I had about nine dates during my week in Vilnius and loads of other sets on top of that so I can’t really do them all justice here, hence I’m gonna be pretty quick on this one. The educational point is in the video – this is all from the first half hour of the Day 2, beginning from one minute after I sat down in the cafe where she was waiting.
I opened by complementing her walk and then teasing on the leather jacket (“where’s the motorbike parked? I bet it’s just a tiny little scooter”). Strong hook and I stood for ten minutes before number closing. It was easy to get her out on the date so we met for lunch. I just wasn’t much into her even though she’s a lovely woman. The texts to set up the date:
Me 10 Sept 3:01pm – Is this HB Biker? The slightly cute, slightly fun biker girl who owes Krauser a coffee (white americano, no sugar) [Credit to Jambone for spontaneously coming up with this text. I’ve used it alot since]
Her 3:09pm – Yes it is HB Biker. It was to meet you 🙂 have a nice time 🙂 [fast response, smileys]
Me 11 Sept 6:50pm – Hmmmm…. Basketball…… [USA just beat them in the semi final – it’s not clear what I mean and it invites a longer response]
Her 6:55pm – Sad to say… but, i know, tomorrow we will win! 🙂
Me 12 Sept 11:55am – I’m gonna be looking for a girl to have a drink with soon. Maybe a brunette, with a black biker jacket, kinda cute. Do you know any? [my new way to set up a date when the prior texting hasn’t helped]
Her 12:15pm – Yes, happen to know one, she is right in front of me 🙂 so, I say smth to her? 🙂
Me 12:19pm – Yeah, tell her lunchtime tomorrow she’ll be having coffee with a stranger
Her 12 Sept 12:20pm – Done 🙂 she said ok 😀
Watch the video for how quickly she starts showing interest and how her bodly language softens over the half hour and her eyes fix in on me. Note also how she initiates the kino.
After lunch I tried to extract her for the lay within an hour but she refused so we walked around another hour, hand in hand, while she showed me her favourite places. I tried the kiss close in the street before leaving and she gave me a “not here” refusal. It’s on, but I’m not fussed. She doesn’t do Facebook but I’m trying to talk her into setting up a page so I can Long Game her.
September 20, 2010 at 11:04 pm
Ha ha she busted your PUA-ring.
It constantly amazes me what pap you can spout at these girls and get them to give you rape eyes. There’s a strong subcommunication going on here which is not dependent on the higher level words. Core. Intent. Alpha.
September 21, 2010 at 5:32 am
Funny, in the background at the cafe there’s a song playing called “Always” by Bent that I’ve used to set the mood.
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September 21, 2010 at 9:01 pm
Sometime I am startled by the differences in taste.
Congratulations. You found the most alluring woman I have seen on a pua blog. Hands Down. Seldom do i see pictures of women who even raise to my minimum level. I have seen only a handful I would even bother to game. I had actually come to the conclusion that most puas are only banging slutty bar skanks i wouldn’t waste my time on. Or perhaps they are all bluster. I wasn’t expecting anything special because you weren’t all that into her, then I saw a woman that shot right to the top of my attractiveness scale. Pardon me? This woman is head and shoulders over the 20 year old in the post following this one. I would walk by that one without a second glance.
September 21, 2010 at 9:50 pm
“de gustibus non disputandum est” you know?! who we hang out with, what your first crush looked like, what you look like…….it all matters, sometimes i have to force miself to wing a friend even though she might be hot by universal standards
September 23, 2010 at 8:00 pm
June 20, 2014 at 11:38 pm
There are no universal standards, and I suspect that the 18-26 supposed window of maximum desirability, or standards of fashionable proportions, is some men thinking to themselves: what would my friends say if I went after that woman. However, I now grasp the logic of “pre-selection” (I had to look it up last night), which leads to the irony of a knight’s move scenario where, to attract the one that I might want (due to a pleasing vibe) I am best served by being seen to have a successful interaction with the most fashionably regarded girls in the room, even if they are vapid and dull.
June 21, 2014 at 12:40 am
What I’m saying is, I consider at least some of the supposed evolutionary-psychologizing that I see in the PUAsphere either to be gaslighting (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gaslighting) or uncritical-thinking repetition of same. Having said that, I can see that if a big enough lie is repeated often enough, then it takes on a power all of its own, and wisdom requires me to take that false reality into my calculations rather than rail against it, since at the end of the day I just want to achieve the fulfillment that has eluded me so far. So I’ll use the HB numbers simply to be understood in what I write, as a reference scale, even if it is an inane crock of shit.
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May 13, 2013 at 9:14 pm
That girl’s face was stunning. When you told her you like to meet girls, you can see she’s trying to hide how crushed she is. Wow, I can’t wait to find out what happens with her.