I am utterly indifferent to getting hot birds out onto dates from teh interwebs. Don’t mistake me – I want to bang hot slavic girls. In fact I’d happily book a week off work and lock myself into a hotel room with a dozen fine fillies. But online dating? meh…. that’s just for losers who can’t street approach. So I use dating sites primarily for lulz, to troll some lonely ladies. And funnily enough that attitude is precisely the one that intrigues them. So here’s a few conversations I’ve been having. Haven’t met any of them yet. All are 8s.
From a technical point of view note that most of my messaging is push-pull-push, and that I frequently reject the first bit of rapport-seeking from her, but let her in a little. At no point do I sound like a care about meeting her. At no point does it sound like I’ve done anything except look at her profile photo.
This post was inspired by the utterly uninspired gambits the commentors were putting in Roissy’s recent post on OkCupid
June 28, 2012 at 1:01 pm
I know that this works Krauser, but it hurts my fucking head to think about it.
June 28, 2012 at 3:49 pm
I’m wondering how well this would work on American chicks. I get your reasons for gaming East Europeans / Russians, but there’s a big difference I think. Anybody have any knowledge of this?
Also, you’re what, 35, gaming 8-10 years younger? Wondering how this would work for a 45 year old.
June 28, 2012 at 5:29 pm
Interesting. What dating website are you using?
June 28, 2012 at 10:03 pm
That it works should not be surprising. Imagine all your life people are giving you things, complimenting you, treating you extra nicely, etc. Then someone calls you a chipmunk. Wouldn’t you be interested? Who is this person and why isn’t he a sycophant like everyone else? Now, to be sure, Russia is not the West, but I’m sure even there hot girls get better treatment.
July 1, 2012 at 10:31 pm
I imagine Nick wants to keep the name of the website a little secret…
I spent a lot of time in Eastern Europe (mostly Bulgaria, Ukraine, Belarus and Poland). Over there it is pretty brutal, but the same dynamics apply. It’s even more about money and status – I was seeing a pretty well known TV presenter over there and the chode older guy found out through his “sources”…Demanded she finish the relationship with me or he would quit paying for her house, car , etc.
I’m surprised I wasn’t paid a visit by the Bulgarian Mafia.
Eastern European girls are very very good at judging value quickly and are brutal in doing so. Value can be financial worth or sexworthiness / fuckability – so broken down to how masculine / dominant / strong in your reality you are, how hard your body is, etc etc. Both work…
July 4, 2012 at 6:59 pm
“Over there it is pretty brutal”
What do you mean by this? How could Eastern Europe be any more brutal than the Anglo-Sphere?
July 9, 2012 at 11:12 am
Hey Krauser…interesting blog…i’ve used some of your techniques on ok cupid. results positive, but many of the girls are flaking before meeting, or in one case, i had the most awesome push-pull session.
She was bringing up sex…then pulling away when I would say “behave” etc.
Then i logged off. Next day I pinged her with “Hey crazy girl”
She replied with “I thought you were angry with me…”
No clue, perhaps because I logged off, so I said “Furious, how will you make it up to me?”
Finally after some back and forth I adapted you killer neg:
I’m not sure about you…
her: Why? What?
Me: Three things
Then i listed, You’re cute, and sexy in a weird way, and you seem lntriguing, but i’m not sure about the bitchiness, if it’s a defense….blah blah blah
Her reaction? Instant qualification: “I’m intriguing???” You are dangerous, you are playboy…..” then she writes that “You are intriguing, i am innocent, you play me….i don’t act this way all the time. But the bithciness is because you are playboy….”
I didn’t reply…yet, just left it there.
Thoughts? Next moves? She’s cute, Chinese…. [Just have fun and don’t take any single lead seriously K.]
September 25, 2012 at 1:24 pm
Kinda having the same problem with POF when i ask girls to meet like get her number or give her mine thats where it ends never hear back from the girls again.
Grr i wonder what i am doing wrong.
July 1, 2015 at 8:54 pm
American chicks are only easier. Stronger bitch-shield due to the sense of self-entitlement that comes from the ample supply of desperate AFCs who would hit on just about anything to get laid. But that’s mostly a front. Open up by making fun of her profile, but do make it funny and they go with the flow. Also helps to weed out uptight feminist uv type.
September 25, 2012 at 12:24 pm
Hey thanks for this post its got some very interesting ideas.
I myself have started using POF and at first the results were very bad i mean i sent out 150 emails and had one reply maybe 3 views.
By the time i reached 300 plus i only had 3 replys and like 24 profile views.
I found this silly as i heard other people were sending out 20 and getting 8 back or 70 and getting 10 to 15 replys.
Chatted with Jimmy and managed to get much better results for example sending out 15 and getting 1 or 2 replies.
HUGE improvement except the only problem i got with this is it takes up alot of time as my messeges are half copy and paste and half writting from something i see on her profile.
Which i wouldnt mind spending my time on if the end results were better.
What i mean is everytime i get replies and start a convo everytime i ask her for the number or give her mine nothing contact ends immediately???