Here is a late night Facebook chat I had with one of my many Lithuanian targets. We met in September and had a disastrous date that made me strongly dislike her. Not even a kiss close. After a month where she was completely screened out I decide on a whim to add her to facebook.
Since then we’ve had dozens of chats and I actually like the girl now, as a person. We’ve built strong rapport and she had agreed to fuck me in January but then logistics intervened. Since then she’s gone back to playing a coy “chase me, chase me” game as you’ll see here. She’s definitely a validation junkie but [without going into biographical details] she’s a giving person with a heart of gold.
So I come home late from a social event RSG put on to celebrate Wonka‘s arrival. Here’s how it goes.
Me – you should go to bed [order her about]
Her – :))))and u??? [she loves being ordered, this is her typical response]
Me – I just came home from a party
Her – how was the party?
Me – great we had a good room lots of friends [never stop DHVing]
Her – u should go to bed..what are u doing now?
Me – eating noodles what are you wearing? [standard stuff, make it sexual]
Her – I am wearing noodles..and nothing more:)))) [she’s always coming up with deft ways to deflect the sexuality before she finally accepts talking about it, a common pattern]
Me – Boo I don’t wanna fuck you anymore [willingness to walk away, playfully]
Her – oh no Niki..why not????:((((
Me – noodles make you dirty and messy I want a clean fresh girl [I have standards, but again in a playful frame]
Her – noodles are very sexy…u can eat them from girls body..mmm [she wants to draw me in for more validation]
Me – Not yours Where’s my photos? [She’s had enough from me. She’d promised me sexy photos but hasn’t sent any]
Her – I am making them…and where are mine?
Me – you first [I’d rather not get them than lose the frame]
Her – I am going to sleep…bye Niki..:)) [yeah…..right. Too clumsy. I’m not falling for that one]
Me – ok [don’t pander to her whims]
Her – You need to promise to show me one day your girls pictures ..that would be very interesting to see:))) [this is luring me into saying yes, which would guarantee I never get hers]
Me – all pictures are private I will give you something good, from me [true. I don’t post up girl’s naked photos]
Her – I want to party..right now..and I have big problems sleeping..maybe u know how to sleep???
Me – masturbate [keep it sexual, keep hammering the frame]
Her – I tried..won’t help..smoking, drinking also not..but really it’s a very serious problem [no problem talking about the fact she masturbates]
Me – get a taxi to the airport. get a flight to london come here suck my cock then I’ll fuck you so hard you nearly die and you’ll sleep for days [hammer the frame]
Her – I don’t have a money for a taxi [deft evasion, but not actual rejection. She wants the validation of me trying to fuck her, but neither wants to give it up easily nor have me decide it’ll never happen and turn my attention to another girl]
Me – Sell a kidney [so I definitely don’t offer to buy her taxi]
Her – do u know somebody that needs one???or two??
Me – no I’ll pay you £5 for a naked photo £10 for a photo of you masturbating that should be enough for a taxi you need to pay for the flight yourself [value for value – heh]
Her – cash or credit card?????
Me – paypal [don’t always give straight answers]
Her – don’t have an account [she’s seeing how hard I’ll try to get her to London, even though it’s just a game]
Me – then you’ll have to accept insomnia those were my only 2 ideas [my limit is reached]
Her – i will go fucking crazy..in last week I slept five hours…
Me – I’m sorry for you. My only solution is fucking
Her – You know today I agree with u..that is the only thing that I haven’t tried..tomorrow I need to find a guy..thank u for the idea [clumsy attempt to make me jealous]
Me – thank me when you get a good night’s sleep [not fazed]
Her – ok..we will see..I have been exercising for the last two hours..if sport doesn’t work sex definitely will help..
Me – cool I’m going to bed now [It’s late, I’m not gonna be drawn into conversation just to keep her entertained]
Her – boo for leaving me alone..ok,have a nice dream about me:)))
Me – 😉
Her – 😉
“You just have to keep your frame until hers crumbles”
The main subtext to this is I am battering against her frame while protecting mine. Eventually there’ll be a point where the “Krauser fucks Hamster” meme is so ingrained into the conversation that she just folds her cards and does it. She’s been thinking about it for months now.