Here’s a chat from January with the 20yr old Polish virgin. Regular readers will recall I opened her in a Krakow nightclub in October by saying words to the effect of “you are the type of girl I like to fuck” then spun a weak facebook close into strong rapport. Here’s the first chat with her that I sexualised. Every single part of this chat is pushing something further – before this day I hadn’t even talk about kissing her, instead running attraction and comfort material.

The first five minutes is normal chat until I ask her what she’s wearing and take it from there. Note I soften myself in many places to come across a little more nice guy that usual, even though I’m advancing inch by inch. The usual “ewwww!” warnings apply for anyone who actually knows me personally.

Her: bra is ecreu     I was on the shopping 😛
Me: ecreu? what is that?
Her: hmm     bright beige
Me: Nice. I wanna feel your breasts  [the first escalation]
Her: heh…    <embarrassment>
Me: +15    nice demure response    I want to feel your butt too    I’m sitting in Starbucks, writing….. but…    I’m suddenly turned on by you
Her: I don’t know why recently this way I am acting to men…. 😦
Me: What do you mean?    You are having a sexual effect on men?
Her: different sexual proposals…   hmmm   [don’t get jealous, don’t validate her with an IOI]
Me: tell me more    [order her around]
Her: special from Italians     hmm….I don’t know….    even when I am walking along a street are turning    it’s not comfortable
Me: are they being rude about it?
Her: no…..not really    but for me…It’s not comfortable situation
Me: Are they giving you the “starving wolf” look?    [frame them]
Her: yes! I think yes…     I should probably be pleased, but it not in my style 😛    [I like her response here, not a validation whore]
Me: Why is it different with me?    [lead her that it is different with me]
Her: hmm…. you have something interesting in yourself….    🙂    I like talk with you…
Me: Yeah    But I can say something like “I want to feel your breasts”    and you accept it    and are pleased with it    and not threatened    [pacing and leading]
Her: yes…… it’s strange 😛
Me: I guess, you know I’m not going to chase you    [even though that’s exactly what I’m doing]
Her: haha 🙂    no….you’re nice guy…
Me: I try to be a bad boy     [An inadvertent contrast game from me]
Her: haha 😉
Me: Have you ever thought about sex with me?    [more pushing, a punt in the dark. It does no harm at this point to be so bold]
Her: heh… I didn’t think about it…    now I am waiting for my closest co-workers… which will arrive in two weeks 🙂
Me: think about it now    Imagine we are alone    perhaps in a kitchen    and I walk over to you.    We both have a glass of red wine    I stand close to you, nose almost touching your nose    [so I just launch into a sexual projection anyway, to see if she yields. She hasn’t cooperated in the set-up, so it’s a risk]
Her: ohhhh! it’s right! in a kitchen!    😀
Me: I look down into your eyes    you can feel my breathing against your skin    your heart starts to beat faster, and your mouth feels dry    you lookup into my eyes
Her: I like it in you. You are immediate 😉     [almost all girls like submitting, even virgins who haven’t really experienced it first hand]
Me: Haha. Shall I continue?    [Normally I wouldn’t ask but I haven’t quite calibrated her and I want to soften things. I really don’t want to put in loads of work to the projection if she’s not giving some positive feedback]
Her: haha 🙂   if yoy want 😀    *you  [this could be “yes, but I’m shy” or “don’t care”…]
Me: ok, wait a moment    [… so I act distracted a bit so I don’t look to keen on doing it]
Her: ok
Me: just bought another coffee    Ok, where were we? 😀    [a test to see if she wants to continue or tries to snip the thread]
Her: hmm…we are on the kitchen    [she continues, so I proceed]
Me: did you not get those last messages?    [internet problem]
Her: your last message was “just bought another coffee    Ok, where were we? ” 😉
Me: oh dear!    I wrote a long message, you didn’t get it    I’ve already fucked you and gone to sleep     I guess I need to wake up, and do it again…..
Her: hahaha    sometimes are you imagining the sex with me? 😛
Me: right now    I’m going to tell you what I’m imagining    I want you to tell me what you think about it
Her: about your imagine? 😛
Me: yeah    ok, right now I am imagining you in this imaginary kitchen    there’s a radio playing in the background. Wagner I think    You are wearing white panties and a light beige bra. Nothing else    You’re still wearing glasses and your hair is in a pony tail    You have light make up. Just enough to accentuate your features    [playing up the feminine angles, especially because she already told me she likes cooking and cleaning]
Her: I like it…
Me: cool    Now, I wonder what you are doing in this scene…..
