Long distance soul collection – Painter
November 10, 2010 10 Comments
Facebook game is magical. Done properly it allows you to take a weak hook on an unavailable set and gradually work her till she’s eating out of your palm. I met Painter for literally five minutes and a quicky facebook close. She refused the number and gave a boyfriend defense. That was September. Two months later using nothing but Facebook and she’s like this…. [BTW, usually she opens me now]
Me – So you’re alive! [she had no internet or phone during her week in Germany, so we joked she'd been kidnapped]
Her – unfortunately, yeah? ;D
Me – unfortunate….
Her – would you worry, if everythink hapen to me? ;D [she wants to be important to me] english mistakes.. hrrr.. i’m angry with myself
Me – haha, of course I worry! [comfort]
Her – ok then ;] how are you in Croatia?
Me – We are having a quiet night. It’s been raining alot since we arrived
Her - hmm
Me – It’s still fun How was Berlin?
Her – good, but first day was raining too next day was better i liked that city, people they all are polite and friendly
Me – nice
Her - did you saw Berlin? was you there?
Me – No. I’ve been to Dusseldorf I like Germany
Her – you visited a lot of places in the world it’s cool i think, that you are busy today.. and i disturb you [IOIing my high value lifestyle and concerned she's imposing onto my time. These are strong signs she looks up to me]
Me – No, just got a few chats open, with my family and friends I always have time for you [comfort, snowflaking]
Her – honor for me [likes it]
Me – haha, you’re nice [reward, give her a reason why I like her despite her boring life]
Her – and you aren’t i’m joking so, how is your sporting room at home? Are you using it? ;]
Me – yeah, I’ve been fighting my friends great fun!
Her – i think should be fun
Me – yeah, I kicked Lee in the head really hard by accident nearly knocked him out but he laughed [DHV on toughness]
Her – everythink is ok, what finished ok, without aftermath (if you understand what i mean) ;]
Me – all is well that ends well
Her – ok, thanks exactly ;D i will start to go to sportclub
Me – Really? I like that You’re gonna get a really nice ass [sexualise]
Her – maybe ;D i think, that i need more movement [accepts it]
Me – I kinda like your ass already Still waiting for a good photo [keep going with it]
Her – ok, wait ;D i don’t like my ass, so you should wait till i beginn to like it ;D i’m serious [accepting the end result that I'm gonna see her ass]
Me – do you like your tits? [in for a penny, in for a pound...]
Her – you no need to know
Me – haha. Send me a photo, and I’ll tell you if I like them
Her – you want really to much >/ [that's an IOI]
Me – hahaha. Not naked Just a nice bikini photo [set a limit on how sexual this is getting before she sets it]
Her – if other girls sends to you everythink, what you want, don’t mean that i will do this before you have to shave your beard ;D [she's totally accepting my preselection and her need to compete]
Me – Oh, she’s defiant!
Her – should i be defiant? ;D
Me – Yes. It will be more fun to break you
Her – ok, i made a mistake again, but nevermind. my question in my mind was not like i wrote. nevermind ;D so, have you some friends in croatia?
Me – yeah [notice the word count is mostly her writing]
Her – you have friend probably even in the Antarctica friends* ;D [again she is letting me see how much she thinks I'm The Man]
Me – yes, the penguins and polar bears
Her – that was i thought ;D ok, i’ll tell you i like my tits ;D [women like to be sexualised by alpha males]
Me – both of them? [being retarded cos it's important not to be overwhelmed when she sexualises, like a horny beta would]
Her – hmm.. yes strange question
Me – Haha, I’m just being silly
Her – i see your haha sounds ironic
Me – No, I’m having fun How is your homework? [her taking photos of herself for me]
Her – whichone?
Me – Tell me both [direct order]
Her – nothink, i’m waiting for inspiration ;D or inducement ;D [she wants to do it but needs pushing over the edge, for me to take responsibility away from her so she doesn't feel like a slut]
Me – inducement? hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm Are you talking about the beard?
Her – hmm.. i don’t think so.. our homeworks are not adequante your task is too easy i think >/
Me – interesting……
Her – what? first homework with laughing girl is ok, sometime i’ll do it. because i like it
Me – cool
Her – but other [her dressed in underwear doing housework in a sexy pose] it’s not the same that to shave beard ;D i can shave my legs and send photo ;DDD ;DDD understand what i mean? ;D
Me – Yes. I think you should do the second one without your face in the photo
Her – i can fake it ;D anyway, it’s not the same like your homework
Me – Are you re-negotiating the deal?
Her – we can try ;P but don’t give a promise yet I don’t* [= it's gonna happen eventually]
Me – ok
Her – so.. your homework..
Me – I don’t give a promise yet… I need inducement…
Her – me too are your body muscular? you are boxer [she's thinking about me physically, allowing herself to lust]
Me – I look like this
Her – so your photos in fb is fake ;D when i saw you alive, you were slimmer, your weight growing up very fast ;D
Me – haha
Her – so answer is…? is it a secret? you can ask me about my tits and dont want to answer to simple question [minor shit test]
Me – wait ok, what is the question? [playfully defiant but not actually evasive]
Her – dont try to be silly ;D it’s about your body
Me - ok, ask again…
Her – look above in chat is your body muscular?
