Maintain hand through Facebook – Finland

September 23, 2010

My recent posts on Facebook chat / text game seem to have piqued the interest of readers. I guess most bloggers just don’t put up full conversations so a reader is left grasping vainly for a true contextualisation. For example it’s easy to overestimated how much douchebaggery to put into an interaction if the writer isn’t showing you all the normal boring comfort that it was paired with. Anyhoo, here’s another full chat from this morning. Finland has bought her tickets to come see me in a few week’s time and I can tell you right now most of her week is gonna be spent with my cock in her mouth.

12:53 Me – boo!  [I like to open Facebook chats with a silly noise or assumed familiarity]
12:54 Her – =)   hey    how are you?    how is London without me…?   [she’s seeking rapport and “our world”]
12:55 Me – Rainy  [true. That’s why I’m on Facebook and not in a cafe writing my new book]
12:56 Her – what about your mood? =)     i think in London always is rainy
12:56 Me – Weather has been good until today      I went to a fashion party last night     it was warm all evening  [drive-by DHV. Just because I got hand doesn’t mean I can neglect the basics]
12:59 Her – how is party? you have to know now everything about a fashion =)
12:59 Me – The main designer is a friend     I organised a show for her in February  [DHV, all true]
13:00 Her – at 09 a.m. i tried a full flight simulator Boeing 737 CL – that is amazing! the feeling is so so real  [She is clearly excited by this and wants to talk about it. It interests me so I’ll run with it. Also, it’s a good chance to build comfort and reframe her]
13:01 Me – one of the pilot training machines?
13:01 Her – yes     real pilot training mashine    !     i love it     i was a pilot today =)
13:02 Me – I’ll bet you crashed it      300 computer passengers died in a ball of flame  [tease – it’s good to create fantasy scenarios where if things were left up to her chaos would ensure and it needs the stern hand of a man to restore order – credit Jambone]
13:02 Her – =DDD     noooo     really not     i’m good pilot     =)     instructor helps me a little  [it hits, she qualifies]
13:03 Me – I wouldn’t let a woman fly me     We’d hit a mountain   [running with the tease and letting her know I’m my own boss]
13:03 Her – but if the woman is – superwoman? =)))  [enjoying the banter]
13:03 Me – then I’d fuck her  [Me>Superwoman. Now that’s high value!]
13:03 Her – hahaha
13:03 Me – and tell her to let me drive
13:04 Her – o.k. i would like to fly with you for the next time
13:04 Me – I have flying games on my Playstation     and the planes have guns and missiles!  [more about my stuff being better than her stuff, but playful and boyish]
13:05 Her – oh, i forgot, a Playstation is the thing number one for you     but i’ll try     =)   [never let a woman be #1 in your life]
13:05 Me – you can be number 12    below eggs     but above cheese  [exaggerated, based on a game we played on the Day 3]
13:06 Her – you are very kind… =D     could i be a no 2? =)      at the time, when i’ll be in London   [qualifying, reinforcing my framer]
13:07 Me – Temporarily     if you’re nice  [I’m a challenge but I’m not heartless in dishing out rewards so I set a condition]
13:08 Her – i’m always nice =)      with you   [qualifies to meet condition – frame is her trying to please me to win my approval]
13:10 Her – 1 week … is not too long time?
13:11 Me – Depends if you are a good cook
13:12 Her – ??? i would like to see you and London, i’m not porofessional cook
13:12 Me – You’ll love my new house     Tony is painting my bedroom red  [snip thread, mild leader of men DHV]
13:14 Her – who is Tony?      red – wow, is so active color     is it dark red?
13:15 Me – Yup   My room will be hot, passionate and dangerous     like me  [playful, projection]
13:16 Her – you are passionate, but not dangerous =)    you’re good boy   [you can’t be 100% douchebag. For the girl to hang around after initial sex she must think you are either “Nice guy with a dark side” or better still “Bad boy with kind heart”]
13:17 Me – And right now I’m also sweaty from exercise    I’m gonna shower now    talk soon  [subcommunicate I have shit to do today]
13:18 Her – o.k. i’ll be here     what exercise you had?    everyday?
13:19 Me – laterz    😉   [ignore her attemptes to stretch out the chat]

[abrupt log off]


  1. “Me – then I’d fuck her [Me>Superwoman. Now that’s high value!]” …………… true
    Her – o.k. i would like to fly with you for the next time………………..basicaly she asked for a fuck

  2. Krauser, your new nickname is MG. You are the mad genius. The way you dominate these girls in facebook chats is fucking legendary.

  3. And logging off like that after she said she wanted you to fuck her, like Eagler pointed out, is so money it hurts. I bet that she has never ever had a guy treat her like that. Her head is spinning. She is completely under your spell. !@R%!@#

    I have a friend who has a girl under a spell, not this much, but some. I am telling him he should attempt to get her to do two things:

    1. Allow him to videtape her sucking him off
    2. Have a threesome

    Am I crazy to think that maybe Finland would let you do those things? She seems completely under your spell. Girls are completely irrational, and will do the craziest, riskiest things in order to keep the alpha man they have always wanted.

    • hei did you get the torrent of gunwitch i sent you coz i cant see the comment i left a whyle back on your site

      • I didn’t realize that was you. I just approved the comment. I need to get internet at hom because the pirate bay is blocked at my work. I have used tpb before and it kicks ass. Thanks for sending me the link! I appreciate it. From what I have read on his website, I think gunwitch is my style.

  4. Why are all these girls foreign? Is the language barrier something you turn to your advantage/something you alter your game for (i.e. they already feel out of place and less sure than normal – and are therefore easier to bring into your frame?)

  5. These texing / IM breakdowns are better than on any other pickup site. This blog is now top on my rotation.

  6. hey can i ask something off topic? im really struggling financially and i feel i kneed to make an excuse even though i don’t. I just can’t help it, i just wanna say ” hey you are cute but i have to focus right now can’t date much” and i can’t focus til i say it, but it feels so god day beta, like i admit to having low value. What is a good line for this so i dont loose the girl and even get some respect. I just can’t seam to focus on NUMBER 1 sometimes

    • Not quite sure what you mean. I don’t work. I reframe it.

      Bad frame: “I’m poor, I don’t work. I wish I had a better job.”
      Good frame: “Time is my most precious resource. I made a decision that I was going to maximise that: see my friends, my family, follow my interests and hobbies.”
      She’ll usually jump on the “what are your hobbies?” question.

  7. Magnifique.

    Rivelino, the girls are foreign because they are feminine. Perhaps you dont live in a western society and you cant understand.

    • Hey, that comment was by Rinaldo.

      I love foreign girls. My last girlfriend was half Spanish, half French, and she was more feminine, sophisticated, and sensual than any American girl I had ever met.

      I really want to live in Europe. I am not going there now, but I will live there once I finish what I need to finish in America.

  8. When you can choose NOT to have sex, thats when you have the hand or the power. Because thats 99% of what women can offer.

  9. Respect for Krauser’s game here.

    However, I can’t see this exchange working with any American/British/Anglosphere girl. These girls will NOT so readily accept a submissive feminine frame.

    Can Krauser game a non-foreign girl?

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