This is a guest post from my wing and good buddy Moran, the SNL king of RSG
Me and Krauser are in Latvia, been here one night and just about to hit the street for some daygame. Latvia from I’ve seen so far is a beautiful country, more visually impressive than Lithuania and Poland, people seem to hold themselves differently here. And of course, the women are stunning.
I have one main reason for this Journal. I’m being tested mercilessly here and it is truely testing my character. Like BIG TIME. I personally have done some travelling around Europe and have experienced women from most countries so far. But Lavian women are a different story.
I want to gain two things from this trip:
- To understand Latvian women and their culture/upbringing
- To seduce a Latvian woman or two
Let me quickly describe myself to those who are new to me. I’m tall, told I’m a good looking guy, socially comfortable and have a strong desire to rapidly escalate. I can be lazy when talking to women and can give off the typical player vibe if it wasn’t for my straight forward honesty that corrects this. To be brutally honest about myself, I’m used to some sort of feedback off women, however little, especially when I rapidly escalate. I’m used to receiving validation off women and even if it takes a whole night I know I’ll find a girl. However I do not seek validation. I’m used to SNL’s or getting Day2 lays but I don’t expect them as my right to always receive them.
Before coming here I was prewarned about Latvian womens strong manipulative tendencies here despite their beauty, however I have decided to wipe the slate clean and come here with a fresh mind.
11/02/10 -First night
Me and Krauser have some warm up drinks, get pumped up and hit the streets of old town Riga. Warning for anyone that is interested in Latvia this time of year, its freezing! Like -12 on average. But the snow does make the country look beautiful.
We set off down the road and hit the first club we find, called “The club”. What a name for a club Inside its loud and has a Tiger Tiger feeling, so feeling a little at home we set off. The women in here are stunning but young. And already we’re starting to get a feel for the club. Lots of women dancing around by themselves with guys hanging around trying to grind up next to them. The women give the guys a quick look to come in, the guy comes in and the women just turns their back to them. Charming. I start to think that I’m going to have my work set tonight.
Krauser is now off, hits into a three set and starts rapidly escalating. For those who know Krauser this is not his usual way of approaching women but this weekend he’s commited himself to just used that technique. And he was doing well. I approach the only brunette of the set and she’s receptive, I can feel her interest. I escalate and I’m told she has a b/f. Damn. I tell her my boundaries of not coming onto a girl with a boyfriend and say my goodbyes. She then gives more interest. Typical.
After ejecting we set out round the back of the club and find a small room of about 70 people. And now the fun begins.
We start escalating again and again. We’re hitting state now. Krauser is pulling in some cute blonde chick while I’m dancing with some other blonde chick. But I feel something odd about her. She keeps looking at herself in the mirror while dancing and starts pouting to herself. Warning sign. I start escalating hard judging her responses, she looks at me like I’ve shit myself. Then shows interest. Then goes back to her arse face look. Ooo, not good, I sense a manipulator. I eject leaving her standing while holding strong eye with another chick going straight back into set. Again I escalate. This chick starts smiling while looking around. Then back turns and just walks off. Oooo, a nice little blow to me But its still building my momentum, so I turn round and start escalating a chick at the bar and immediately tells me she wants to dance. Hmmm, can’t be going to bad.
So, over the course of the next two hours this sort of interactions keep happening, me and Krauser continuisuly escalating, completely out dominating the surrounding men and having most of the club just staring at us.
I’ve approached about 15 chicks by this point and they are all giving the same response, sucking validation off me and then pretending I’m not there. I’ll be honest here, apart from the bulletproof vibe I give off to women, this is really starting to drain me. I felt like I had just been in a fight and received an adrenaline dump. But I wasn’t giving up yet. I repump myself back up and hit back into escalating. Then the first one comes. The first chick of the night where I can feel her vibe is genuine, not the usual character pretending from the other Latvian chicks. I lock her in immediately and I feel her interest back. This feels good. I go to extract her to another room and a Latvian guy steps in, full body grabbing her.