Her: recently he is “whirling” for me sex in the kitchen. you hit
Me: So you are standing, leaning against the wall    one of your feet is up on a chair    I have my hands on your hips    while I kiss your stomach    I hold your thigh tightly with one hand    while I unhook your bra with the other hand   your bra falls to the kitchen floor, and your breasts are freed    I look at them for a few moments. Then I look into your eyes. Then I move my head down and begin to blow lightly over your nipples, without touching    You grab the back of my head. I wait. I wait until you are moaning, then I flick out my tongue and start to play with your breasts
Her: you must absolutely have the shirt white, up to the half unbuttoned
Me: business shirt?
Her: yes 😀    it is probably my single condition ;);)    [cool, she’s into this]
Me: maybe I just came back from work. I’m still wearing my suit    my tie is loose, so I take it off    So I’m licking your breasts    and grabbing your butt    you are moaning, pulling my head towards you, moving around    I can feel you want me to touch you    so I slowly drag my hand down your body    over your breasts    down your stomach    lightly scratching the inside of your thighs    your whole body shakes, with anticipation    finally, I place my hand on your panties   first, I just hold it there    you breath out deeply, it makes you feel safe
Her: heh…. you’re amazing 😛
Me: I know 😉    So, I wait a minute. I’m just enjoying the touch of your body beneath my hands
Her: you are knowing exactly, what the woman needs
Me: Enjoying the smell of your neck    I can feel your heart beating, I can see the pulse in your neck    I enjoy making you wait    making the anticipation build into something special    then, when i think you are about to explode….    I start massaging you through your panties    Slowly at first. A simply motion. Up and down, slightly pushing into you    I hold my mouth next to yours, not quite touching    after a couple of minutes you are very very hot    I can feel your skin burning with passion    I spin you around    You are facing the wall. You put your palms against the wall    I slap your butt and pull it towards me    You push your butt out. You want me to take you    You want me to put my cock into you right now    But I’m not ready. I’m going to make you wait longer    How is it so far?
Her: ooomg 😛    soo hot 😛
Me: 😛    So I slap your butt again. I like doing that.   One hand is holding your hips from behind.    With the other hand, I grab your pony tail and pull it backwards    Hard enough for you to notice. But not quite hard enough to hurt you    Your head snaps back and you gasp. I slap your butt again    then I just look at you. I absorb the image    of you    your slim legs    your stomach, pulled in tight and quivering    your round butt, pushed towards me, swaying slightly from side to side   and your face – your eyes closed and your mouth open in pleasure    I think to myself “I want this girl”    So I pull down your panties
Her: why just with me? 😛
Me: ??? explain please
Her: ohh..nevermind    [she doesn’t want the momentum broken]
Me: shall I continue?
Her: yes 🙂
Me: Ok, so you are bent over    panties aronud your ankles    waiting    I keep my shirt on    I just pull open my trousers    (it’s imagination so I don’t wear a condom. In reality I would)     My cock is really hard now    You are grabbing behind yourself, trying to grab my cock    so I slap your butt again and pull your hair    again    I stand behind you    then slowly, very slowly, I slide my cock into you    as you feel it fill you, you gasp    your legs shake a little, and your knees go weak for a moment    I push all the way inside you. You feel like I’m so deep into you that it’s going to come out of your mouth    I wait. I let you enjoy the feeling of having me inside you    I feel you relaxing
Her: very good idea, that’s all what I can say … heh    [accepting the fucking]
Me: So now I start thrusting    going in and out    slowly at first, making you savour each time    very gradual    I start to increase the speed    make you feel my power    You start moving alot    You try to grip the wall    You try to match my movement    You try to pull me further in    I reach around and grab your breasts. You gasp    You put one hand back, on your own butt    You look around, look at your butt    You are trying to imagine how you look when you are beign fucked    you know you look sexy, and you want to see what I see   I keep fucking you for ten minutes like this    I vary the speed, the power, how I touch you    You are lost in pleasure. Probably can’t even remember your own name    Then I suddenly stop, and pull my cock out    You feel the loss. You feel empty. You look at me. Your eyes say “please, that’s good. I want more”    Your turn, what do you want me to do to you next?
Her: I can see that you like to dominate and to decide on everything    😉
Me: Yes, but I’m always thinking about what will give the girl a special moment    so, what do you think you’d like next?
