I remember back in 1998 when I first lived in London in a zone three houseshare one of the lads moved out and we put a classified ad up to replace him. One of the couples scoping the room was from Croatia. The dude was a normal guy. Tall-ish, slim, fairly well dressed. Nothing special one way or the other, seemed pleasant. The woman was stunning. Proper drop-dead gorgeous. At the time I wasn’t envious. It never even entered my brain I could compete for a girl like that.
An exaggeration, yesterday
More recently (post-game) those girls have been in my sights. Since clambering up the fuck ladder from 6s, to 7s, to 8s I’ve been looking at the hotter girls of God’s green earth feeling like that’s what I ought to be dating. And occasionally I have. Sometimes, however, I’d see normal couples walking around where the girl is hot and I’d get a little pang of envy. Even if I’d fucked six girls of equal quality already that year I’d look at her, look at him, and get a bit narked. That’s not good.
So my mind turns and I think about these couples. Mostly I realise this: when you see a fairly nondescript guy with a hot girlfriend you are seeing him at his peak. That is the hottest girl he’ll ever fuck. He’s probably hanging onto her for dear life, terrified that if he loses her then he’ll never get such sweet pussy again. I’m talking about normal chodes here, not guys who clearly have their shit together. I know this because I was that chode when my ex-wife was a clear two points higher than any other girl I’d fucked at that point.
When we do game we are giving girls a proposition they wouldn’t normally entertain:
- Talk to me, a guy you don’t know from Adam, for a while and give your number
- Come on a date, maybe two…. then fuck
- And I promise you nothing
That’s a mighty big ask. Sure, it’s well within the realm of biomechanical parameters but it’s still a big ask. And we expect to pull it off once or twice a month with the youngest-hottest-tightest girls that we meet. We are paying peanuts and expecting princesses. Sometimes we pull it off.
Now put your Blue Pill glasses on and look at the price the typical chode pays for his girlfriend:
- Exclusivity
- Berated for looking at other girls
- Buying her stuff, meeting her family, going to Ikea on Saturday afternoon
- Putting up with her shit, and her insufferable friends’ shit
- Letting her keep her own frame
- Spending all of his precious finite life with her
He’s not doing her in the ass while slapping her face and calling her a bitch. She’s not overwhelming him with thoughtful affection and favours. He’s on a leash. That’s the price he pays for his pussy. When you learn game there are simple metrics that measure your progress.
More girls, hotter girls, less work, less drama.
Krauser PUA 
June 29, 2013 at 3:41 am
Insightful.
But the flip side to this is that after learning game you start to hear and see that those girls you refer to here are keeping their “boyfriend’s” on a leash while always keeeping one eye open for a better option whether as a new bf or to fuck.
Why is 50 Shades of Gray so popular?
How many posts here have you made where the girl you banged either has a bf or husband?
I now recognize couples with problems immediately and always try to make eye contact.
Very often I do get an IOI: a smile, a raised eyebrow, some perhaps unconscioius, or even unspoken recognition that she would be up for it if chode wasn’t with her.
June 29, 2013 at 9:26 am
“And we expect to pull it off once or twice a month with the youngest-hottest-tightest girls that we meet. We are paying peanuts and expecting princesses. Sometimes we pull it off.”
When postmorteming any seduction, its important the player look back at the bang for his buck coefficient. Players will boast about the 10 they seduced one night in an LA nightclub but we rarely here about how many dollars he invested in the interaction. A cold approach on the dance floor, followed by bouncing around and then back home for a 10 dollar total investment (door fee) beats the guys who attracted the 10 to his table with the 500 dollar bottle service.
I encourage all pickup improvers to keep a simple spreadsheet on their smartphone tallying up how much you spend on a girl pre that all important first bang (where as we all know, the chase/chasee synamic changes significantly) as well as a rough estimate of time spent on the hunt. The results may surprise you. I was spending more money than I realised.
After implementing a number of changes, I am pleased that of the two girls I am dating now, with one I am in negative spend (My spend 0, her spend over 100 euros) and another where I am on 0 spent.
