Me – BUT

Her – ?

Me – some of the models are actually nice people just not very interesting to have a conversation with [don’t project bitterness or hate, but give her a window of opportunity so she knows she can catch a guy like me]

Her – i don’t know models, and trust, that not all are without brains:] you know.. i like, that you are experienced you saw a lot of countrys, you know a lot of people, your job is interesting i think that you life is almost perfect [could I ask for a bigger IOI?]

Me – Thanks. You’re sweet. [reward, qualify]

Her – and sometimes i fell like.. hmm.. very borring person, which haven’t nothink to tell about yourself and life i’m too outspoken now [she’s worried she’s not good enough for me so she’s bashful. I absolutely love this – she instinctively knows how to make a guy like her]

Me – You’re still young It takes time to build an interesting life, and to have interesting stories [setting myself as her teacher]

Her – you say – you know sometimes i don’t know enythik about my wishes.. i dont know, what i want to do.. and especialy the last month.. [= she’s seen a window of excitement and now she’s thinking of ditching her boyfriend]

Me – That’s normal for your age [comfort, normalise these thoughts]

Her – i need to talk with somebody from other surrounding ok, nevermind, you don don’t need to listen to me it’s my problem [she wants adventure. Remember she’s young, not got money, and lives in a boring country with a normal boring boyfriend. Her horizons are opening and I’m the shiny exciting thing on the other side of the river]

Me – That’s ok. I’m sympathetic to you. What did you do today? [snip the thread before she talks herself into shit state]

Her – i had classwork, then i and my friend(girl) went out for lunch, then went to itycentre citycentre* i went through that bench ;F ;D where we met then, we bought icecream from macdonalds [she’s building a legend around our romantic meet]

Me – Nice

Her – and went to cathedral and then home that was really nice day, especialy evening and you/ ?

Me – We’ve been looking around Zagreb went to a big fruit market

Her – did you like?

Me – Yeah, I love to see how other people live I’m starting to like Eastern Europe

Her – you never stay in the one place for long time everytime you do something new and interesting you and your life is charming i don’t know other people like you [another strong IOI]

Me – thanks [reward]

Her – :D# i’m saying too much ;D [she’s way out of her comfort zone but feels compelled to compliment me – the hindbrain is taking her on a ride]

Me – Maybe, but it’s nice [normalise her saying these things]

Her – i never do this ;D and i dont chating with unknown people (you was unknown in the begining) [again she can’t quite understand why her feelings are compelling her into this]

Me – Yeah, but we know each other now, and we like each other [give her a rationalisation]

Her – a little bit and i have a question.. you know my “family status”, but i don’t so do you have a woman or no? i don’t understand [she’s really letting the mask slip now and openly considering where she stands with me and whether she can fit into my life]

Me – Girls like me, but there’s no-one special [preselect but dangle a carrot]

Her – so answer is no ?

Me – Yes, it’s no [but not evasive]

Her – i understand, that you have a lot of girls, whitch likes you and you like them am i right? :) [accepts preselection]

Me – yes

Her – ok what is the time in croatia now?

Me – Almost midnight

Her – here is almost 2 at night.. my eyes can close ;D how much time you have? [the restraint is gone, she is happy for me to know she wants to spend time in my company]

Me – I’ll be awake some time longer

Her – ?

Me – I have some time

Her – so, if you say something interesting, i’ll stay a little bit longer in here if you don’t want i stay, say it [strange wording, is she trying to make me chase?]

Me – I bought a remote control car today.        I tell you what…. Go to bed. Sleep well. We’ll talk some other time. [to be on the safe side I snip the thread and then order her about]

Her – have a good night. bye

Me – bye

My second model in two days

November 10, 2010
krauserpua

Just a quick note on the Estonian model I picked up on a bootcamp on Saturday. It was right at the end of the daygame infield and we were hanging around outside M&S waiting for a student to come out of set so we could all finish. A very tall girl in a stylish black ensemble ambles past. I turn around and open:

Me: Hi, can I say something. I love that you are so tall!