Me: “Shes with me” **Smiling**
Lat Dude: “I don’t understand” **Smiling broadly**
I tear her off him, he starts to kick off but we leave.
Now here upstairs in the club and she’s asking me for drink and I say I don’t buy a chick a drink unless she is prepared to buy one back. She has no money. I explain in England, men and women buy each other drinks as a sign of respect. She tells me this is Latvia. Urrrggghhhhh. But after that little miss statement off her I still feel her genuineness.
For the guys out there who have experience with Latvian women, is buying a Latvian women a drink (if she is not just tooling the guy) a sign of respect? I need to try and work this out. This chick was generally disappointed when she left, was vastly different from the other chicks here.
Now on my own and make my way back to Krauser. I’m looking around and what I see is just painful. Guys are trying again and again to dance with chicks and they are getting ruthlessly pawned off. Guys buying drinks for chicks to be immediately back turned and pretend they weren’t there. I have NEVER seen so much disrespect for men in one club. The women here were destroying the men bit by bit. Every half an hour a guy would lose it with a women and bouncers would step in and drag him out, leaving the women smiling and giving off a look of satisfaction. How can a man have respect for Latvian women in this place? My respect for Latvian women was certinately getting tested to its extreme. But I have 4 more days here, I’m not giving up yet.
I come back to Krauser to see a chick all over him. Yeeeeeaahhhhhh!! Krauser is getting in there. I start scanning for her friends, they must be ready to escalate as well. Instead I see a guy not far from them both, standing there getting more and more angry. I shortly find out that this is her boyfriend. Oooooo, another blow for the respect of Latvian women. I felt bad for this guy, she kept coming back and again he would have to unzip her from Krauser. What a player.
We finally decide to leave the club. Krauser drops his Turkish potential SNL who keeps fluctuating back and forth with interest then no interest. A Russian chick who keeps trying to tool me and showing disinterest I firmly place as a friend and kiss her on the chick goodbye. She gives me a flash of interest. I leave with Krauser. We make our way to the coats and while waiting I turn round to notice that she has followed us through the club to the entrance. She pretends not to see me. Typical. I smile and go to open but she turns around and runs up the stairs, like fast running up the stairs. Ah man, is this game playing going to end?
Finally we are outside. God it feels good to be outside despite the freezing cold. Me and Krauser decide to go home but he then opens two chicks in the street for fun. They hook. They are both 24 and seem more mature than some of the chicks in the bar earlier. We start vibing with them and the brunette is showing interest.
Me: “I’ve nearly lost all my respect for Latvian women, please help me. I’m dying”
Brunette Lat: **Laughs** You’re beautiful **Smiling**
Me: Pardon?! Just you just say that? I haven’t heard that from anyone tonight. A Latvian woman is actually complimenting me?
Brunette Lat: **Laughs** **Flashing a look of strong interest**
Me: My god, I like you.
Brunette Lat: Come with us to Push bar **Smiling**
Me: Sure, lets go.
This feel good, a genuine Latvian women. She even pays for me and Krauser to get into the bar. Unfortunately this is where the night ends as her friend was married and my girl had a boyfriend. Despite her strong interest and asking me questions like “Where you staying” and “When you thinking of going back” I have to set my boundries again. I’m gutted, I like this chick.
Thats our first night. And my god I’ve haven’t been tested this mercessily every before. I feel good now but when I came in with Krauser I was emotionally exhausted.
We have three more friends joining us tonight, Jambone, Snake and Bhodisatta. Lets see what happens.
Lessons for tonight:
- Filter more. Don’t waste energy escalating strong playerish women. I have to conserve my energy more for women I know we’ll give it straight to me.
- Don’t continously escalate all night long. I was burning myself too quickly, was not surprising after a couple of hours I was exhausting myself.
I MUST crack this and learn about Latvian women. And I’m craving sex. Wish me luck
February 12, 2011 at 4:10 pm
Great in-field reporting. I’ll check out RSG.