Her: it is nice, that you know, that for the woman these are a special moment, rather than only normal fucking…
Me: I know. Women rely on men to lead them to special experiences.    Most men can’t lead like that. It’s sad
Her: therefore you’re special 😉 hehe
Me: thank you    now stop avoiding my question!
Her: hahah
Me: …
Her: what I am supposed for you to say, since I don’t have experience 😛
Me: ok, shall I decide?
Her: yes, please 😉
Me: ok, wait a minute
Her: you aren’t finishing the book, by me     [she knows I’m writing the daygame book]
Me: wait    So, where are we now?
Her: my eyes say “please, that’s good. I want more”    [accepting the chasing frame]
Me: ah ha!    Lucky you, there’s more….
Her: <lol>    yeah! lucky me 😛
Me: So I grab your hair and turn you around    push you to your knees    you are desperate to keep my cock inside you    I pull your head onto it. You take it all in your mouth   You start sucking, moving your head up and down
Her: stop pulling my hair! 😛    [symbolic resistance, loves it]
Me: again, you just love the feeling of having me inside you    You start to play, to use some creativity    You lick my cock, running your tongue from top to bottom    you kiss the end    your push it into your mouth against the inside of your cheek
Her: it probably too much for me 😛 pfff
Me: perhaps    So I grab your hair again……    [defiance, considering earlier warning]
Her: ohhh nooo 😛    all the time you’re saying nothing to me? 😛
Me: I pull you to your feet. Then I pick you up over my shoulder and carry you to the bedroom    I don’t talk much during sex    You are giggling, squealing, and kicking your feet as I carry you     I throw you onto the bed. You look at me, like I’m a big strong bear    you are thinking “take me. I surrender”    I get onto the bed with you and push you back    I lean on top of you. We kiss    Then I push my cock into you again    It’s different this time. You are totally relaxed. It’s like getting into a hot bath. Or putting on your favourite shoes
Her: you can be more delicate 😉
Me: All of this is rough, but not painful    you feel my strength and energy. You surrender to the power. But you trust me and it doesn’t hurt    So I start fucking you again    At first I’m lying on you and you can feel my weight. You wrap your arms and legs around me, holding me tightly    You are panting, sweating, moaning    You orgasm a few times    then I slow down and push myself off a little    so I’m looking at you, naked, underneath me    I like seeing you naked.    I like seeing you watch me watching you    Each time I push into you, you moan and squirm    I’m looking into your eyes as I do this. I enjoy making you moan    I grab your ankles and hold her legs together by my head    I lean into you. You can feel me very deep inside you    I start fucking you harder again. I make you come    I make you scream my name    Then I slow down again and we slowly fuck for another ten minutes.    comments?
Her: sorry 😛 I’m in shock 😛    heh
Me: enjoying?
Her: yes…. .I like your imagine 😉
Me: Ok. we’ve been fucking for about half an hour now. I want to watch TV soon, so we need to finish
Her: I would still prefer to be in your shoulders…    I don’t want the mechanical sex
Me: this isn’t mechanical    you’d have to feel it    much of the pleasure for you is in how I use my weight, my grip, my energy, my timing    when I fuck you, it feels like I am projecting my character into you
Her: ok, but after the sex the woman needs the support
Me: I haven’t finished yet    I’m still fucking you    where were we?
Her: but you are already thinking about television, not against me
Me: haha    So I speed up again. I’m looking at you and enjoying this. Now I’m thinking about making myself come.    You want to feel my sperm    You want the satisfaction of making me come    Because it makes you feel sexy    It makes you feel your feminine power as a sexy woman    You sense I am finishing, so you grab tighter and moan louder    trying to draw me into orgasm
Her: 😛
Me: It’s imagination, so I’ll be a bit ruder than usual    For our first fuck I’ll come inside you, normally (using a condom)
Her: no, I don’t want to 😛
Me: But this is roleplay, so……    I’m feeling myself getting closer    The pressure is building    I’m thinking about how much I want you, and how much I like fucking you    I’m absorbing the visual image of you beneath me, trying to make me come    I pull out of you    as you lie there, I sit on your chest and push my cock into your mouth    you grab my cock and start pulling on it, sucking it, trying to get me to come    I feel it coming    I pull my cock out of your mouth    We hold eye contact. Your mouth is open, trying to get my sperm   I come    I splash you with it    It’s a bit messy    You feel it. It’s hot on your skin    You feel it on your cheeks, in your mouth    It’s exciting. You feel dirty, but victorious    You feel like you’ve succeeded. You’ve had a great fuck, and you’ve made me come    You feel good.    I roll off. I’m a bit tired
Her: i don’t think soo 😛
Me: I play with your hair a little. Kiss your forehead.    You go shower    then we lie in bed together and watch tv    the end    [comfort]
Her: “then we lie in bed together” —> ok, I like it;)
Me: How was it for you? 😀
Her: “Your mouth is open, trying to get my sperm I come I splash you with it It’s a bit messy You feel it. It’s hot on your skin You feel it on your cheeks, in your mouth” -> it’s too much 😛
Me: haha, I told you – a bit ruder than usual because its imagination
Her: I know I know 😉
Me: Generally, is that how you’d like me to fuck you?    [seamlessly bring it into the real world and an intention]
Her: yes 🙂    [now it’s about logistics and comfort]
Me: 😉    How did you feel as I described it?
