Women possess a short fragile bloom of youth. From about age fifteen their body begins to take on a woman’s shape but it takes time for her to grow into it – to lose the puppy fat, have her hips widen, and develop the poise of a real woman – so she is kinda cute but not really able to inspire lust. Depending on the girl she’ll hit her true bloom somewhere near nineteen years old and hold it for a maximum of five years. She can continue to be sexy into her late twenties but the unmistakeable radiance diminishes.
I believe how a woman conducts herself determines the length of her bloom.
Put simply, “good girls” who follow a healthy lifestyle and identify with the feminine last longer than “bad girls” who chart a path through hedonistic waters. The following bad habits ravage a girl’s radiance:
- Excessive drinking. Men are constituionally far more capable of holding their beer over time than women. It’s not merely because a man’s physique is less important in determining his overall value. Women who drink even 10 units a week are seriously messing up their hormones, their shape, and their skin.
- Excessive cock-hopping. Sex in itself adds to a woman’s glow but sex with different men detracts from it. A woman who gets herself fucked 500 times by one guy she loves will look good. If the same woman spreads those fucks across 30 guys she will look like shit.
- Excessive careerism. Women are not designed to carry the weight of the world on their shoulders. Look at photos of Clint Eastwood or Charles Bronson. When a man carries responsibility he takes on a weathered look that adds value. A weathered woman looks horrible.
The extreme case of such short-blooming women are sex industry workers. The ones who rise to prominence, whether as whores or porno actresses, usually do so because in the beginning they have beauty and radiance. They inspire lust in men who then vote with their wallets. But after a few years on the game these girls unravel. Years of new cock, sexual depravity, hustling for cash, drugs, partying…. these girls become empty shells. Consider Lenka Gabarova.
As a debutante I’d put her at a solid nine. My current girlfriend has a very similar look and I dare say that was probably in my mind when I elevated her above the others. She has a clear bloom – fresh skin, sparkling eyes, soft manner.
Now look at her several years later. At first blush she just seems to have degraded slightly through age. But look again, feel the difference. Note her hard eyes and disillusioned posture. This girl’s vibe is now just going through the motions without any joy de vivre.
Sluts have the same problem, just less marked. The typically inexperienced beta male is so overwhelmed by her basic beauty that he can’t read the subtle slut indicators. A few girls come to mind…. Last year I threesomed a Romanian girl who was loaned to me by a wing. She was 21, university educated, well-mannered and to all external appearances a “good girl”. Fully in her bloom. However she was a genuine nympho with self-esteem issues. Although she was an incredible fuck and great company, within months she unravelled. My wing told me she was now getting herself beaten up by violent boyfriends and turning up at his door at 3am high on cocaine, ranting and raving, then disappearing for weeks on end. Needless to say her bloom withered. Another girl (also Romanian, as it happens) was almost threesomed by a buddy of mine two months ago but was on the rag and just settled for giving blowjobs. She’s another hot 21 year-old girl in bloom. She’s also a raving nympho. Last three stories I heard about her were….. caught giving blowjobs to a roomfull of guys in a house party…. SNL’d from a goth club by a tattooed/pierced freak who fucked her so hard she couldn’t walk the next day and she immediately fell in love with him…. rescued from a crack house where she was wandering around naked, fucked on drugs. This girl is already coming apart physically.
I’ve picked extreme examples but just watch for it. Notice the difference between girls in bloom and girls who squandered it. Once it’s gone, it’s gone forever.
May 1, 2012 at 1:03 pm
The difference between the sex worker and the slut is that the sex worker gets paid for this sort of damage, the slut destroys herself for free.
May 1, 2012 at 11:15 pm
That bloom comes from being feminine and fully in her nature. I’d rather prefer a 7 who’s feminine to a more attractive girl who is not.
It creates that glow where you really like the girl. A feminine manner is amazing and instantly creates affection from a man. Its hard to resist.
It makes it clear why men travel from the USA to Europe, South America, or Asia. Even if they’re with the same quality the cultural differences creates intoxicating women compared to women back home.
May 2, 2012 at 6:28 am
I don’t know, I get what you say, but I know some spinsters with a similar look
May 2, 2012 at 8:02 pm
*Excessive cock-hopping. Sex in itself adds to a woman’s glow but sex with different men detracts from it. A woman who gets herself fucked 500 times by one guy she loves will look good. If the same woman spreads those fucks across 30 guys she will look like shit.*
*Women are not designed to carry the weight of the world on their shoulders. Look at photos of Clint Eastwood or Charles Bronson. When a man carries responsibility he takes on a weathered look that adds value. A weathered woman looks horrible.*
CE & CB look like grumpy old men to most women. This “weathered look” seems to be appealing to other men only.
*Now look at her several years later. At first blush she just seems to have degraded slightly through age. But look again, feel the difference. Note her hard eyes and disillusioned posture. This girl’s vibe is now just going through the motions without any joy de vivre.*
The first photo is made in a professional shoot, probably photoshopped as hell. Second photo is a snapshot
*My wing told me she was now getting herself beaten up by violent boyfriends and turning up at his door at 3am high on cocaine, ranting and raving, then disappearing for weeks on end. Needless to say her bloom withered.*
Oh, of course it has to be the sex, no way it could be the cocaine and constant depression…
Seriously, you guys don´t buy this, do you?
April 12, 2013 at 5:01 pm
bc86, please turn the screech control knob counter-clockwise. It turns out that yes, contrary to Fem Dogma, there really are downsides for a woman exposed to the semen of many different men, and getting her oxytocin fix from several different men. Of course the various recreational chems taken to compensate for not feeling the true love don’t help either.
FYI, the 2nd photo is NOT a candid snap, but a professional “post-processed” photo from the very polished glam soft-porn site, Twistys.com.
It was taken less than 4 years after the 1st photo. Not long after, she got even scarier, more de-souled:
This once-luscious porn “star” worked as an escort in several cities in UK and the former East Bloc. A buddy of mine, in London on biz, couldn’t resist her internet ad… he regretted the Euros dropped on a lackluster “burned out” experience. [Interesting extra details, thanks. I’m curious – how much did he pay her? I heard lots of euro porn actresses use the porn as advertising for the more lucrative escorting. I once saw an ad from Rita Faltoyano, for example. K.]
May 2, 2012 at 11:56 pm
I don’t think it’s the cock-hopping per se. That’s a symptom. It’s probably more that a lot of girls who screw lots of guys also happen to have unhealthy lives, drink too much, party too hard, etc. It’s like saying “being Scottish ages you” when in fact it’s the alcoholism, smoking, heroin abuse and diet of fried breakfasts, Irn Bru and monster munch that does it.
May 7, 2012 at 7:18 pm
Speaking of tired sex worker look,…
May 8, 2012 at 2:23 am
Goddam!I almost barfed at the Goth-chick being strung out on crack.Definitely extreme example.
BTW,I never caught wind of the Romanian 3-some from last year(unless you didn’t write a lay report). [The wing who loaned me his girl asked me not to. K.]
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January 19, 2013 at 10:40 pm
“She can continue to be sexy into her late twenties”
Longer than that, if Scandinavian