I admit I get an extra buzz when I rail the girl who I am in negative bucks with. I feel smugly dirty, like I upset the natural order of the universe or something…Both girls are under 25 and 7+. It simply requires some readjustment of your game that will hold me in good stead when I return to hunt in the gold digging motherland (russia).
June 29, 2013 at 9:32 am
Oh dear.
June 29, 2013 at 11:34 am
Let me guess, accountant
June 29, 2013 at 4:04 pm
Alex, you’re mindset needs a bit of sorting out to do.
While it’s cool that you’re in the community to improve. It’s very easy to use advantages of money to score girls if you already have loads of it. The downside of this is that it forces you to think on a ‘transactional’ basis, which will eventually make you form a negative view on girls in that ‘you pay her money, she will spread her legs’…
Granted, there are girls like this in the world, but I would advise to avoid that trap at all costs because it will not help you.
Do you qualify the girls you meet?
One of the things I always do when a girl starts questioning anything on the date e.g (The date location, my car etc) is that I always say that I make it clear to them that the date means nothing to me and that all i care about is getting to know them…
If they get offended by it, I drop the date asap. If not, I move forward…
It’s the best way to filter girls out in my opinion…
Most important of all… YOU are enough… Focus on improving you personally. The external rubbish isn’t important. It’s YOU that makes the important stuff happen anyway.
June 30, 2013 at 11:52 am
Steve, I’ll bite as I respect your work – Keeping a track of your date expenses on a spreadsheet is not for everyone, granted. However I recommend it to anyone who finds themselves overspending on girls and it is essential if you’re dealing with soviet gold diggers on a regular basis. Its very easy to run into hundreds of euros spent on them without realising it.
Nick has seen evidence of the quality of the girls I meet, most of them are gorgeous, slavic and yes most of them are interested in how much money I make. As such cost control is an essential area of improvement for me. In the words of DD, I now have it handled.
Wanted to drop bodyfat from 16% to 10% in 6 weeks while gaining some LBM – spreadsheet for that too – Done. Handled. Thats my definition of being a man: Getting shit handled.
Do I do this with girlfriends? No, life is short and to be enjoyed.
June 30, 2013 at 3:03 am
Regarding the beta, it’s crazy how they feed up their girls with chocolate and other shitty food all the time.
The guy I live with never used to buy much junk food, but now he’s with his girl he buys all sorts of chocolate share packs, crisps, and other desserts.
Similarly, another friend of mine is a health freak and ate very, very little sugar. He has now binned his previous, healthy diet and does the same thing as the guy I live with with his bird he met from work back in January. She’s 5 years older than him too.
The beauty of learning game isn’t just about how to pick up girls but also to have them look how you want them to look, act how you want them to act and so on. Even if it is for ourselves, we are improving a girl’a life by encouraging her to follow her biological make up and not become a fat, entitled war-pig.
May 15, 2015 at 5:42 pm
“We are paying peanuts and expecting princesses…”
“…More girls, hotter girls, less work, less drama…”
You left out “, and happier girls”
This is a sexual marketplace, we are not just trading on good lucks. The underlying transaction is dick for pussy. The rest is fringe benefits, the add-ons. The date…that’s just getting fries with that.
Don’t sell good dick short. Good dick is hard to find. I love hearing when the usual woman says, “Oh, if I wanted to get laid, I’d just go to a bar.” Yeah, really? Krauser has been awesome about documenting all the chodes and orbiters that hang out in bars, ready to offer their unqualified dick. What those women don’t say is that they don’t go to bars anymore because chode dick doesn’t make them happy, it just scratches an itch. Poorly if the guy hasn’t been improving his bedroom game. That’s like pulling away from fast food drive-through and finding they gave you the fries and forgot the burger. Daygame finds those women who gave up on bars.
For women it is not just about the penis. The man pushing it is what makes it good dick. The man and the penis relieves women of boredom, loneliness, and sexual frustration. To a woman, that’s not peanuts, that’s priceless. Happy girls are repeat customers. That’s a positive feedback loop that pays huge dividends for improving game no matter what stage you’re in.