Me – Quite muscular, but a little bit of fat from eating and drinking too much recently I used to look like this…
Her – this one is better ;D
Me – So you like muscles?
Her – not to much too* health and natural somethink like this wait
Me – waiting
Her - [link to Markie Mark with his shirt off]
Me – Markie Mark?
Her – a little bit too much muscles on stomach yes i don’t say that your body should be like him ;D i think, that a lot of boys or mens with big muscles are with empty heads are not very interessting and they just proud of yoursels yourselfs* [she's telling me what she hopes I am like and how she wants to like me]
Me – Very true
Her – but i’m not saying that all
Me – My opinion is: I want my body to be useful, not just a display I don’t want to LOOK tough. I want to BE tough [reframe]
Her – good opinion, i like that and it’s somethink similary with girls and beauty
Me – how do you mean? [get her to invest]
Her – beauty isn’t everythink if she don’t understand enythink, haven’t her opinion, she is only a doll [from a beautiful girl this is not sour grapes]
Me – Yeah. That’s why I stopped dating models [DHV]
Her - are they stupid? i understand, that not all
Me - Not stupid, just different…. [not slagging them, positioning myself as the man with knowledge of the world]
Her – but you stopped dating
Me – When a girl is beautiful, life is easy for her. Men do everything for her So she doesn’t NEED to develop interesting character Some of them do, most of them don’t
Her – i think, that such a girls are polluting good name of womans i hate them they are marionette in the rich man hand (mostly)
Me – These girls match the guys. Girls = beauty and no brain. Guys = money and no charisma. They match. [reframe away the competition]
Her – in Lithuania it sounds: match like hatchet and handle i cant to translate exactly
Me - I understand
Her – ok
Me – BUT
Her – ?
Me – some of the models are actually nice people just not very interesting to have a conversation with [don't project bitterness or hate, but give her a window of opportunity so she knows she can catch a guy like me]
Her – i don’t know models, and trust, that not all are without brains:] you know.. i like, that you are experienced you saw a lot of countrys, you know a lot of people, your job is interesting i think that you life is almost perfect [could I ask for a bigger IOI?]
Me – Thanks. You’re sweet. [reward, qualify]
Her – and sometimes i fell like.. hmm.. very borring person, which haven’t nothink to tell about yourself and life i’m too outspoken now [she's worried she's not good enough for me so she's bashful. I absolutely love this - she instinctively knows how to make a guy like her]
Me – You’re still young It takes time to build an interesting life, and to have interesting stories [setting myself as her teacher]
Her - you say – you know sometimes i don’t know enythik about my wishes.. i dont know, what i want to do.. and especialy the last month.. [= she's seen a window of excitement and now she's thinking of ditching her boyfriend]
Me – That’s normal for your age [comfort, normalise these thoughts]
Her – i need to talk with somebody from other surrounding ok, nevermind, you don don’t need to listen to me it’s my problem [she wants adventure. Remember she's young, not got money, and lives in a boring country with a normal boring boyfriend. Her horizons are opening and I'm the shiny exciting thing on the other side of the river]
Me – That’s ok. I’m sympathetic to you. What did you do today? [snip the thread before she talks herself into shit state]
Her – i had classwork, then i and my friend(girl) went out for lunch, then went to itycentre citycentre* i went through that bench ;F ;D where we met then, we bought icecream from macdonalds [she's building a legend around our romantic meet]
Me – Nice
Her – and went to cathedral and then home that was really nice day, especialy evening and you/ ?
Me – We’ve been looking around Zagreb went to a big fruit market
Her – did you like?
Me – Yeah, I love to see how other people live I’m starting to like Eastern Europe
Her – you never stay in the one place for long time everytime you do something new and interesting you and your life is charming i don’t know other people like you [another strong IOI]
Me – thanks [reward]
Her – # i’m saying too much ;D [she's way out of her comfort zone but feels compelled to compliment me - the hindbrain is taking her on a ride]
Me - Maybe, but it’s nice [normalise her saying these things]
Her – i never do this ;D and i dont chating with unknown people (you was unknown in the begining) [again she can't quite understand why her feelings are compelling her into this]
Me – Yeah, but we know each other now, and we like each other [give her a rationalisation]
Her – a little bit and i have a question.. you know my “family status”, but i don’t so do you have a woman or no? i don’t understand [she's really letting the mask slip now and openly considering where she stands with me and whether she can fit into my life]
Me – Girls like me, but there’s no-one special [preselect but dangle a carrot]
Her – so answer is no ?
Me – Yes, it’s no [but not evasive]
Her – i understand, that you have a lot of girls, whitch likes you and you like them am i right? [accepts preselection]
Me – yes
Her – ok what is the time in croatia now?
Me - Almost midnight
Her – here is almost 2 at night.. my eyes can close ;D how much time you have? [the restraint is gone, she is happy for me to know she wants to spend time in my company]
Me - I’ll be awake some time longer
Her – ?
Me – I have some time
Her – so, if you say something interesting, i’ll stay a little bit longer in here if you don’t want i stay, say it [strange wording, is she trying to make me chase?]
Me – I bought a remote control car today. I tell you what…. Go to bed. Sleep well. We’ll talk some other time. [to be on the safe side I snip the thread and then order her about]
Her - have a good night. bye
Me – bye