I came back from Yugoslavia with four very hot leads in addition to the girls I’d already knocked over. These are all young very pretty girls who are massively into me but I’d run out of time to clack them. A classic case of “park them in long-game”. These days I’m more aggressive in sexualising girls over teh interwebs, probably because I have greater abundance (and thus care less about losing them) and also I know I’m more attractive than I used to be so the girls are more into me. All four had been giving me heavy makeouts before I hightailed it out their country.

My usual pattern is to draw them into my world, run rapport, and spike the conversation with silly attraction material. Once they are chatting to me regularly I get them to describe what they are wearing, do a sex chat, and get them masturbating. Around this time I’ll find out more about what they like sexually and commence turning them out by chipping away at their barriers to expressing their true sexuality. It’s powerful stuff. Here’s some screen shots of one of my two Serbs chatting…. I begin by asking for feedback on our most recent sex chat from a couple of days earlier. Note how much anchoring she’s been doing while I’m not even there.

It should be pretty clear that girls fantasise alot about sex. This girl is the prototypical Good Girl – she’s 23 and had only one sexual partner, looks quite nerdy. For a long time I struggled with the madonna-whore complex, struggling to believe that good girls love sex. 60 Years of Challenge explains that one well. Men have trouble accepting affection from sluts because they have a natural aversion to forming a long-lasting emotional attachment to a girl who shows signals of likely sleeping-around / cuckoldry. Women know a child is theirs but a man never does and this simple fact explains about half the difference in male and female sexuality. Thus men are inclined to sort women into mutually exclusive categories of those who love sex (Bad Girls) and those who are marriageable (Good Girls). It’s wrong but it took me a long time to unburden myself of this notion – it’s a pretty lie that doesn’t want to perish because men don’t want to give up on the hope that women can really love them unconditionally.

After an hour of running my sexualisation photo routine, which has her well-horny, I start pushing further to see how many barriers I can dissolve in her state of heightened arousal. It’s pretty eye-opening. Note how I’m leading her and giving implicit permission to admit to liking it without incurring my disapproval.

At some point you will trigger her ASD and she’ll wonder whether she’s making a fool out of herself for opening up so much, and whether you do this with all the girls. Expect it. I’ve never not had a girl pull up and question me. Here’s how I handle it, by imposing my frame that this is completely natural and sprinkling in some compliments and triggering memories.

Although I want her to open up I also have to set a few limits so she doesn’t say anything which genuinely disgusts me so I give her a few limits (no bestiality or scat) then we get the ker-ching moment when she finally admits to something big….

For a long time I was hesitant to go so deep with girls because I simply didn’t understand how dirty they are. I’ve since had a bunch of Good Girls admit to this kind of thing. They love it in the ass, DP, all kinds of things. Mostly they are keeping their secret fantasies and don’t even realise themselves that this is what they actually want in reality (the number of times I’ve heard a fantasy related with “I’d never actually do this” and then she subsequently does it). My Secret Garden is for real. Hopefully this chat will make it more real for you guys.