Her: *stops, smiles, then shit tests me with silence and a stare*

Me: blah blah bullshit…..

She’s on her way to meet people but I get about ten minutes with her as she gradually softens. She’s high value / high esteem so she’s not playing games, just listening and watching to see what I’ve got. I hold a steady non-reactive frame and gradually draw her out of the shell until she’s IOIing me. About four times she lets slip *ahem* that she’s a model and four times I completely fail to get excited about it and just talk about something else. The vibe is still in it’s early stages so I go for facebook instead of a number as she’s clearly in a hurry and has given me as long as she reasonably can. She accepts the add and shows up on chat tonight. I reopen:

Another high value girl

Me 21:33 – oh no! It’s her…….. [playful]

Her 21:33 – im sure its her [same vibe as before – interested, uncommited, waiting to see what I have]

Me 21:34 – The tall one…. [remind her of the pickup, avoid framing her as “the model” or anything else she wanted to be framed as that might supplicate me]

Her 21:34 – well on that street she was… :) [as before – watching and waiting]

Me 21:35 – There’s a picture of you I really like. [one of her photos has her wearing a Chewbacca mask at a party] I think it was taken by Hans Solo  [setting up that I’m going to compliment her on one of her many modelling photos but instead pick the one photo of her having fun looking like a retard. Signalling that I like her because she’s fun not simply because she’s beautiful. Unexpected]

* nothing, she goes offline *[I read this as a shit test. I’ve teased her and she’s silent so do I backtrack spinelessly or go chasing raport?]

Me 21:52 – You look like this….    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2CkDFVFdH8M&feature=player_embedded  [I do neither, I tease her even more]

Her 22:13 – haha    nice one  [another long wait to see if I fold, I don’t so she likes it]

That’s enough for the initial chat. She remains online for another half-hour but I’m juggling chats with another ten targets who are further along than her, and I think it’s important not to chase Estonia. Having her know I know she’s online yet I’m not chasing rapport is a powerful way of maintaining aloofness without being rude. I don’t need this girl and I’m not convinved, but she’s definitely on my radar – that’s the frame. All I want is to bring her into my orbit as the girl who chats a little on Facebook. From there I can build out on the Long Game like French Fan and Artist.

 

Minimalist facebook game – HB Polish Wonky Fringe

November 6, 2010
krauserpua

Not all game is bells and whistles. Sometimes you’re busy, she’s busy and you just want to maintain a connection. Here’s an example from half an hour ago. My goal was to keep the wordcount low. This is the girl I street kiss-closed in Poland last month. Now it’s over to long game until she finally comes to London.

 

Before she cut her own hair

Me 18:14 – work or play?
Her 18:14 – party ;p
Me 18:14 – Facebook party? So exciting….. not
Her 18:17 – stop being so ironic
Me 18:18 – boo
Her 18:18 – you’re jealous    because you’re staying at home tonight ;p
Me 18:19 – It’s true. I’m staying home tonight.    Croatia on Monday though :)
Her 18:19 – now I’m jealous ;p
Me 18:21 – what’s the party?
Her 18:22 – first, at my friends’ home    then at club
Me 18:22 – Nice. Your hometown?
Her 18:24 – yep    I’m late    I’ m always late    they will kill me this time, my friends
Me 18:27 – you should probably stop talking to me and get ready ;);)
Her 18:28 – ;p probably i should    but i can’t ;p
Me 18:28 – haha
Her 18:31 – ok I’m ready for party    finally
Me 18:31 – looking sexy?
Her 18:31 – very sexy !!
Me 18:32 – Cool. Take a photo and show me
Her 18:32 – tomorrow ;) I’m latee!!
Me 18:34 – have fun. Talk later
Her 18:34 – thanx, have a nice evening ;p