February 12, 2011 at 5:19 pm
I don’t understand not getting with a girl that has a b/f if she’s hooking, and the guy’s not a buddy of yours. Hell you don’t even know him here. Tons of girls change bfs in that manner. Or just play around some w exciting enough alphas.
February 12, 2011 at 5:23 pm
Hey Krauser, Try love.mail.ru…
It’s swimming with Latvian girls looking to meet up…
I LOVE Latvian chicks, defo some of the hottest on the planet.
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February 16, 2011 at 7:09 pm
Qualification is key! And here’s the diabolical part: disqualify others. For example, say she is refreshingly mature and not like all the other girls playing hot & cold games. If she likes you she will want to live up to the positive frame and consciously avoid playing games. You did this naturally with the ones outside the club. No do it with all of them.
August 10, 2011 at 6:30 pm
hands off from Latvian women…best in the world !
October 3, 2011 at 7:37 pm
I am Female from Japan and i dont know nothing bout Females but i know they realy respect and love Females! Russians who lives on Latvia is ugly! But Latvians is Hot!
I love LV
[I like Japanese girls. Send me your photo. k]
December 14, 2011 at 7:27 pm
Hey! I am a Latvian, and what I just read from your blog is actually really insulting to Latvian women like me.
1) It is obvious that you were only looking for cheap sex. We are not that stupid. Many foreigners go to Riga expecting any girl to fancy them. Why should we? Women in my country are not only beautiful, they are also smart, educated and intelligent. They might give you a smile, a quick glance, but nothing more but if you don’t match their profile.
2) If you want to impress someone, at least as a sign of a respect, you can buy them a drink. You have to do some more work, to get someone to fancy you. There is nothing more offputting than a guy in a bar who wants to flirt with you, but can’t even buy a drink for you.
May 2, 2014 at 11:51 am
Elina is 100% correct. You shouldn’t play Latvian girls, they are very intelligent and will spot your game a mile off. Russian girls are different.
Latvian women are very beautiful, friendly, and intelligent. They like gentlemen and not players. A man must work and earn money, also he should be willing to spend time and money on her.
June 30, 2016 at 7:31 pm
There is nothing more annoying than a girl who expects men to buy her drinks. Fyi, this is a club atmosphere. Don’t lecture us on men looking to pick up in a club. That’s the only reason men frequent those stupid joints. If you’re looking for some deeply committed man to romance you off your feet you’re in the wrong place you dunce.
August 13, 2018 at 11:09 am
Thats bullshit. Buying drinks is not a sign of respect, a man deserves one just as much as a woman does. Will you be buying the guy a drink after he buys you one? Why should the men work harder than the women to receive attention, are we not all equals, or are you a hippocrite? And, oh by the way – Latvian women are actually more likely to stay single during their lifetimes due to the final sacrifice so many men gave during the 2nd world war. You would think you wouldn’t be putting yourself on a pedestal so much, or at least attempt to fairly treat other human beings.
December 25, 2011 at 12:53 pm
There are easy women in Riga and there are women who will not sleep with you if all you can do is smile and dance with them.
There are women who will not sleep with you the first time they meet you. Ever.
So get over it. Idk what you are used to, but you need to show respect, be willing to talk with them and prove that you are interesting and intelligent.
Don’t you think they see what’s on your mind? It’s very rare that a latvian woman will find that acceptable.
November 17, 2012 at 12:29 am
Went to Riga on my motorcycle (grand Baltic solo cruise) and decided to walk around the real town – not old town. The bars and areas around them are just like you described. In my own case, it wasn’t long before two insanely hot college girls tagged along with me and were fun to chat with. Took them to a nice restaurant and we all had dinner and some light drinks. I suggested to one that it would be fun to get a bottle of Jager and hang out in my room at the hotel. She was definitely interested, but said “what about my friend?” and I say “she can come too!” Well, these girls were incredible fun to be with and it was a wonderful time for all. All they wanted was fun and cab fare to get home at 3 am so they could get to class with some sleep. I’d agree with the Lat lady above about your intentions, they were ill advised. If my sweeties wanted to walk after dinner, fine – I enjoyed their company. I left whatever they did next to their liking, and that is more important to them I think than helping some dude chalk up another notch.
