After an hour or so of comfort and rapport in the cafe Wisdom makes himself scarce and I take the girl for a drink. I’m going for the SDL – something I’ve only recently been trying. It’s a no-brainer because she’s going back to Hunland on Monday night. We have a drink in the Sherlock Holmes pub nearby standing up so I can test her comfort (it’s good) and she’s telling me she just split up with her boyfriend and he’s moved out her flat. She clearly wants excitement but isn’t intellectually quite right with the idea. I talk a little about how society judges women too much and other things that give her the moral go-ahead. She seems to think I’m super smart but I don’t want to fall into the trap of getting all intellectual, or worse, dad-like with her.
We have another drink at a new pub and we’re arm in arm by now but she’s hanging on quite loose. More talk and I do a little NLP to raise her state and then kiss close. Easy. She’s all over me know but refuses the extraction. I guess she’s been out since 8am so can’t blame her. She’s keen to meet tomorrow so I don’t push past the kiss and hand holding. There’s not much coming at me vis-a-vis shit tests. We kiss goodbye at the station and then the next evening we meet.
There’s a quick kiss on the hello to re-establish the frame. She throws her arm around my neck but I shrug it off and walk her arm in arm to the pub. She’s hanging on tight now. The fact she came out at all means its on. I want to make her wait for the proper kiss and play around a bit – leaning back and making her lean in to me, getting her to qualify etc. She’s well into me now. We move on to the member’s club and sit on a sofa in a quiet corner. We start kissing and I work on strong alpha posture and let her climb all over me. She’s loving it and really breathing deep and pushing herself into me passionately. So much so I’m almost embarrased everytime the waiters go past.
I go for the extraction and she resists, saying we won’t be fucking.I make a joke of that, saying we have agreed not to fuck tonight and have to promise to stick to it no matter how tempting it gets. That completely frees me to verbally escalate and for most of the next hour we are talking about all of the sexual things we won’t be doing tonight. Her buying temperature is crazy-hot and her eyes are sparkling. She can’t keep her hands off my cock. I go for the extraction again.
Krauser: C’mon I’ll make you those cocktails. Nothing is gonna happen because we’ve already agreed we’re not fucking.
HB Squarehead: No. Not tonight.
Krauser: Look at me. Don’t you trust me?
HB Squarehead: I don’t trust myself *throws herself onto me again*
I’m now thinking only a back-alley fuck is possible if anything. I take her outside and before long we are in some dark doorway making out big time. She’s so horny but simply will not escalate to skin-on-skin. I’m still enjoying myself and really having fun with the verbal escalation. I figure I might as well seed the possibility of her coming back for a fuck holiday. You never know. I also frame all my verbal escalation around how young girls can easily fuck boys but they are surprised how different it is to be fucked by a man. She’s properly wet and I’m flummoxed on the inability to extract, or to rip her trousers down right there. I do try. I figure it’s better to be a pushy arsehole than a wimpy beta. When I try unzipping her she refuses:
HB Squarehead: You’re just trying to get me hot so I change my mind
Krauser: No. I’m giving you are preview of what you’ll get next time we meet
HB Squarehead: You sound sure we’ll be fucking.
Krauser: Because we will and you know it.
HB Squarehead: *squirms, grabs cock, pushes fanny into it [through jeans]*
Krauser: I’m showing you that I go after what I want.
HB Squarehead: That’s for sure!
After about an hour of this I put her on the train home. While I didn’t get the lay, it’s a nice reference experience. I’m a mid-thirties guy and I just met a 22yr old in the street and came within a whisker of fucking her. Nice.
May 17, 2010 at 3:26 am
It’s about time you posted something new, I was getting bored.
Are there any inexpensive and decent B&Bs nearby? I’m considering taking a vacation over there and going through some of your classes.
May 17, 2010 at 10:35 pm
Try booking at Travelodge. If you get it far in advance its super cheap. Apart from that there’s tonnes of B&Bs around.
May 17, 2010 at 11:42 pm
And will you promise to have pity on a foreigner and speak slowly?
I just spent $5K on a Benz, so I’ll have to save up for a while.
I suspect you would be a lot more fun to heckle in person…
May 17, 2010 at 12:08 pm
(speaking as someone with a grand total of one day 2)…but I thought there was a lot of merit in The Mystery Method where he’s saying don’t begin the S3 heavy-petting shit until you are next to the sex location, and get her to the S3 location first before she connects going to S3 as a sex decision.
you are really stepping your game up though. i have no doubt it’s going to read like a porn novel in a few months time.
I didn’t realise you were mid-30’s either… gives me hope!
May 17, 2010 at 4:26 pm
Nice story. Seems like the kind of shit I keep going through with girls.
Once they have it in their mind that they’re not fucking you today, they’re not fucking you today. I can’t seem to get passed that.
May 18, 2010 at 2:34 pm
i’d have pulled a walk away. drawn the line in the sand that we’re going to go fuck or i’m walking away: push/pull. make her decide…and if she chooses “no”…then she’ll always look back and think “if”…..closure/resolution is the single biggest chink in the armor of women.
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May 26, 2010 at 7:19 am
If these are real girls you’re pulling I’m impressed.
May 26, 2010 at 8:21 am
Pulling, but not necessarily banging
May 26, 2010 at 1:00 pm
I feel like I’m in that same boat.
Pulling a lot, but not actually banging them.
You’re doing more than me though, and you’re doing it through day game, I respect that. I need to get my shit together.
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November 4, 2012 at 10:05 am
Still here, still reading. There has been a few posts I’ve bookmarked for further analysis but just wanted to mention a situation I found myself in a while ago. I had picked up a 7/8 in a supermarket (long before I knew about pua) and we were at the point of f close or eject. the clincher for me was I said ‘well i always wear a condom so why not see what I’m offering then decide’ I showed her my cock. Got it out there and then. (we had moved to a location within walking distance of my place) Within a few minutes we were at my place having fun. I had reassured her she was safe and I had given her the thrill of actually seeing what I had to offer (again I’m no long schlong silver) my mindset was if she says no- so what.
December 14, 2015 at 5:06 am
I think you need to quit wasting time on tourists, and women who live a long bus/train ride away.
The tourists feel like sluts if they bang someone they’ll likely never see again. There isn’t time to overcome their anti slut defense. So, essentially all you get are sex-charged friend zones. Of course there are skanks who want a sex vacation, but you seem to screen those out yourself.
The girls who live there, but with bad logistics, are bangable — but it takes a huge amount of work.
They have to have some feeling that a respectable relationship is possible. Then in the privacy of your home, things can get a little out of control.