Creating something out of nothing
October 18, 2010 17 Comments
This girl was from club game in Krakow. She was quite bitchy and full of herself but I went very direct, walked her off to a quiet spot near the dance floor and told her I want to fuck her. Lots of sexual stuff. She was interested but not that interested. About five minutes of shit-testing ensued and I took her facebook before she walked off after three failed kiss attempts.
The type of set you never expect to see again. Totally dead. I didn’t even bother adding her to facebook but then I happen to be trawling through my numbers yesterday morning and I see her name, so I add. She accepts. This morning I’m having breakfast and check out her profile – she seems like a normal nice girl – totally different to the nightclub persona. She appears online and this is our first chat, in full:
Me 10:43 – hmmmm, it’s her………. [still need to build attraction]
Her 10:45 - yes, it’s me
Me 10:47 – You look very very different to how I remember [a challenge, teasing her vanity to hook her. Imply I'm disappointed by her photos]
Her 10:47 – ohh
Me 10:48 – uh-huh [begin to flip script to get her investing]
Her 10:48 – I don’t look good in photographs [is this an early sign of qualification]
Me 10:49 – Let’s see……… [tease]
Her 10:49 – [good response, she's biting]
Me 10:49 – In the nightclub you looked lively, sexy and to be honest I wanted to fuck you in your photos…. you look like my french teacher [I was direct in the club, so stay that way and show some balls, give sexual IOI, then tease]
Her 10:50 – you look I will be a teacher no *I will be a teacher [unexpected cold reading hit - play with it]
Me 10:51 – I didn’t like my french teacher she was strict [push her away, but playfully]
Her 10:52 - I won’t bea strict [qualifying herself]
Me 10:52 – hmmmmmmmm [extremely vague response to let her pour her own meaning into it]
Her 10:52 – sorry…my english isn’t good [settling into a defensive crouch]
Me 10:53 – I understand you Can I ask a question? [reward and stack]
Her 10:53 – yes
Me 10:54 – do you have any sexier pictures? in a bikini, or short skirt…. [more sexual, she's warming to it. Frame myself as a demanding guy because I'm high enough value to be able to]
Her 10:54 – no I don’t like these photos.. [shit test to see if I backtrack or soften it]
Me 10:54 – I do :/ [I'm a man, you're a woman. This is completely natural]
Her 10:55 – your a man [clearly, she knows this. She's accepting sexual interest as non-creepy therefore she is pegging me as an alpha]
Me 10:55 - haha [reward but vague]
Her 10:55 – *you’re
Me 10:55 – What are you doing now? [defuse sexual tension a little and build comfort]
Her 10:56 – I’m talking about you
Me 10:56 – oh, she’s a comedien!…
Her 10:56 –
Me 10:57 – grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr that’s my bear noise [just playful retarded shit]
Her 10:57 – sorry and what are you doing now? 10 minutes ago I come back around my lessons…
Me 10:59 – I’m in Starbucks having breakfast and trying to think of a way to get a Polish girl to send me a sexy photo [bring her on board with my plan, be open about my intentions]
Her 10:59 - tasty:) oh, you have to try [playing along]
Me 11:00 - thinking…….
Her 11:00 - maybe some girl will send
Me 11:01 – So, let’s imagine we are married [future projection about to start. Pull her out of her normal world and take her on a journey]
Her 11:01 – I can’t imagine these
Me 11:02 – we are on our honeymoon. Where would you like to go?
Her 11:02 – hmm I would like to see Barcelona I don’t know now or having tournee around Italy
Me 11:05 - I had sex in a car in Barcelona. Let’s got to the south of Italy to the little fishing towns like the movie The Talented Mr Ripley [drive-by sexualisation]
Her 11:06 – I understand
Me 11:06 – Ok, so it’ll be summer. What clothes do you bring?