December 3, 2012 at 9:16 pm
hahahhaaaa…. what a loosers! 😀 haha Dont you ever think about seducing a latvian girl. They are too good and too smart for you and they know that. you are pathetic! PATHETIC and i feel sorry for you. Go back to your english girls and stay there. [I fucked one on my second night. Your sister. K.]
January 6, 2013 at 8:36 pm
You seem arrogant. [Thanks. K.]
March 17, 2013 at 11:40 pm
First of all, we have a profession called “consummation girl” whose job is to make guys pay for drinks to make money for the bar. Think you went to places full of them. Second, yes, it’s obvious who is a sex tourist so it’s just natural to leech off them if possible. Sleeping with you people is frowned upon, tricking is encouraged. That’s always something to consider even if the girl wants to hook up. This movie, “Bye buy beauty”, ruined the whole concept of hooking up with foreigners, likening it to prostitution. Look it up.
I think it’s probably easier to hook up in the daytime if you find someone who’s idle and pretend you’re interested in something they’re interested in. Taking girls out to dinner or flattering them by going to see a Latvian art gallery or museum or something like that together would probably be a better tactic.
There’s something I completely don’t understand, though, this PUA culture. Of course it’s fun and feeds your ego etc Notches in the bedpost etc. But what do you get from it long-term? After a while – you’ve fucked with people, with they’re heads, you’ve fucked people. So what? You don’t even treat them as people. They’re just notches. So you can’t gain anything from getting to know someone. Why do this, is the reason mommy issues, general lack of self-confidence or a broken heart?
March 17, 2013 at 11:43 pm
Haha, screened comments, what a pussy.
March 17, 2013 at 11:43 pm
Oh nooo, I can seeeeee iiiiiiiiiiiit :DDDD
April 29, 2013 at 2:30 pm
This was quite insulting….Well,if we talk about Latvian women-we are very different,there are girls who are 19 years old and virgins,and there are girls who are 14 years old and already had slept with half of the country…. 😀
Don’t forget that in Latvia we have a lot of russian girls. It’s more easy to get some russian girl than latvian :p
July 9, 2013 at 1:04 pm
I’m off to Latvia.. heading to Bauska for a Country Music Festival.. I have a girlfriend so I won’t be looking around.. But if I were, the girls sound great! You telling me there’s a country full of beautiful confident, educated, strong women.. who know what they want in life…??? There are countries where the girls are easy, and can be bought.. maybe the writer of this article should vacation there.. ? [Beta. K.]
July 23, 2013 at 7:11 am
Mate. I am with a latvian girl now. All those things you said i am going through and she is suppossed to love me. They love playing games with the heart, head and emotions. Its a trade they have. I have experienced many european women but this one just pushes the limits. She is totally driving me mad. In fact i am losing self control because like you said hot and cold. Interest no interest. Passion no passion. Its all a big game.
August 19, 2013 at 3:09 pm
Paulo, mirror her, do exactly what she is doing. Never give a woman more than she is giving you.
June 1, 2014 at 11:27 am
HI I know nothing about Latvian girl but I just met first Latvian girl 2 days ago and she is so friendly and nice looking. She is so open and very straight forward. I think, she is cool!!
I spoke to her for long time even I just met her first time wow..I am surprised how good she is. She opened her life book just front of me without knowing me enough. She is very easy to talk to, she is funny , smart thats for sure most women are. Now I have lots of respect for her or for Latvian girls. I am here to research about Latvian girls so if I approach her, should be in right way. Before this journal and Meeting with that Latvian girl, I was not aware of them. I am happy that she is not racist at all, may most of Latvian girls are not. Even if she wanted to insult me, she did on face and laugh a little, I found that interesting. I like her attitude and her too but I am not sure how to approach in a manner so she feels comfortable and feel respected. I dont want to hurt or feel like fool for both of us.
If anyone can help me a little that would be better. What she would like, for present or what food she likes etc etc.
Thanks in advance!!