Her: but I like more sensitive guys 😛
Me: answer the question
Her: serious?    I am dreaming of the sex in the kitchen 😛 <lol>
Me: haha
Her: haha
Me: You want me to fuck you, don’t you
Her: :>    I don’t know…. we saw ourselves only once…    😛  [= yes, but there’s a rationalisation hamster to feed]
Me: true    but you have to admit, we’ve built quite a connection    [overtly stating it to make it consciously accepted]
Her: hehe…. something like that 😛
Me: Well, I’ll be honest with you    I want you to come to London    I want to take you out a few places    and I want to fuck you. Lots of times.    [turn it from fantasy into a real-world proposition that requires a decision]
Her: WOW!     are you sure?!
Me: Yes.    I know enough about you now. I know I will enjoy your company
Her: why do you want it?
Me: Because I like you. You have the balance of feminine energy, playfulness, and thoughtfullness that I like    [qualification]
Her: thank you…. very much 🙂
Me: Would you like to come?
Her: it’s very important to me …    hmm    I would like to…, but…. i think…I can’t 😛   my study….
Me: A four day holiday. Friday morning to Monday evening.    The flights are cheap. The accomodation is free.    [hammer the frame]
Her: and I don’t think so it would be nothing result from the sex …:P   hehe
Me: You are not obliged to have sex with me    [which is true]
Her: it isn’t about money
Me: what is it about?
Her: nice 🙂    hmm    I don’t know..    haha, Nick…. youre crazy 😉    I like it 😉
Me: 😉    so tell me, what is holding you back from reserving a flight?    [trying to close]
Her: OMG!     it’s crazy proposition 😛    I’m a woman…. not to much crazy 😛 hihi    I can’t explain it… 😛
Me: a mix of excitement and fear?
Her: yes 😀
Me: You don’t have to decide now
Her: something like that 😛
Me: I’m making my intention clear    I’m making you an offer    If you say “no”, we can still be friends.    think about it
Her: thank you )    a little bit surprised, I didn’t expect it…   but I’ll think about it 🙂
Me: Cool    Remember it’s not just me. You get to see London too
Her: ok, but I will be alone in the major city 😛    [she’s sorely tempted, but it is a huge ask from a virgin who’s only met me once and never been to England]
Me: not alone    We have two spare rooms in my house, so you don’t have to sleep in my bed    and you can bring a friend (so long as its a girl, and she’s not ugly) [always thinking about my wings to feed ’em another girl]   really, it’s not just about sex. I want to show you my city
Her: 🙂
Me: I have to go home now. Dinner time    [don’t want this to spin on any longer, I’ve made my point]
Her: I appreciate it    ok
Me: Is this a good time to ask you to send me a sexy photo?    [but might as well push further]
Her: haha
Me: cropping your face outside the photo is ok
Her: cleverly    😛
Me: C’mon, take a photo
Her: haha
Me: put on your best underwear, have a sexy pose    take a photo
Her: I haven’t!
Me: do it now
Her: no! 🙂
Me: c’mon, make a guy happy
Her: maybe when I will be in London 😉
Me: haha    I’m gonna keep asking
Her: my body isn’t good! and beauty!    I don’t have big breasts
Me: I like it. I wanna stick my cock in you. That’s enough    I’ll decide if your breast are good
Her: haha    I’m resolute 😛
Me: sure    anyway, I have to go now    talk later
Her: tasty 😉
Me: have a good evening
Her: thanx, you too:)
Me: think about what we talked about (yes, all of it!)
Her: 🙂   bye
Me: bye

I get a sexy underwear photo two weeks later, and her London trip is looking ever stronger.