Her 11:07 – most important there would be a husband by me another tops… my favourite jeans or shorts…
Me 11:08 – how about a light summer dress? I like those
Her 11:08 – ohhhh, I love it! [excellent, she's investing. there's none of the bitchiness she showed in the club]
Me 11:10 – [link to photo of a nice dress]
Her 11:10 – not really like these
Me 11:11 – So we’ve arrived in Italy. I drive an open-top car to our little beach apartment… like this
Her 11:12 – I like these, on the night [link to some dresses] haha nice dog
Me 11:13 – I like those dresses, but they are eveningwear you need something for the beach, because that’s where I’m driving [keep moving it along in my frame, don't let her sidetrack me]
Her 11:13 –
Me 11:15 – Ok, so we get to the apartment put our suitcases down I have a shower
Her 11:15 - yes… I think..me too
Me 11:16 - Not together! We’re just married [tease, show this isn't all abotu getting her naked]
Her 11:16 – not together!
Me 11:16 - So I go first, because I’m more important [chick crack]
Her 11:16 – nno!
Me 11:16 – maybe you cook a quick meal for me
Her 11:16 – it’s not true! [she's enjoying being teased]
Me 11:16 - Shhhhhhh!
Her 11:17 – i’m not housemaid
Me 11:17 – Shhhhhhhhh. The man is talking!
Her 11:17 – I want to be most important for my husband!
Me 11:17 – Have you ever worn a housemaid uniform for sex? [more overt sexualisation]
Her 11:17 – no
Me 11:18 – You should. It’s cool Anyway… I finish my shower and relax lying on the bed for a while [don't back down, but move it on]
Her 11:18 – I believe to the word
Me 11:18 – Now it’s time to go to the beach What do you wear?
Her 11:19 – it’s warm? I think…bikini and..
Me 11:19 – ?
Her 11:19 – lihgt tunic *light
Me 11:20 - what colour?
Her 11:20 – blue or red because I have a brown bikini [this is going well, she's fully playing along and giving tacit permission to think of her sexually]
Me 11:21 – I like blue Ok, so we walk to the beach I’m wearing red speedos
Her 11:22 – why are you so hard with your wife?
Me 11:22 – like the movie [still from 300 movie] Haha, if you think this is hard….. wait until we get to the fucking part
Her 11:23 - you have to be a nice…
Me 11:24 – ok, but only because we are married and in love So walking to the beach You walk a few metres in front of me so I can watch your ass and legs [does this need commentary?]
Her 11:24 – omg.. you think only about sex.. :/ woman it’s not onlu sex machine! remember that
Me 11:25 – I know, women can cook too [cheerful misogyny]
Her 11:25 – pff
Me 11:25 – haha So we get to the beach, and spread our big towel on the sand We open the picnic basket I eat a toasted panini. Mozzarella cheese, sun-dried tomato, sliced egg
with mustard wholegrain mustard. Not the smooth stuff what are you eating? [I'm a demanding guy and I know what I want. I'm also slightly retarded]
Her 11:27 – like French I’m eating fatty meat, whole-milk cheese and I am sipping with beer <lol> joke light salad…, tomatos and I’m drinking water of lemon
Me 11:30 – nice
Her 11:30 – with lemon
Me 11:30 - I like that [reward]
Her 11:30 – [likes reward, she's accepting the submissive position]
Me 11:31 – Now we go for a swim in the sea It’s a bit cold, but not uncomfortable
Her 11:31 – ohh my hair!
Me 11:31 – do you pin it up, or let it down?
Her 11:32 – my hair?
Me 11:32 – yes
Her 11:32 – in summer…i like let it down.. I think – it’s sexy [she's definitely happy to feel sexy around me now. Notice she's not trying to take validation from me, she's simply enjoying the roleplay]
Me 11:32 – nice So we’re in the sea. I’m splashing you you are giggling I carry you on my back, walking through the water Then throw you under, and laugh [future projections should involve you somehow getting one over on her]
Her 11:33 – oohh it’s romantic:) [IOI]
Me 11:34 – You squeak and squeal So I pick you up over my shoulder
Her 11:35 – [all girls like it rough]
Me 11:36 - I slap your ass then carry you to the sand, and throw you down
but more gentle because we’re in love
Her 11:38 – ohh it’s nice
Me 11:38 – And then, as you lay there on the sand, giggling, breathing hard looking sexy I look at your tits, and your ass Then I get out my nintendo, and play video games [defuse tension]
My laptop is almost out of battery. I have to go…. [true]
Her 11:40 – ok we can talk to later [she's hooked]
Me 11:40 – have a good day [comfort]
Her 11:41 – thanx you too