I pick up a Russian model

November 6, 2010
krauserpua

0:10 – It’s a busy crossing and we’re waiting for the lights when I see her. Hence plenty of time to get the camera turned on. I tell Jambone I’m gonna walk over and open her.
0:15 – I have to solve a technical problem… do I wait till she’s across the road and thus appear creepy waiting for her, do I open halfway across and then have to rush a bounce to the pavement, or do I stride confidently across the traffic and open before she’s gotten moving. Easy. Looks fucking awesome.
0:23 – Spontaneous opener straight out of the Krauser Daygame Model.
0:25 – I’ve got an audience. It’s a DHV to open without a worry of who is watching. It shows that I believe what I’m doing is natural.
0:35 – I haven’t killed momentum because it’s still normal for her to cross the road now (and there’s no way I can follow her without being creepy) so I have to keep her engaged with verbals long enough for the lights to change back to red.
0:40 – She’s meeting a friend. I have to get this done quickly. Usually I’d begin flipping the script and pausing now but I’m concerned about her momentum….
0:43 – …so I ask another leading question, which has a nuance of challenging her, to try to kill it.
0:54 – Finally I get a chance to stack properly into something she can talk about and start vibing.
1:01 – Hair twirl IOI.
1:06 – Note the solid eye contact. That’s the main DHV at this moment, not my jibber jabber.
1:18 – I should’ve let her talk more on the thread of getting into trouble. A minor mistake.
1:27 – She’s about to say something and I cut over it. Another mistake. I’m not well calibrated today.
1:54 – Personalise it to her.
2:16 – Rapport and show I have some education. Body language is unreactive and my energy is lower now.
2:31 – I’ve interrupted her again. Stupid! Never break rapport in daygame.
2:41 – You’re not listening to me are you? Just thinking about her tits.
2:53 – Basic comfort building questions while I try to get her to open up and invest. I’ve set a slightly weak vibe with all my interruptions. The frame is too much that she gives short answers while I skip across topics quickly. I should’ve slowed down earlier.

 

3:00 – Easy generic neg, especially for a girl who knows she’s beautiful.
3:05 – Finally I do something right and lead her.
3:13 – This is how high value / high esteem girls IOI – simply giving you their undivided attention and listening intently. No dramatics.
3:22 – Note the dog that didn’t bark. She’s not looking over my shoulder, or at her watch, or shifting awkwardly. There are no signs that she’s in a hurry to meet that friend or to eject from this conversation.
3:44 – I’m qualifying her. I haven’t given her any physical IOIs yet so I’m running this more like classic mystery method of letting her show her likeable side so I can then show interest in her. You can bet most guys can’t help but acknowledge her beauty right from the beginning.
4:10 – She’s much more open now.
4:18 – Most guys would jump on the model thing. “ooooh I’m talking to a model!!!!” I finally give her an oblique physical IOI while remaining mostly unfazed.
4:37 – No chance of the instant date and limited in how long I can keep her so I just go for the number. It’s a 50/50 chance.
4:41 – Qualify her on the close. Notice my frame is that I’m choosing and she’s no big deal.
4:50 – Time will tell if this was smart or retarded. I’ve had very little time to build rapport and invest her, so taking a number might fizzle out when she knows so little about me. Adding her to Facebook is less pressure for her and also lets me passively DHV and build rapport just from having her check out my profile. So I decline the text game and try Facebook.
5:02 – That’s a locking in leg cross from her, not a pussy tingle. I know from her legs and vibe that I’m not extracting the contact details – she’s happily giving them up (see the hair twirl IOI).
5:27 – Subcommunicating that I won’t waste my time trawling through pages to find her, I have better stuff to do. Usually I transition to “give me you number and I’ll text if I can’t find you” but in this case it sounds like she’s easy to find.
5:37 – I’m still projecting that I’m not fully convinced by her on the goodbye – no hug or handshake, but not rude either. I’m setting myself up as high value.

 

Verdict: She’s a 9, my game was a 7, and she’s just accepted the Facebook add. More posts to follow if I get her onto a date. Update: I’ve kiss closed and am dating her. Took down the images

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